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The amount of pseudo psychology going on in here & the preposterous conclusions folks come to with such a small snap shot of peoples relationships is nothing short of hilarious! Gotta love Reddit man lmao
Just because she's comfortable doing things with you doesn't mean you have to let her peg you.
Hopefully you're not coercing her into anything but it's pretty messed up.
You guys have a pretty big age difference. In any relationship 2 years is long enough to get used to each other and things that each other thought were cute when they first met just don’t make them as excited anymore and can actually upset the other person. It’s possible that’s what’s happening to you two. Especially because of the age difference the two of you probably are used to doing things differently and things that he has grown out of you still do.
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I’m aquadriplegic (30F) with aa trach and constant spasticity thatcan easily throw me out of my wheelchair if if I’m not properly buckled. I alsohave Heart and pulmonary issues, constant tremors. and slurred speech from a neurological condition while also struggling with obesity. I need help with pretty much everything, from showering toswallowing. Needless to Say I can’t be left on my own for long period s.
My. husband knew all that when we first met and he stilll vowed to spend the test of his life with me. I never. quite understood why a successful middle aged businessman would willingly chooseto marry a woman with profound disabilities s like mine, and I don’t say that because of low self-esteem, I’m just a realist. I knew, since I suffered the accid ent in my early teens, that I could still be a very cool aunt, a loving daughter and a great therapist, but I could never be a wife, and I was honestly fine with thatThen I met my boyfriend and we married less than two years into the relationship.
He. was adamant about me moving in with him so he could be myprimary caregiver and so I did. Her is flawless and I’m as healthy as I’ve ever been under his care, I don’t ever get pressure sores. He madethewhole house accessible even before I moved in, so I’ve never been so independent. I can literally only move. three fingers on my left hand in my entire body and I do feel independent with all of the adaptations he’s made just for Me.
He’s also my best friend, a great listener r and we share a lotof common interests. I did sense something was off during the first year of our relationship, though. For example: he would stares. way too much while I was struggling in physical therapy, he would kiss me too passionately every time I came out of a whole body spastic episode and he has always had someweird fascination about my atrophied hands and tremors. My head never stops, it is always shakingg badly, which causes a lot of neck tension, and he would always offer a two hour masssage, which I thought was weird but sweetand helpful. I guess I never paid too much attention to these red flags simply because because I didn’t want to see them.
Three Days ago I needed his computer while I charged mine, so our hired help got it for me. Right on the first page I saw a video of a woman with cp trying to get up from the floor, so i looked at hisbrowser history just to ind out he’s been watching disabled women struggling all day. He even searched for “s everely disabled woman ” and watched videos of women as crippled as myself. And judging by how disabled I am, j think I might be the whole package for him.
I haven’t had the heart to confront him about it yet and I’m not even sure will. I’m just heartbroken thinking that my life isa lie and i don’t know my husband at all. I just lovehim too much and don’t want to loose himbut I can’t even look him in the eye. Impossible situation.
Not about me being scared to hurt her. But we tried to talk about what she wants and she’s basically asking me to do what I want. ?
Fear is the worst advisor, communicate with him about this bad habit.
Communication is key and dont overthink. Your Young and will make mistakes. So will he and it means to keep toxic behavior out of the relationship all u can do is talk, talk and talk some more.
Just enjoy the beautiful times.
Pot meet kettle
From his post it sounds like the physical cheating happened within the first 1.5 years (that’s she’s admitted to), but already admitted she was still messaging this man from a few weeks ago. It wasn’t 1.5 years of cheating, it’s been 7.
You are a disgusting horrible human being and I hope your wife finds this and leaves your ass and you spend the rest of your miserable life alone.
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That sounds like it came from a place of insecurity and he is just showing jealousy. Someone younger than him is doing well and instead of being impressed he just feels bad about himself. Then jealousy is his way to express that insecurity. Definitely not good thing to be doing.
As someone who is in an open relationship who was not totally on board with the concept the only real solution is leave, it will only end in heartache if you try to do it and you not into it.
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they're both scummy as fuck
Dump him and go on 'break.' If he changes and makes an effort, then take him back.
LMAOOOOOOO. Apparently she didn’t clean herself well so he just thought vag was gross so he claims it traumatized him.
That’s all you’re getting.
What is insane is a grown ass woman putting a diaper in her husbands lunch box.
He didn’t disparage her lunches, he just commented that someone’s lunch looked good. She overreacted majorly.
But if she was so upset about the comment she could have just stopped making him lunch. There’s no reason to embarrass him like that. And now she got what she presumably wanted, him making his own lunch, and she’s upset about it?
Sleeping in a hospital cot or chair, sitting in it all day, and being unable to do anything for any kind of mental relief or amusement takes its toll. The “Loved one is there every moment of the hospital stay” thing is a Hollywood stereotype, not reality. You asked too much. He's stressed out by this too, and he needs a real bed at home, not a hospital cot or chair. He's your fiancé, not your personal comfort device. If you want constant companionship, you need a dog.
She cheated homie
Maybe ask him out to dinner but don’t call it a date, invite him over to watch a movie…try and gauge his reactions but also leave yourself wiggle room to say it was only as friends
How you react to her is ultimately up to you. Your original Q wasn't “what's the point” but “how can I do this.” To your second question, it's about how much of a doormat (your words) you're wiling to be, or how much you're willing to do to keep the peace in a dysfunctional family? I'd also recommend going to Captain Awkward & reading her archives on difficult family members/family members without boundaries. She has great practical solutions/scripts. Good luck.
35 going on 15. Yikes.
In this economy?! Nah, dude. Sit down with her and do a breakdown on expenses and if she doesn't get it, she isn't worth it. Masters are important, but also having a lifestyle and your lifestyle shouldn't decay because of her
Yeah, leave him. He is clearly too stupid and irresponsible to be having sex if he can't even do the basics by respecting his partner and putting on a condom correctly. Did he ever take a single sex ed class?
Yeah I don’t like it. Foreplay and then he walks off to the bathroom for five minutes and just comes back out and stands in the doorway nude like he’s expecting applause. I figured he was just weird but writing this out makes me feel so icky I don’t want to go near him again…
I’m sorry but that just sounds seriously weird. On top of the whole lotion thing.
Could he by any chance be using a numbing cream that he’s embarrassed to admit to? To delay ejaculation? Then the scented lotion to mask the smell?
You said it yourself. He wants to control you. This is a red flag. Please take note of this and treat it seriously
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We all have irrational triggers. He just hasn't discovered yours, or if he has, he's too decent to exploit it.
I don't know you, so I can't answer the question why you do what you do. It seems a little passive aggressive to me. Or maybe YTA.
Believe it. He's trash and he's using you.
Op Sounds like you have a good partner. Your insecurities will drive a wedge between you.
He's always been kinda lazy and in an out of jobs because of his congenital health condition but I'm really hitting my limit now.
This is how these things go. People are who they are and very rarely change. If they do, it's tons of grueling work and it takes years (which is why people don't do it).
Marriage doesn't make things better, it makes them permanent.
It’s perfectly healthy to have sex throughout an otherwise low-risk pregnancy. Many folks do so purposefully based on beliefs that doing so will help induce labor. I haven’t looked that up to verify if it’s based in scientific fact, but I do know that 100% of my close pregnant friends have believed it and had crazy amounts of sex in hopes that it would work as their due dates approached.
You don’t need anything past the title, none of this other information is relevant. Hits you = you leave. Safely. Quietly. Without telling him. When he’s at work.
How am I single but this guy who legit throws dog shit has a babe. I must be fucking pathetic.
Actions have consequences. You’re not a victim here.
They should give you the note, they're causing more grief by refusing. Unfortunately tho there isn't much you can do, just wait, if you're willing you could tell them how not being able to read the note is damaging you but I wouldn't push it
Not trying to trash him because I do love him but he works, comes home, plays his PS5 and does it all over again the next day. That sounds terrible when I actually write it out.
She loves the attention and gratitude she gets from working with post-partum women. There are often lots of emotions involved in those situation, I bet your gf gets worked up too and gets a kick from that. That's not being an empath, it's being an emotion vampire.
It is unfixable. He’s unfixable.
stop drinking then
While waiting for the footages and whatever else you need for a report, have you considered buying a mini dash cam? The kind that you can hitch on your bag sling or shirt. Heaven forbid anything bad will happen, but if he tries to molest you again or escalates his stalking, you’ll have proof.
Holy manipulation. Write her a nice text saying that she is a wonderful person (yes, this a lie), and you appreciate all the time you have spent together (yes, another lie). After long and naked thought (truth!), you don’t see yourself as the right fit for moving forward with her (more truth). If you want, mention that she’s talked about suicide when your relationship has hit prior bumps, you hope she doesn’t make that decision for herself (truth and not playing into her guilt game) and, if she is considering it now, she should contact the suicide hotline number in your area. Provide the #. You wish her the best in finding the person she really deserves (a snarky truth).
Then run and online a better life. Block her. Block her parents. Go get some therapy, because she has seriously played with your head. We all have a tendency to repeat mistakes if we don’t learn from them. If you’re feeling really generous, before you block the parents, give them the suicide prevention number along with a note that, instead of trying to manipulate you, they should get serious therapy for their child.
Update: there was a little confusion as to what actually happened. She retold it to me (this time sober) and she said it was her classmates friend that made out with her friend and then asked for her snap.
That sounds very similar and makes a lot of sense. Such a shame that there is so little we can do to change that
Lol. My comment is slightly critical of you and you’re whining about being downvoted.
Thanks for your passive aggressive sign off there. I wasn’t reading into anything but it’s funny to me how upset you got because you assumed I downvoted you.
Lol. Whatevs
That sounds very similar and makes a lot of sense. Such a shame that there is so little we can do to change that
Well there ya go
Update?
And now you see why a 34-year-old man was with a 20-year-old – he couldn't get anyone his age who would tolerate him. Maybe if he spent more time at home and helped you with the kids, you might want to exercise more. Even if you didn't. He knew this about you going in and expected you to be skinny forever. You know it's only going to worse as you get older, right? I would put my foot down and get into couples therapy if you feel like the relationship is worth saving. Personally, I think his behavior is not acceptable at all. Your comments in your edits only make the point more clear. You deserve to be treated better.
See my response to the parent comment. I think you’ll find you are mistaken.
1) Not everything that bothers you is your decision! My husband does all sorts of things that bother me. It doesn’t mean I get to control his life. Maybe your hobbies bother her. She doesn’t get to tell you not to do them anymore.
2) My husband lived with 4 woman for over a year. Didn’t bother me. His best friend was ALWAYS bringing women home. I had no objection when they discussed living together. I can honestly say it didn’t bother me…
3) However if it did, I would share my concerns and let him online his life.
The problem is the men you’re dating. I was with someone like this once. With men like this, there is no line between nagging and reminding so you can’t win. It got to the point where when he said I’ll do it later, or remind me, I just flat out said no, do it now. And I would absolutely not give in and do it myself. He accused me of acting like his mom and I told him it was because he was acting like a damn child. Obviously, it didn’t last.
My husband and I don’t have set chores, we just see what needs to be done and whoever gets there first will do it. If on the rare occasion I do have to ask him to do something, he does it right away. And same with him asking me. At 31 years old your bf should know how to be a better partner. Stop giving in and picking up his slack. He knows he can get away with it so he won’t change.
No not to ask him that. Just talk to him. Tell him what’s going on.
I totally agree and that’s why I’m feeling the way I feel about it. I know how this shit goes and I know how affairs start. I’ve been there before and this is exactly it. That’s why it needs to get nipped in the bud now.
The worst part is she keeps texting her (female) best friend about all of this and her friend is just justifying my wife’s actions, shitting on me, and just honestly not helping the situation AT ALL.
Well time to tell her this child is going to look for a more faithful partner
You've outgrown this loser. He doesn't want to grow with you – he wants to bring you down to his level using abuse and general vileness. Time to kick the loser out and lawyer up for a divorce.
Do not use Clorox wipes on your body!!! Plain soap and water before being intimate is fine. Your going to burn your skin or worse.
I tell my boyfriend to rape me sometimes. I didn’t realize this was so dramatic for so many people. But then again I don’t date men I don’t trust