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Date: October 25, 2022
Meh, you probably got dumped by someone so youre just projecting. Ask anyone in the world if 2 people can stay friends after a breakup and see what they tell you.
People live can be super mean but clearly you came here seeking help, so I'm going to suggest that it may be due to low self esteem and the subconscious belief that you don't deserve real love. It could be an extensive amount of causes. I really recommend going to therapy to sort this out. I used to be incredibly emotionally unavailable and only seek out grimy dudes. I went to therapy for my incredibly low self esteem for a few years and it helped immensely. I feel more emotionally regulated and typical now.
At the end of the day people are going to harshly criticize you, but don't forget that nobody is perfect and we have severe flaws. We just choose what we disclose and show others. You're taking a step in the right direction by putting your flaws out there and looking for answers or advice and that's good.
You're getting downvoted because all the women here believe any woman that is 18-26 and not out having unattached sex with random people every night then you're being groomed.
I didn’t say all men cheat. I don’t believe that at all. I just asked how you know for a FACT that your husband has never thought about sleeping with someone else. You literally can’t prove it. I understand you’re upset because it upsets the balance of the la la land you live! in. People can think about sex with others without acting on it. It’s perfectly normal. At this time I won’t be taking your advice because you seem to have a naive view of the world. But thank you for stopping by. Goodbye.
I have a snippet of my deceased cat's tail hair (he had long fur) wrapped up in my jewelry box, so I don't think OP is too weird for that. I also keep extra napkins and sauce, and the silca packets which I use in drawers and stuff and that's pretty normal.. I think her bf is overreacting but I hope OP finds someone that accepts her for who she is!
Oh sorry, those are from his previous posts (the last day or two).
sounds like pressure erupting. may want talk with a therapist together to relieve the pressure.
WOW this is 100% almost exactly what happened to my best friend. OP, if you read nothing else on this thread – please read this.
She was in a long-distance relationship with a guy from Texas. He moved here (to rural Missouri) to be with her. They moved in together. You'd think that a couple who has been in a long distance relationship – who now are able to see each other all the time – would be getting it on like rabbits, right? Not the case with her and her boyfriend. She wanted to get it on ALL the time. He was always very “meh” about intimacy. She was SO upset about it. Like, why move across the country to be with someone that you don't even want to have sex with? She said that in the entire first 2 months of him living with her, they had sex ONCE… on the first night he came home. After that, he was just totally disinterested. She tried to talk to him about it, he'd admit to watching porn and crankin' it pretty much every time she left the house. Since he was new to the area, he didn't have a job yet… so while she was out busting her @$$ to make ends meet, he was at home – marathoning porn. She BLEW UP at him. He promised to change. This went on for MONTHS. He'd promise to stop/limit his sessions, she'd check his browser history and see HOURS worth of a porn marathon session almost daily, she'd call him out, he'd swear he'd change… then it kept happening. Rinse and repeat. I think they ended up having about 3-4 “breakups” where she kicked him out and he begged her to give him another chance. But nothing ever changed. He never got a job, either. So she'd come home exhausted – but wanting to AT LEAST be intimate with her partner, just to be rejected. Nightly. For MONTHS.
I remember very vividly sitting at a bar with her in our early 20's, her: (half-drunk) – “I love him, but…. f*** this s***. This sucks.” Shortly after that conversation, she kicked him out. He went back to Texas. She never talked to him again.
She's married now (to someone else) and has a lovely family. But I'll never forget the look of sadness and utter defeat on her face when she came to that realization. Please, OP, don't let this become you. Someone with a porn/masturbation addiction needs help, but staying with them and enabling their behavior by continuously forgiving them doesn't do anyone any favors. The problem will continually get worse until you're stuck in a sexless relationship/marriage, resentful to even leave the house. Move on to someone who craves and looks forward to actual intimacy with another soul; not their left hand.
Trolls?? Lol you mean people who are calling you out on your cheating lying bs. What a joke you are
I agree that his wife assaulted him and needs to learn that no means no.
Don't make a baby with this douche.
The only way to tell if the sex was “too painful” for her is to ask her.
The body does not show any reliable and universal signs for pleasure or pain.
This is sex ed 101.
You are not wrong here. You have to have trust in your partner to have a healthy relationship.
She has some real issues. She wants to have a jealous, insecure, controlling guy. That's not how a real man acts.
Tell her that you are not that petson and that you will never be. If she leaves you for it. She nuts. And you just dodged the crazy bullet.
Reach
he never cared about her
Then he wouldn't be dating her for FIVE MONTHS
only loved me
Then he wouldn't be DATING OTHER GIRLS
his family (who always loved me and was obviously misled to believe we’d broken up) doesn’t particularly like her
His own FAMILY thinks she's the main chick and that you two broke up!
She did you a favor by telling you, he's literal human garbage. Imagine a man doing that BS to your mom, or your sister, or your daughter. Whatever you'd tell them to do, do it for yourself.
I could see this reaction being a tiny bit outsized if a.) you hadn't had this conversation multiple times and b.) he had no reason to believe it would bother you – but neither of those is true. I can't believe he left because you weren't going yo have sex with him. That's the kind of shit you expect from a sleazy Tinder match, not your partner of 10 years.
Wtf. They need to teach this shit in schools.
Yeah man they definitely had sex.
So she doesn't want to… wtf, this isn't your right.
I want a friend to take the girlfriend in so that she doesn’t do something self-harmy after reading all that ☹️
Why are you terrified of being alone?
Not these two baby momma and baby daddy…Baby momma got wifed up in a rival trap house with a couple OG's and baby daddy found out. You can forgive but forgetting is hot to do. Cordial? sure. Friends? nah, not when the baby drama from the mama is that ratchet.
You explain to her that you did what you could given the budget and with the shopping trip last week… if she can't accept that fuck her dude
Because he tried multiple times to communicate it with her already amd she is changing the discussion. Also the partie that has the problem by not having sex should communicate the problem. It is not the other persons responsibility to guess and to guess right! She is not communicating at all, she changes the subject and she is also playing with him. When she is horny she wants staff but then she plays with him a little and it doesn't go further than that!!!. Communication is the key and it should not be always from the side of the man but from the women also.
She really isn't good at all. This is not her finest moment. She destroyed OP's relationship with his BF. That's kinda evil. And, she resents the best friend for her pushing herself on him? WTH. She was on the beach with OP. Then, she left OP to have those 15 secs of bump. Then she came back immediately to OP. It IS eeewy.
…you sound so incredibly full of yourself
Because the child doesn’t have to do with the person. I kept it for me, then i told him and he wanted to be involved and proposed giving it a try. So I thought why not, we could try. But yeah the way he is acting is abnormal to me, so i try to understand if i am too much