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slap ass x3 [Multi Goal]
Date: February 23, 2023
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
slap ass x3 [Multi Goal]
No, don't leave your wife. If it was you, would you want her to leave you?
Find a support group and a support system. Talk to her and let her know you're struggling to a huge a degree and you need help.
Break it off, it’s not worth it. Also, break it off via text and not in person. You ultimately don’t know this woman aside from her not respecting you and being told no.
that’s not what bothers me, It just makes me uncomfortable. I don’t want to sleep bare ass hot with a dog next to me. I don’t want my exposed body parts squished up against a pitbull.
I 100% thinks he still has feelings. I feel he’s putting her up on a pedestal and hyper romanticizing their marriage. They divorced because she left him for another man.
You caused the problem and it's okay obvious that your solo time is the fix. Treating her like a sex worker was a terrible idea.
Thank you for a thoughtful message. I know I wasn’t able to give a lot of details, but I appreciated you not making any assumptions and providing a very mature view point.
You have pointed something out that I didn’t see myself or have had a focus on in counselling. Those early years when we should have been making memories, there was an undertone of stress. I will encourage her to go to counselling separately and also see if we can make up for lost time of experiences.
He is a perfect boyfriend
Not for you he isn't. You two have a very significant values clash on this point. He is fetishising something you consider a dealbreaker. You gain nothing downplaying that, pretending it isn't something that makes you quite different as people.
He may not ever cheat but it is clear that now that this is in the open neither of you are able to get over it. You'll always be conscious of it, he will likely always long for it.
And yes, I know it feels bad that something so 'simple' can be what ends a dynamic. But it isn't simple. There are a lot of things at play, attitudes towards sex and boundaries and even just the fact he would insist it be a female and likely would reject a male if you prompted him and etc.
Ooof. I feel her pain in wanting to keep the cat but… have you directly explained to her that your dog might… uhhhh… KILL the cat when left alone?
I heard huskies were prone to this unless properly trained so I didn't want em and got a golden retriever instead.
First, break up with her and block her in all ways you can. Second, block her parents the same way and anyone else who thinks they get to vote on your choices. Third, self-reflection time. Ask yourself why you think you don't deserve respect, love, faithfulness, and kindness. Finally, take some time to put yourself and your own needs first in your mind and in your actions. You may be surprised how lovely life can be when you surround yourself with positive activities and people. You absolutely do not deserve to tie your future to someone who has an agenda to keep you serving her regardless of her actions to hurt you.
My first thought as well
It is likely that you will need to provide her with some short term spousal support if she is totally unemployed. After that- Jane will simply need to grow up. I suspect this will be naked for her and she will guilt you.
The answer though to your quandry is that you need to start the process of detaching. It is not your job to figure out Jane's life for her. She has had plenty of time and sounds like professional support to figure her shit out. At most, I would consider contacting her counselor and giving her the heads up that you will be filing for divorce and there will be a separation and wanted Jane to have some support if needed. The attorney can give you guidance about how much support and property settlement will need to be paid.
At the end of the day- Jane is not going to change and make this process easier for you. She is highly dependent on you and will react to being told that she will need to take care of yourself. While I don't advocate that you become bitter and spiteful, you do need to be less emotionally responsible for her happiness. In that way, you have become somewhat co-dependent and need to address that aspect of it.
He is taking you, your family, and his current situation for granted ? He is in a unique position to get work, even part time, figure out an educational path and begin one (be it trade school or traditional uni) and be grateful for his position. He sounds spoiled but also kinda lost. He needs to figure out what kind of life he wants and go for it, and if this is the life he wants (being a “kept” man) is it what you want to provide? He is 26, he needs to get it together.
He just told me this. I’ve known him for 7 years and he’s never done this before but he was bragging about getting head from other girls while they were dating and how she still doesn’t know
I will probably get downvoted to hell for saying this but OP sounds like he takes everything way too serious and is basically allowing BIL to wind him up. It’s why her parents think it’s funny, they probably talk shit about OP behind his back. Let’s be honest, this shit is hilarious and if OP wasn’t so uptight BIL would probably not even think about going through with it. I’m team Clown hate me if you want.
You can delete things from Google history…
“Accidentally”
In ur 30s you should learn how to comprehend simple messages. I never said that having a degree or major is a sign of intelligence or knowledge. I pointed how dumb your argument was. How can you say that I'm dumb just because I didnt catch up on something widely portrayed in movies? Well, life imitates art but human interactions are much more complicated. However, I have enough of this discussion, all you do is insulting me or being mean when all I ask for was advice. You already gave me one. Now have a great time.
I stand corrected. Maybe you could stop discussing the past and try to forge a caring future. Maybe that thought is wishful thinking. Be happy.
He's fucking her and keeping you as a side piece. Tell her that he's been seeing you and then ditch him
As everyone else has said, you should drop her. She’s weak, and selfish. You can, and will do better.
In the future, when your girlfriend starts “hitting it off” with another guy, it’s time to move on. Because entertaining anyone else while in a relationship is completely disrespectful. I personally would’ve ended this relationship at that point, but it’s water under the bridge now.
You know what you have to do. So be strong, and do it.
Thanks so much for offering honest advice. I’m sorry you and others who did so without dogpiling on me got downvoted. I do value my family and I think my sister does too. We talked today and she said she’s been in her head a lot lately but family was on her mind this week. We have made plans to spend time together tomorrow and I am looking forward to it. We both missed each other.
Hon, you aren’t even correctly understanding the first insane thing you linked. And sorry to blow your theory but I’m fat as fuck lol and very strongly advocate for full acceptance and fair treatment, but I’m also not a delusional science denying nut job. If you’re fat, basically everything medical gets more complicated.
Best of luck. Stop blaming everybody else for your issues. This is nonsense and deep down you know it.
so i should just continue to let them hang? isn’t the girl sus
She sounds very manipulative and dangerous based off the very small amount of information here. Lots of red flags in the way she speaks to you.
Are you on the same phone account? If so, pull up her messaging log
I am sorry, I am not over the clorox wipes on privates yet.
I mean, you're making those comments right now, what are we supposed to believe?
Just chalk it down to accidentally meeting a lady who is a bit of a nutter. Those wipes don't go on skin, let alone genitals :s