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Date: October 22, 2022
Yeah we don’t have any children together and you’re absolutely right, thank you
No positive outcome? Really? Other than not having the obvious guilt, self-resentment, and shame of hiding something from your partner, and then the subsequent “getting over it” or feeling of “getting away with it” that will make such things even easier to do in the future?
This is not a good way to start a relationship.
As someone who was told on her own that my father listed on my birth certificate is not my biological parent, I can relate a bit to her. My mother and step-father sat me down sans any of my siblings or any emotional support for me to tell me she had an affair with her current husband while she was married to me dad. I thought my dad hated me after finding out. He adopted my mother’s first two children when they married. My other sibling is obviously his-brother looks just like him. Me, well I don’t look like anyone on any side of my family.
I pushed everyone away and hated myself among other things. I still don’t talk about it to any family members. I don’t want to be blood related to my step-father.
My advice is to let her come to you when and if she’s ready. That may be never and you have ti be okay with that. She has just had her whole belief system on who she is and where she came from disrupted. She needs time to process that on her own. She owes you nothing in this matter right now. No amount of apologies or explanations are going to make her feel better.
Yeah, I think he will. There’s a time and place for everything. Thanks!
I’m scared because if he says no then my life is over. I can only feel again because of him. He saved me and I need him more than anything in the world
How many times have we seen someone force their partner to see parents they clearly want no contact be forced into contact? Now your bf is suffering because you couldn't respect that boundary. And instead of thinking how you can support your bf as he recovers from his father's abuse, you're upset he's not calling you by a pet name?! Please let this be creative fiction because if not, you really need to reflect on why you keep prioritizing your feelings over your bf's even when he is recovering from trauma.
How about you plan a Wednesday where you only work a half day, come home early surprising your wife with lunch, and then have a chat with her about how you’ve been feeling lately?
Hook, line and sinker
Everyone who responded to the original thread knew you’d buy any excuse. Your life, enjoy?♂️
The fact I’m seeing so many of these type of infidelity posts on my feed is really making me want to stay single.
OP, as the others have mentioned, I’d have a real honest, heart-to-heart conversation with your wife about this. Something isn’t right at all.
Take screenshots and keep all that evidence. It'll be immensely useful when you fight for custody of the child
Her not helping with chores. She started losing the weight a little before we started dating. I'd say that over the first 3 years, she lost about 40-50 lbs. Now, the weight she had lost is back. We do have our own health problems.
Yeah, what she did doesn't make any sense cause you only go to concerts as basically a gift to her. So her buying you tickets to a concert, albiet for a band you like, is ultimately a present for her. Definitely talk to her about it. Tell her you appreciate the present but that you don't understand why she got them for you when she knows you don't actually enjoy concerts at all bc of your anxiety. Tell her you'd prefer if she didn't do that again. Personally, I definitely feel as if she was being selfish.
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That's exactly why I cut off my children. That 5 year old know that cookie was mine.
See how ridiculous that sounds? Because context matters!
Committing tax fraud, committing fraud of a multi billion dollar corrupt company that doesn't pay taxes, and much more I would consider those people trustworthy in my life.
Would I ever hire them or ask them for financial assistance? Fuck no.
Would I cut off a core peice of my family (father) due to his involvement with fraud? No, as long as it had no impact on myself, my family, my friends, etc. At that point he's broken trust.
Some people would easily hurt others with no empathy whike in the same breath protecting or being available for their family. I don't agree with those people but I wouldn't cut them off as they aren't a danger to me or those around me I care about.
That’s a fair point. Neither of us were raving until 6am when we met. But, there were plenty of nights early on in dating where on or another of us closed down bars with friends and all that. Over time, unless work keeps one of us out late, we mutually prefer to be home. Just sort of a natural progression that we seemed to share. Which is wonderfully convenient for each of us.
Have things progressed with your son? I won't lie, I've been checking every day with bated breath hoping to hear that you all were able to move forward despite the miscommunication. You obviously don't owe us an update, but I really do hope the best for you both, even if that's not being in each other's lives.
This is exactly why my I didn’t get married to someone I loved dearly. I was 29 and was 10-20% pro kid/80-90% no kids. My wonderful BF at the time, 34 was 60% pro-kid. And he started hinting after about a year that I would ‘come around eventually’.
I ended up getting married about 4 years later to a man who had 3 kids and a vasectomy who was a wonderful dad and his ex was a wonderful mom.
My ex-wonderful BF got married within a year of breaking up and had 4 kids with his wife.
It was sooooo hot to break up. So hard to say nope to him.
But a life of husband and kids would have suffocated me at the time.
Bcos she is still msging and calling me and blowing hot and cold when she does . I try and keep everything short and not ignore her .
I got into a really bad accident two years ago and broke a bone and got a fracture so I was mortified that it was going to end up like that again by the grace of god I missed the car and the guard rail
Gag and Tim can't spell apparently either
Listen, I'm generally pretty open to accepting when I've messed up, but this isn't true. If I'd known she would be unhappy about it I wouldn't have done it, because why would I do that to someone I love?
If you break up over a joke do him a favour and don’t call him
There is a possibility it is but I have seen enough shitty people to know it might also be true.
Did you have this conversation sober and clear headed or was this a drunken argument? Has this boundary come up before. How did she know “this crossed a line”. Is she the free spirit dance in her underpants type or is this out of character?
Second of all, you must absolutely hold your friends to the same standards as your girlfriend. It doesn’t matter if she went up to them or y’all are an open couple. Your friends should have turned her almost hot bootay around and plunked her your lap. They knew she was drunk and had no problem putting their hands all over her. What if it wasn’t your girlfriend? What if it was some strange drunken girl and she didn’t have a person there looking out for her?? This seems a bit predatory.
For a valid reason. Just the same as OPs request was valid. The ex is the problem.
It’s a stretch to say they’re butthurt lol they were only pointing out that it’s a brand new relationship, they didn’t even say anything else
I'm gonna focus on myself more and become the best. And the doctor she wouldn't be able to afford.
Do you think you should have to push and force the idea on someone? Do you like when people do that to you?
Do you hear the words coming out of his mouth that he’s not ready? Sounds like he’s told you over and over, so no you don’t have a right to be upset that he bought you a cheap ring and you jumped to conclusions that you shouldn’t have.
Trying to force him into a commitment he doesn’t want is going to drive him away. Best case you can try to show gratitude for the gift, apologize for your behavior and have a calm and rational discussion about your future together.
I don’t want her to hurt herself
So you'd rather she hurt you?
She is not your responsibility
Leave this abusive relationship OP
See this is the problem.
Is men, we are simple creatures. We do pretty much the bare minimum we need to do in order to get laid, until a certain age where we snap out of it and will start pursuing a fulfilling loving relationship.
It’s you women that set our standards. SET HIGHER STANDARDS FFS.
He nutted on you (so went in raw on a first date) then had you go home sweaty and cummy. AND YET your still here going ‘but it was a good date so I may see him again’. So whatever he is doing works. Why would he change? Why would he bother treating you, or any other women with respect when he can get away with not?
I was afraid someone would say that but that was on my mind too.
But isn’t having the pin the same as having the card? It’s a semantic difference.
You can’t use Clorox on genitalia.she has other issues
So, without saying “love”, tell me what you get out of this marriage.
What tangible, emotional, specific benefit does being in this relationship provide? Love is not an answer here because it's vague and easy to hide behind. List specifically what you get out of this relationship. Specifically what makes your life better by being in this relationship.
This doesn't sound like a fulfilling relationship. Or a partnership.
You sound resentful and burnt out. Unhappy. I can't say I blame you. I wouldn't be happy either.
So, what do you get out of this marriage?
What does marriage mean to you? What do you want marriage to look like for you? In your current marriage, are you happy? If no, what would need to change in order for you to be happy? Can you realistically see your husband making those changes? If yes, what steps do you think need to be made to start seeing those changes? Therapy? If no, what do you plan on doing about that?
Where do you want to be in 5 years? What would your ideal life look like? What steps would you need to take to shape that future?
The best advice anyone can give you is not on how to make your husband view your family as his own. He isn't going to. You've been together for nearly 2 decades at this point. If he doesn't treat your family as his own by now, he isn't going to. Nothing you say or do is going to change that. The best advice you can get is to think reflectivity on your life as it is, and determine if you are happy. If you aren't, determine what changes need to be made so you can be happy. They may be little changes, they may be much bigger changes. But only you know what those changes need to be.
Ultimatums won't getting you anywhere. He will change for a few weeks then fall back to normal once he will feel secure again in the relationships. Change takes will and time. He doesn't seem to have the first so there's truly no hopes. If he was willing to go to counselling, maybe… But he doesn't even want that. Truth is he likes how things are and see no interest in changing or listening to you.