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Bitches never die, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 17, 2022
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Ohh too bad for him then you can't go! If he wants you to pay when it's his family event then, he'll have to pay for yours too. Either that or you need to ask him to borrow the money.
Don’t stew silently. Either go find the circuit breaker box and flip off the power to the basement, or go downstairs and tell the least drunk of his friends that you need to work in a few hours and they need to turn the music down.
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Yeah they rarely are true connections between people
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I’m socially awkward ? but I will definitely try! I found my soccer team through facebook & I’ve had good luck finding people on facebook in the past, so hopefully it works out again here. I also hadn’t thought of bumblebff but it’s definitely worth a try! I got 6 more months to try to make it work here
I feel that I always want to see her, but she doesn't want to see me as I always ask her to make plans, not the other way around. I do so much for her to make her feel loved, but it never gets reciprocated.
Has this always been the case?
Have you ever spoken to her and made the suggestion to her that hey, next week – I want you to make the plans or tell me what you'd like to do? Failing that just talk to her and explain that it'd be nice if she were to be the one to make plans or pick at least one thing to do? Start small, doesn't need to all be about “right, your turn to plan all this stuff”.
Our interactions used to be so natural and we would bounce off each other like a comedy duo, and I always looked forward to that one day of the week. However, things are not the same.
How long has it been like this? has it been a gradual change or sudden?
It could be that she wants to see you more and it's really not what she's wanted to have you see each other so rarely – it could also be that she's emotionally “checking out” of the relationship as she just isn't getting out of it what she wants.
Again, you need to talk to her, bring up that you've noticed some changes and for the sake of not just your collective wellbeing, but health of the relationship need to understand where you both are in this together. A relationship is, after all, about both of you meeting halfway in a lot of ways and it sounds a lot like she doesn't.
There is also a massive lack of intimacy I like to believe that our sex has been good in the past.
So are we again talking that you would, at every meeting, bang like rabbits and over time this has reduced?
This isn't necessarily a sign of anything bad – plenty of couples once they're “comfortable” and know each other better, alter the frequency of their intimacy. It could be that if you're only meeting up once a week that she just doesn't want every time you meet up to be about fitting in “scheduled sex”.
Do you do other things when you meet up? Go places? Do stuff that isn't just “hanging out” and having sex etc?
Again, unhelpfully if she's not that “into” communicating, you need to talk and this is part of it too. It doesn't need to be brought up in a way that'll make her feel she's at “fault”, just ask – Hey, I want you to feel good and help me to achieve that with you. Next time we're together and you feel comfortable to, can you tell/show me what you'd like?
Altogether though – this paints a picture of a relationship that isn't necessarily in the best health and needs a clear cut commitment to either improve it, or cut your joint losses. You've both at a point in life that the world is a proverbial Oyster.
Talk with her, go somewhere and spend some time together – take a good, well-chosen point to just work out what's going on in her mind – she could have other things that have been going on in her life and she's just….not telling you? There's no way of us knowing if this is her losing interest in the relationship, if she's had some kind of trauma or event happen, is actually finding someone else appealing instead or what – but without talking, you won't know.