I have told a few people almost everything, just not that we hooked up. I know it probably sounds stupid but I just can't bring myself to do that. It's mainly because I have such strong feelings against outing someone even if they are being an asshole but I also hate the idea of people knowing what happened. I feel like an idiot and I feel a bit disgusted with myself. I know for some people hooking up is no big deal but I'm not like that.
In response to your addition about your interaction with your husband tonight, I think it is fair for you to pack HIS bag and tell him he can stay somewhere else until he is ready to behave like a mature adult and have a productive conversation. Until then, he needs to remove himself from the home.
if he does not do that, it is time for you to make an appointment with a marriage and family therapist and tell him the date and that he needs to be there because you can't do this anymore. If he refuses then it is time to call an attorney and discuss your options.
Move by yourself and send the soon to be ex back to his mother and father. They didn't do their job.
That is…oddly tmi, even for Reddit lol
you mean the band? They are good gor sure but idk if they'd keep me hot if I had a erectional disfunction
I have told a few people almost everything, just not that we hooked up. I know it probably sounds stupid but I just can't bring myself to do that. It's mainly because I have such strong feelings against outing someone even if they are being an asshole but I also hate the idea of people knowing what happened. I feel like an idiot and I feel a bit disgusted with myself. I know for some people hooking up is no big deal but I'm not like that.
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In response to your addition about your interaction with your husband tonight, I think it is fair for you to pack HIS bag and tell him he can stay somewhere else until he is ready to behave like a mature adult and have a productive conversation. Until then, he needs to remove himself from the home.
if he does not do that, it is time for you to make an appointment with a marriage and family therapist and tell him the date and that he needs to be there because you can't do this anymore. If he refuses then it is time to call an attorney and discuss your options.