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Room for online sex video chat Bessy_Olivia
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Date: November 17, 2022
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So WHY are you marrying this monster? Sounds like you don’t want to.
This is insane lmao
A drinking problem, a fidelity problem and capable of physically assaulting you. Sounds like a real catch!
You could have gotten really hurt yesterday if the crowd had turned on you or assumed you were also planning on doing something nefarious with your now-ex.
Return at your own risk.
You have to get a life and do things so you're not thinking about her all the time. Remember that she is a human too and can not be texting you back every second. Get busy with things and you'll also have more to share with her when you do hang out.
Can you actually answer my post?
The place you live is a hugely different decision than a phone or car, because it is the place she will likely live! to if your relationship is serious or gets more serious. That you aren't considering her in it clearly communicates her that you don't ever view her living there in the future, which is communicating to her that your relationship is not serious and/or may be about to end.
Im happy that you are ok.
It really doesn’t matter how “important” your relationship is to her op- she’s a drug addict. You need to come to terms with that. You need to decide if that is something you want to help her navigate while also raising your child. She’s addicted to coke and will need professional help to get into recovery and you and your daughter DO NOT have to be victims of her addiction.
I am in recovery for almost 7 years from IV heroin addiction, I also was using coke and meth daily- but my DOC was always heroin for obvious reasons (you get sick without it)… so I know a thing or two about addiction, and also about getting and staying clean and active in recovery. My first advice to loved ones of addicts is to look into local Al anon chapters- you need support too. My second advice and isn’t always popular is that it’s OK to leave her during active addiction. I don’t believe she will be able to just quit like that or else she wouldn’t be spending 300$ a week and would have already quit/not doing it daily. These are signs of an actual addiction which nothing you or your daughter can do to help. She needs professional help and honestly supporting her from afar is likely you and your child’s best bet. She is an inherent danger to her child as an addict- idc if people try to say otherwise, that’s a fact. Using coke (or any drug)is dangerous to the child on numerous fronts- the fact she has the substance in the home means it’s possible for you daughter to find and ingest and well you know how that would go; the mood swings from a coke addict are unpredictable and she surely is neglecting your daughters emotional needs- maybe even physical. It’s just not good.
I personally- would not accept this as the status quo and I would demand she go to an inpatient program and if she chooses to not do that, then you need to walk. At the end of the day only SHE can do the work to quit and it’s not as simple as loving someone enough to quit… she can live you and the kid to heaven and back and still be unable to quit. She needs professional, inpatient support to even hope to be successful in recovery.
I’m going to guess she’s not ready to quit and I’m sure will push back but you can only control YOU and you have a daughter now to protect and take care of. It would be honestly neglectful to stay in this relationship with her and continue to fund her habit. Do the right thing- set a boundary, she can choose to get help or leave- either way get some Al anon and tell your family- you don’t need to deal with this alone and hiding it will only enable her more.
I truly hope you listen.
Was your wife ok with your son coming to live with you guys? What she’s doing is not ok but I wonder how much say she had in the situation. I can’t imagine many people would be cool with finding out their spouse had a secret child they didn’t know about.
Like many others have suggested, I think therapy is needed for everyone involved.