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Date: February 18, 2023
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AmateurPub
Take off pantie
Either he wants a space without his gf to the extreme, or he's flirting or doing something you would get mad at. Either one is possible. But he's made his decision that you aren't welcome. So now it's up to you on where to go from here.
To answer the question at the end of your last paragraph, I just feel like in some way I want to be the best that she’s had. I see it as if she’s satisfied with me she wouldnt even think about her prior flings
Correct/ignore me if I'm midsreading here, but this is what I got from your post:
You get insecure and request reassurance from your gf regularly, and with increasing frequency lately. When she raises concerns or you two try to talk things out, you get emotional and start crying.
Look, neither of these things are inherently unreasonable in a relationship or make you a bad person. However, they both put a lot of emotional labour on her. If it's normal for conversations to get derailed and become her needing to comfort/reassure you, then she isn't left with any way to resolve things that bother her. She'll naturally start to just bottle them up to avoid the tears and that's not the path to a healthy relationship. Of course you should be able to expect some comfort from your partner, but from this snapshot of your life it sounds like it's getting a bit one sided and I can understand her feeling burnt out or trapped.
It sounds like in both cases you need better coping skills. If therapy is an option, please pursue it. You should also make sure you have a strong and healthy support system outside of her (friends and family), are eating, sleeping, and exercising well, etc. If you can identify and eliminate stressors that would be good too.
If you find yourself getting emotional, try to put the conversation on pause with a planned time to resume it, then go self soothe or get support from a friend. Follow through on your committments to resume the conversation. Best of luck.
Sooooooo if the guy you cheated with still has a shirt that’s yours at the house, you just leave the shirt and get a new one. They may not be having sex but they could be still having an emotional affair. If he has to go to these extremes to keep a tab on her and she is still seeing her AP then it’s time to break up
Okay I’ll allow him to spend the night with his step sister
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