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Bela Ford | Expect me to go live between 11:00am – 8:00pm (MDT), 29 y.o.
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Date: November 22, 2022
Yes. It's fine if it isn't expensive or anything, as long as it's wrapped and makes her excited.
She's not your granddaughter, but she is a child who is going to attend your Christmas dinner. It'd be unfair if all the other children are there unwrapping present after present and she's left wondering why she isn't getting any.
Though I'd expect your son and the girl's mom to bring presents for her anyway.
We also don't know how much of her you'll see in the future. If your son and her mom stay together, she'll be around a lot. You definitely don't want to be the mean step-grandmother who didn't even try to give her some bauble for Christmas. Especially since you don't seem mean at all 🙂
A child will not save your marriage. It will not make your wife a nicer person.
Once again, you're moving the goal posts. I'm not saying she should have gone, I'm saying it's an absurd stretch to say that she will definitely have an affair if she goes.
I thought she did a pretty good job of explaining why this situation brought up a lot of emotions and made her feel confused and conflicted. It's obviously possible that there's something else going on that she hasn't admitted to us or to herself, but it's astonishing to me that you think you know with complete certainty that she's hiding something, what it is and what it will lead to. You simply can't know that.
I'm not married, but I have a long-term relationship. My boyfriend wouldn't be uncomfortable with me seeing my ex, but it's probably not a fair comparison because it wasn't as serious as OP's past relationship. If the situation was different, I think the details would be really important — whether there's any good reason to foresee a benefit from the meeting, how strong and well-founded bf's feelings are, if there's anything that would make him more comfortable, etc. I doubt I'd resort to Reddit for advice, but then again, I've never resorted to Reddit for advice on anything. People are different.
You are allowed to have boundaries and many others are commenting great advice.
I just want to add that it is not a little bit of money, if I had the body I would love a grand for one night of work as a side hustle.
Not to mention she might be thinking of it like it is in her classes. It's very possible she does one shift and the gross men that she interacts with give her the wake up call that it is NOT the same.
I say all this because I feel like you need some perspective so that her bringing it up isn't what ends the relationship. If you have the boundary after taking the time to research and examine your personal biases, and she knows your boundary and makes the decision to pursue it anyway, then you're in the clear. Getting the ick because she's tossing ideas around to solve a problem you don't view as a problem seems like a childish and close minded end to a marriage.
I have been in a very similar situation to you OP! The first thing I will say, is that it can be a bit of extra work so you just need to decide if you are up for it.
My BF didn't have a whole lot of experience before me, so he was also super shy, very unsure of himself.
Patience is going to be key. It might take her some time to realise you are genuine, but stay consistent.
Pay attention to the little things.
You may need to “show her the way” so to speak, while letting her take the lead. It's a hot balance to get right, so I was always upfront with my partner, but made it clear that if he didn't agree/couldn't meet my expectations (e.g. cleaning), that's ok. He could say so, and we talk through it together.
So why continue a relationship with someone that you KNEW financed his mom’s life? A great and easy way to get his entire family to hate you and cut you both off is by trying to get him to stop funding his mom’s life.
Unfortunately yes. It’s like a 99% sure she’s lying. 1% sure it was a glitch or I’m just missing something.
If you're thinking about cheating on him might as well just get a divorcw