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⚡, Doggy Style//Custom Vid 299tk*7mins [Multi Goal]
Date: October 6, 2022
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⚡, Doggy Style//Custom Vid 299tk*7mins [Multi Goal]
I see… But I'm afraid it'll make the friendship awkward.
There is no friend in your story. A friend wouldn't do what he did. He hit on her after you introduced her as your date?
If it was ok what he did how come he kept it a secret?
Did the girl parallel date you and your “friend” or did you two stop dating? I mean, there must have been some time between introducing the two and them going on vacation. Is your friend aware that she also kept dating you? Sounds like a match made in heaven then.
I'd try to get out of the lease and block that backstabber asap. As for the girl, you dodged a bullet.
Also OP your could probably talk to that professor who's house you went to when you were helping with a research project and let them know what's been going on they could probably advise you better than any if us could.
I just want to add some perspective here. My dad died when I was 18. I inherited a small sum of money (not millions, low 6 figures) and a small property. I invested the and have doubled its value. I will be selling the property to help me buy a house this year.
All of that sounds really great right? Sounds like I’m set?
Well I still don’t have my dad. He didn’t see me graduate college. He has never seen any of the performances I’ve done outside of high school. He’ll never see the house I’m going to buy. He never met my cat who is basically his grandchild. He will never meet my boyfriend whom I think he would love. He wasn’t around to celebrate when I got my first big girl job. I don’t have anyone to walk me down the aisle when I get married.
I would trade my slight upper hand and stability for my dad any damn day and I bet your friend feels the same way.
I’m not saying a ton, but they need to meet with more than one. They need to find one that fits their needs. So meeting with 3 is not a bad thing. You don’t go with the first AND ONLY one you meet.
I'd be quite insulted myself tbh.
That is the only reason why you wanted me to go? Was to help with your hotel costs?
I could completely tolerate a “Hey, my friend is undecided to go, if she doesn't do you want to come?” leaving it up in the air.
But to lead with the hotel cost point?.. ouch.
Does it sound confusing if someone you have talked to for a while says they want to have a relationship but not be exclusive even though being that at the same time just without the label? Idk if 2 months is too little to say stuff like that since we haven't talked any heavy or complicated.
I don't think its confusing.
I think what you should be doing is trying to keep each-other in the loop. Its better to understand exactly what is going on, having direction, knowing the game plan, then to let what ever happen, happen.
Its kind of like taking control of the connection and directing it. Leading it to something, instead of hoping it arrives at its destination.
At minimum, there should be periodic talks about how things are going for each side. Regularly updating each-other.
You need to develop the capacity for real self-reflection. If this many people are immediately pointing out how selfish and unreasonable your position is, you need to consider that you might truly be in the wrong instead of lashing out and trying to justify yourself.
Yeah we've talked in depth about the reasoning behind breaking up. I trust her even after this and know she'd tell me if that was the case. Although it's definitely something I've thought about and friends have mentioned. I've even let her know that's what it feels like and I want her to prove me wrong. What we broke up about was something that she realised could have been talked about and resolved instead of breaking up so that's why she realised she fucked up. She also told me it was just an in the moment thing and there was next to no intimacy.
She randomly brings up that he wasn’t her first choice after being together for 10 years and married and he’s the insecure one that needs therapy???
Words are great but when it came time to stand behind your words and demonstrate your convictions, you didn't. You trampled all over your 'word' to please your parents. Then you asked him (sounds like you pleaded and pressured him) to also betray his convictions to please your parents. He has absolutely no reason to believe you when you say 'it will just be this one time' because your word is worthless. You've shown him that you'll throw away your values and convictions in a heartbeat for mommy and daddy. Not only that, but you'll pressure him to bow to their whims as well.
He doesn't trust you or your word anymore. Leave him be.
Mate, did you read what you said.
You cannot call something self defence and disproportionate at the same time. Now you're backtracking and say, “k not it's not self defence.” You're all over the place.
I know for sure what I would've done in that situation…not maim somebody. Glad the rest of society doesn't think that's a reasonable response and we're all not walking around with broken arms.
Your point and my point are polar spectrums, idk how they can be conflated has both being reasonable. Never have I been pushed or slapped and retaliated by stomping on somebody's neck or breaking their leg, does that sound reasonable to you. You literally just said earlier it's not proportionate.
Never pretend
for sure did the right thing. block him so he can’t take any more of your mental energy by creeping back into your life. i also recommend some mental health support for your self esteem in making the right choices and advocating for yourself! always worrying about other people comes from a good place but will wear you down in the long run.
Yup I don’t think you are having kids with her. Move on now if that is what you want.
Read very carefully; “You will waste your life waiting for this woman.”
It’s time to lace your boots and walk.
He’s the kind of person, that heat of the moment, not thinking, goes right for the most personal thing he can.
That’s unacceptable. That’s not someone you can feel safe being emotionally vulnerable with. That makes a relationship untenable.
And he moved right in with you? That is a little odd.
You're being downvoted because you are a self-righteous child who is still wrong but utterly incapable of perceiving it, hence your crusade to “correct” everyone who has identified your atrocious behavior and your feeble attempts to hide it under a cloak of “you can't judge my being an ass because it's my culture.” You'd be surprised how familiar I am with the culture in question, and being an ass is not usually considered a vital component of it.
If she wasn’t gaslighting him from here to kingdom come I’d say it was worth salvaging but she’s being pathological at this point. There’s nothing worth saving here.
Ok how do I go about talking about it without it sounding like I’m saying I don’t want to have sex with him? How do you say this to someone with fragile ego?
The biggest issue with growing up with affluent parents is that it stunts people's emotional and inter-personal growth. Being a man basically doubles those disadvantageous marks, and being a first born triples them, though I don't know about the latter. In any case, he's got a lot of growing to do, and you are not going to be able to effectuate those changes, at least not easily.
Essentially, you need to think about what will be best for you and your son. Your happiness is paramount and a key part of that. Relationships are consensual, even if you're married, you have a right to move on from the relationship, hopefully in an amicable way.
I have friends that have done the same thing. They absolutely do not want to give birth or have children, but if a child landed in their lap and needed help, they would absolutely have and would step up and be an awesome stepparent /adoptive parent.