Boundaries – you relationship is in sore need of some – any. It's not controlling to demand that someone (dude or not) NOT be at your home everytime you get off work.
Leave it there. You werent rude considering what he did, and wasting anymore energy on Bob makes you shift your focus from your friends marriage, to You and Bob's history.
No, don’t ask her to leave the tip. Something tells me she’s a shitty tipper.
Boundaries – you relationship is in sore need of some – any. It's not controlling to demand that someone (dude or not) NOT be at your home everytime you get off work.
Leave it there. You werent rude considering what he did, and wasting anymore energy on Bob makes you shift your focus from your friends marriage, to You and Bob's history.
Exactly, kindness and politeness is for the worthy….Bob is far away from that!