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hello guys , ♥ let’s make each other happy today [Goal Race]
Date: October 31, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
hello guys , ♥ let’s make each other happy today [Goal Race]
I’m gonna empathize with you on this but give you insight on a different kind of perspective. You say “I know she wouldn’t want me giving my ig out to other girls” absolutely. But women, unfortunately, are dealt a worse hand of cards when trying to reject men. I’ve dated one person and he never questioned why I gave people my ig (I also am the kind with lots of followers).. in this new age, giving out her number is one thing. But an account that is already publicly accessible that also evades her from potentially getting in danger? Very safe and I 100% don’t think she means to hurt you by doing so.
I want to resolve it but like I said there wasn’t a miscommunication. I’m not apologising for being clear and still not being listened to. She agreed to come to one bar then kept extending that, why should it be me who apologises?
Hard to advise when I don't know you, your backgrounds, motives or plans.
What I can tell you is that, unlike a fine wine, your situation will not
get better with age.
1.) For the last 20 years or so there has been a very clear shift in greater equity
for females' employment seeking to find an equal footing with male employment.
What tends to confound this is that while industries are reflecting on this shift,
some are not. Teaching, Nursing and Social Services are still viewed as primarily
“female” career paths. Your husband can continue to experience swimming
up-stream for employment. Germany DOES have a reputation for re-training
and thats worth looking into.
2) Not all males are highly-motivated to seek-out work and to stay with it. I
often make a strong case against MJ for the manner in which it saps ambition
and motivation. Further rejection, either immediate or deferred, also sap the
motivation and undercut ones' avowed purpose. Your husband is showing
the classic “defeatest” behaviors secondary to this sort of situation.
3.) You are in the position of “rescuing” your family in the immediate sense.
BION the response to this by the “rescued” (see: your husband) is invariably
anger driven by how your accomplishment underscores his failings and
impotence.
As unkind as this sounds, the time to make a decision is now as waiting
only allows your situation to spiral downwards at a faster rate. If you choose
to stay and fight it out communication with each other and dedication TO
each other is Key.
If you are leaving, make the decision together without rancor and after
an honest assessment, then move on. FWIW.
Cuz my husband and her husband work together and have a shared hobby.
What happens, the men you match with never ghost you?
There’s absolutely no challenge, if the roles were reversed: it would also be absolutely fine if he were scratching himself or playing with himself.
You think you’re some kind of intellectual, catching people out on some weird hypocrisy but, honestly, you just sound like you’ve got some issues of your own to sort and you probably shouldn’t be offering anyone any advice.
why would you crave connection with a random guy that isn't your husband?
when you have female friends you have a connection with, and you have guy friends from your past your husband has met/knows about?
yes, be dressed, and meet friends.
what is it about dressing up and meeting strangers that is so appealing to you (as a married woman)?
He always give the best foreplay, he doesn’t even start til I mention that I’m ready and I’m usually the one who starts things before we goes at it
Every man looks at other women and every man that says he doesn’t is lying. I take that back gay men are not looking at other women. They are looking at other men. Isn’t my wife watching MTV shows where none of the men own shirts the same thing as me looking at Instagram hos?
It’s so weird the spectrum with people that care about privacy and people that don’t. Like I don’t care if my girl goes through my things because I like openness and transparency but if I go through hers It’s like I killed a kitten and ate it.
If I decided not to divorce the selfish AH on top of the extended wait period, I would make him “worship” my hooha for at least a few weeks. Seems like a fair apology for his idiotic request right, if he can't worship my hooha, why should I let him enter its inner sanctum.
This relationship has no good future. End it.
First off, she won't remain loyal.
Secondly, in this day and age, a lone female travelling abroad is a case of human trafficking waiting to happen.
You really think you can't do better than this? Really?
If this is the best you can do, you need to be single and improve yourself to a point where you get access to a better dating pool.
If you couldn't get it up to satisfy her, would you seek medical help specifically to satisfy your girlfriend? Has she done that? If she hasn't gone that far, she's too selfish for a relationship.
Honestly, does she even view it as a problem?
No you’re right therapists will say not to admit it
Join bridging the gap on face book, literally create an account if you don’t have one. You have been used to a shocking degree, you have a full on hobosexual.
Get a reality check, there’s a whole world out there, I hope you can love yourself enough to leave.
And why a 6 year of difference should be a red flag?? This make no sense for me
I think both choices are terrible and the fallout will be worse if she knows in this case and your pretty much ending the relationship you have with your son. Worst case scenario she stays with him and he decided to cut you out.
He may think that he went overboard and feels vulnerable that he did that and you reacted the way you did.
Send him a message (or better yet call so he can hear the sincerity in your voice) and just tell him how you feel. Tell him why you've been so avoidant. This could be just a misinterpreted situation on his part.
Tell him you are so glad he's opened up himself to you and that you really, truly care about him and his feelings and apologize for being what could be seen as avoidant or cold towards him.
Communication goes a long ways !
Both of your sound immature in your decision making. You will be a single parent if you have this child, so be 100% ready for that.
Exactly, OP is insecure. She needs to just sit down and reflect on her insecurity. Why is she assuming that she isn’t his sexual preference? That’s so weird to me.
“that's not possible for my life circumstances currently.” Then MAKE it possible. Get a job and save up in a separate bank account. He is a douchebag and this is not a loving dynamic!
Only last night? Give her like a week before worrying, she's just shaken up (understandably). Also, not like you'll probably get burgled again any time soon (since you mangled that guy), but do let the police know.
No person is obligated to pay for the housing cost of anyone except their own child. Since you don't seem to understand I will explain it to you. When child is at Dada house he covers 100% of the cost of child care. Then the other 50% of the time when child is with mother she pays 100% of costs. See how easy that is? No need for any man to be paying for any woman to have the privilege of never having to take care of herself. If your such a proud feminist then why aren't you claiming the mother is perfectly capable of taking care of the child and don't need no man?? Op should get 50/50 custody and tell his disloyal 304 to pound sand.
Before she had a child?
Pretty sure it still takes a sperm to make a child….
You guys get so emotional when ya asked to take responsibility for your actions.
This has nothing to do with the relationship that failed, it has to do with the care of a child they had together.
You can lose the quotes around rape. He raped you.
Yes 100%
There is no trauma Olympics there are no winners
It happened too you op, it’s relevant to you, it’s real, your aloud to feel what you feel and do what you need to do about it
Luckily we do not have any joint accounts. What really sets me back is rent, its almost $2000 per month, and then her health insurance which is another $500.
That goes more than half of my salary there.
God I'm so sorry to hear you went through all of this. People who lie about abusers are just as bad as abusers, in fact lying about abuse is abuse to the person wronged. She maliciously ruined your life bc she wanted to, that's so messed up. You deserved better, and I'm sorry she did that to you.
A girl lied to me about being assaulted, and I thought she was being honest at the time, so I warned others who knew the guy. When I realized she lied about it, it was too late. I will always feel guilty for blindly believing her and spreading that about a perfectly nice guy.
If I could give you a hug I would. I'm sorry your ex was garbage.