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LOL what's with the down votes? The wingman's job is to keep the third wheel busy if that requires flirting that's what you gotta do. That's why I wouldn't do it while in a relationship.
Just kind of weird thinking of it from the girls point of view cut the guy 95% just wants to screw you. just thinking of how pissed any of my partners would be with me hanging out with somebody who wants to bang me.
Honestly, that depends on what the “something big” is that happened between you and your boyfriend.
Because if this was about a fight or something like that, then involving mutual friends is not a good idea. You're basically asking people who like both of you to pick sides. That never, ever ends well – as your boyfriend now learned, since your friends seemingly sided mainly with you. However, it is just as valid for friends to step back in such a situation to avoid blowing up the rest of the group.
But if this was more about something you and your partner went through together (like, you were out together as a couple, got mugged and now don't feel safe anymore) and your friends are then not supportive when there are no sides to pick, essentially, then they are really shitty friends.
That said, some people generally are only “fairweather friends”, meaning they meet up with friends to hang out and have fun. Nothing deeper and if things ever aren't as “sunny”, then, for those people, the friendship has basically run its course. They want fun, not invest work or time into a friendship. If your friends fall into this category, then it literally doesn't matter what that “something big” was – they would have always reacted the same way and only cared about their fun. Deeper friendships aren't possible with such people.
How did she manage when he was in school in another country, did she call and text so much then? If not it’s ridiculous that she does it now. The 9 pm curfew is absolutely ridiculous. He’s almost 30.
I agree sit him down away from her, have a serious discussion about your issues, set boundaries about her, let him know what your thoughts, feelings, and dealbreakers are. Be firm about those dealbreakers.
Maybe it’s the area that you live but up north there are a lot of decent paying jobs. You need to sit down and map out a plan. Judges at least in the north will generally grant you equal parenting time. If she make vastly more money she may owe you spousal support. I guess figure out what you really want to do and go talk to a lawyer about what that will look like. Also try counseling as a last ditch effort. There is help for people without money you could research that as well for your medical needs
I disagree. I am not an idiot. I proved you wrong in some of your points, you admitted it yourself. If there are 2 people debating and one person proves wrong the other… Who does your intuition tell you that is the idiot?
Point 2:
I am fine with limiting the amount of women that I feel compatible with. If I am not sexually compatible with someone and I don't enjoy sex with them, I won't consider them the love of my life. My preferences might be unusual. So? Are you gonna force me to have sex with someone that I don't want to have sex with? Are you gonna shame me until I have sex with them and date them? Who are you? The Church?
Point 3:
Exactly, some women have the labia naturally inside, not only in pornography. As far as the pornography question… What business is it of yours?
I agree with not telling her under any circumstances. Thank you for the advice!
Exactly. My wife and I have been together almost a decade now, since our early 20's. When we first were together and discussing things, we talked about having kids. Multiple children in fact. We also agreed to have a long engagement as it gave us more time to make sure this is what we want forever. After about 4 or 5 years of being engaged, we had this conversation again, and neither of us wanted children. We get married and had completely different life goals from when we were basically kids.
LOL what's with the down votes? The wingman's job is to keep the third wheel busy if that requires flirting that's what you gotta do. That's why I wouldn't do it while in a relationship.
Just kind of weird thinking of it from the girls point of view cut the guy 95% just wants to screw you. just thinking of how pissed any of my partners would be with me hanging out with somebody who wants to bang me.
Not a judgment, you do you, just feels off to me.
He’s a piece of shit. Should be fairly obvious to you. Break up. Never speak to him again.
Very true, some people find it distasteful. I worked with a married woman who thought french kissing was gross.
She's a miserable elitist snob… with autism.
There, fixed it for you.
Honestly, that depends on what the “something big” is that happened between you and your boyfriend.
Because if this was about a fight or something like that, then involving mutual friends is not a good idea. You're basically asking people who like both of you to pick sides. That never, ever ends well – as your boyfriend now learned, since your friends seemingly sided mainly with you. However, it is just as valid for friends to step back in such a situation to avoid blowing up the rest of the group.
But if this was more about something you and your partner went through together (like, you were out together as a couple, got mugged and now don't feel safe anymore) and your friends are then not supportive when there are no sides to pick, essentially, then they are really shitty friends.
That said, some people generally are only “fairweather friends”, meaning they meet up with friends to hang out and have fun. Nothing deeper and if things ever aren't as “sunny”, then, for those people, the friendship has basically run its course. They want fun, not invest work or time into a friendship. If your friends fall into this category, then it literally doesn't matter what that “something big” was – they would have always reacted the same way and only cared about their fun. Deeper friendships aren't possible with such people.
You have to set boundaries. And if she disregards them then you know she doesn't respect you. Can't love someone if you don't respect them.
Bf says she tracks him for safety, right?
How did she manage when he was in school in another country, did she call and text so much then? If not it’s ridiculous that she does it now. The 9 pm curfew is absolutely ridiculous. He’s almost 30.
I agree sit him down away from her, have a serious discussion about your issues, set boundaries about her, let him know what your thoughts, feelings, and dealbreakers are. Be firm about those dealbreakers.
Maybe it’s the area that you live but up north there are a lot of decent paying jobs. You need to sit down and map out a plan. Judges at least in the north will generally grant you equal parenting time. If she make vastly more money she may owe you spousal support. I guess figure out what you really want to do and go talk to a lawyer about what that will look like. Also try counseling as a last ditch effort. There is help for people without money you could research that as well for your medical needs
I'm guessing they thought they could be like “oh Johnny's son, Steeve, went to the zoo last week” and no one be the wiser. But like.?????????
Then he should have stopped.
Without a enthusiastic yes there is no consent and he did keep pushing after sh was clearly not interested.
Okay run!! Run as fast as you fucking can!! His got sleeping pills in his apartment which it seems he has used on you, you need to leave him!!
Point 1:
I disagree. I am not an idiot. I proved you wrong in some of your points, you admitted it yourself. If there are 2 people debating and one person proves wrong the other… Who does your intuition tell you that is the idiot?
Point 2:
I am fine with limiting the amount of women that I feel compatible with. If I am not sexually compatible with someone and I don't enjoy sex with them, I won't consider them the love of my life. My preferences might be unusual. So? Are you gonna force me to have sex with someone that I don't want to have sex with? Are you gonna shame me until I have sex with them and date them? Who are you? The Church?
Point 3:
Exactly, some women have the labia naturally inside, not only in pornography. As far as the pornography question… What business is it of yours?
I agree with not telling her under any circumstances. Thank you for the advice!
Exactly. My wife and I have been together almost a decade now, since our early 20's. When we first were together and discussing things, we talked about having kids. Multiple children in fact. We also agreed to have a long engagement as it gave us more time to make sure this is what we want forever. After about 4 or 5 years of being engaged, we had this conversation again, and neither of us wanted children. We get married and had completely different life goals from when we were basically kids.
Pack up and get ready to move out. He'll either backpedal or you'll know it's time to go. Your car is a lifetime commitment.
Unless…now hear me out now…they are from a parallel universe where they didn’t date
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I did a double check, too. I was expecting maybe 20 or 21 years old.
I don’t think you can. You two clearly have different coping mechanisms and him having negative feelings on yours won’t go away.
From the other comments he doesn’t seem all that great but you have some learning and maturing to do as well.
Leave him before he leaves you with bruises.
Your bf loves to manipulate you and Gaslight yourself into thinking you're the problem. Leave him.