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Sounds controlling. My gf and I go on separate trips with our guys and girls. It would be extremely selfish and shallow to deny that because of one’s own insecurities.
I also went to Thailand with boys and didn’t partake in sex tourism. It was part of a larger Asia tour for a couple months with some friends. Have ~8 other guy friends that I’m pretty candid with and haven’t heard of anyone partaking in sex tourism. And they were on the sleazier end of people I knew in college.
I think this sub is full of some very jaded and insecure people
i guess so
? Because cheating is not okay? You can have crazy group sex and still not want to participate in an affair?
Mature adults adapt … perhaps it wasn’t obvious before, but he is not a member of that set.
Girl, move on.
When the guy is in wheelchair and doesn't remember his name while she has not graduated from high school
You sound like a pain in the ass to date
If she does walk it’ll be a perfect opportunity to find someone who doesn’t go through your phone, even if you say it’s “okay” it still shows a lack of trust, nobody has ever taken the time to look through something without expecting to find something it’s human nature.
I have a professional, but I still share with my friends, just as they share with me. He isn’t my predominant ‘emotional outlet’ and he doesn’t act as a therapist. We just share.
I’m not judging if what they are doing is right or wrong, just that I don’t wish to be part of it, if those are the rules of the game and so do the rest of the friends, which he is upset by.
Everyone recognized how mature I was.
I feel a threesome coming on………
Why on earth does he need to adopt a cat when there’s already cats in the house? I wouldn’t want a man who thinks like that to be around my cat.
Yes, tell them that you rhino their exs have plans.to.dind partners and not die as lonely can ladies
Maybe the guy really likes you..and that's why he thought he didn't need tinder anymore..
He deleted tinder….I don't know how was that SHADY? You are thinking upside down.
It does sound like he may have an alcohol addiction and that is why he is drinking more now, because of recent life events. Addicts will often seek temporary pleasure and escape in their chosen vice, in his case this is alcohol.
You have a kid on the way, and have just bought a house together. His life as he has been living it until now, will be over. He will have amplified responsibilities and this likely caused him to drink more.
Having arguments with him when he is drunk sadly won't have any effect as often he won't even remember the conversation the next day. He might need professional help, to resolve the alcohol issue and sadly you are suffering the consequences at the moment.
Hopefully things improve fast, for your relationship and the baby
I won't. She's going to stay with me and I'll fight for that
From how much you know about this guy, I wonder if YOU ARE this guy?
You can do what one of my exs did ignore me and stink eye for five hours then cry uncontrollably because she could not believe that I was not apologetic about her dream. That really made me realise she was unbalanced!
But i love her and i dont want to loose her but sometimes i think that too but i'm too attached to her that i cant let go of her but i think i am going to tell her that my parents obliged to taking test.
You’re not abnormal. Seasons come and go. My wife and I are in our 30s and are highly sexual. But we also have three young kids and I have a demanding executive job.
Time, emotions, energy level, life pressures, anxiety, etc., all plays a part in what we want and can do.
It’s easier to compare your life with someone else’s and rate yourself as better or worst. Focus on having a healthy, fun, engaging marriage and if one of you wants it more, communicate.
You two are fine. Always work nude though at emotionally connecting with the other, even if it doesn’t lead to sex!
Unfortunately your husband just found out that if you play stupid games you win stupid prizes. Most women are emotionally connected when it comes to having sex with somebody. If your husband didn't know that then hes an idiot. But hes the one who encouraged all of this so I hope hes happy.
Only answer op should look at
You have never tried to prevent this from happening….Really? You’ve been having kids since 19 years old fam, you can chill now. You have 3. I kid you not it’s not like you have to have kids until you no longer can’t have kid. You can actually chose to not have kids.
are you okay?????????
Your girlfriend has already proven that she's morally bankrupt. The best thing to do is move on.
Girl I'm sorry, but he went through with the affair so easily. That's not ok, nor does it bode well for the future. He did it easily now, he'll likely do it easily in the future
You aren't married yet, so you have a chance to get out now without many issues. Leave. He planned that affair and didn't stop himself to think about how it was disrespectful to you and would hurt you.
Get an STD test and leave. It's nude, but no one deserves this
You’re right. Thank you.
Take screenshots and tell him.
Its different when its your daughter but if you don't want to even try that its time to talk to family. Or hang on till you are 18 and can move out.
Also see if you can get a motion sensing camera in your room to see if he comes in there while you are gone. AN ex caught her step stealing her underwear that way. That's when her mom finally woke up to what a perv he was.
I was kind of on the flip of this, I skipped grades so I was the super young person with older friends/boy/girlfriends. I think as long as you're the same grade, it's ok. On paper, the age gap will look weird, especially when you're 17 and he's still 15, but you're in the same year level at school and that counts for a lot.
Honestly, just have fun. Don't call her your girlfriend, don't call this a relationship, don't take this seriously. Keep your options open too.
Sometimes you don’t do anything wrong.
It just seems like she might not have liked you as much.
And then is better to end it.
Is time to do things you love, cry your feelings out and so on.
You will probably find someone who loves u for u.
So your 35 year old father married and impregnated a vulnerable homeless teenager? Yikes..
He did say Ella had a penis. So how is that rude? It’s stating facts. Are you okay with Ella having a penis? That is not disrespectful to ask.
Take the holidays to decide what you want. Your friend trio is imploding no matter what. She’s been hooking up with Greg for a while, he’s leaving the trio if she now chooses you. You have enough feelings to be a crush and aren’t going to third wheel if she keeps sleeping with him. Be prepared she also will decide what she wants, and there’s a chance that she chose Greg and you were the drunken hookup when he wasn’t around. She could be just saying what you want to hear when she’s with you.
Then I think an abusive technique like this would make reconciliation harder to achieve.
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“Guys, what do you recommend? What type of shackles should I use? Preferably some that dont leave any marks. Because I obviously don’t want any Mark’s (or Steve’s, they give me bad vibes) around MY propert….err, I mean girlfriend”
Yo asking any Jews here do you really have to get circumcised to convert? Like it’s not optional as an adult?
Just show him this post.
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Honesty is the best policy, especially when it comes to sex. I know if be upset with someone who lies for that long about anything. Though he doesn't sound pleasant either. In your next relationship, don't lie
Both you and her are not ready to be in relationship and compatible with each. Your relationship is not a living one but a lie. But not only you lie to each other hut yourself. Do yourself a favour end the relationship.
And it doesn't change the fact she had a couple of ONS and alcohol and partying was involved. She knew what she was doing and expected not to get caught.
Break off the sham marriage and be in therapy. If you want to be better partner then you have work on yourself in therapy. I hope she does it too because she has the same requirement.
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I've always walked away from people that keep enemies to our relationship around
There is only one ultimatum here and it's for you to apply on yourself
“Am I putting up with this anymore”
That answer was always no for me and meant I left those people with my self respect intact
I dont even make the threat these days as I learned that pushing and policing my partners actions around keeping people like this around, just trained them to hide things more
Just walk and let him work out why, I'm sure he'll have his ex to bounce it off
She sounds mentally draining. You’re probably making the right choice, you only live! once, find someone who lifts you up not brings you down.
Imma just read the title and say this. What s the point of a RS if it just gives you stress and headaches ? Like better be off alone lmao. To avoid this next time, don t jump into a RS too soon. If things become inconsistent and you re left wondring about things or stressed out then it s bye bye
Ps: stop using the word female
Figuring out the finances? Girl. I hope by that you mean you’ll be figuring out your own finances and getting out of that awful relationship.
You say that all your friends think he’s such a great guy … BUT… there’s always a but, isn’t there??
He’s such a great guy BUT he doesn’t even prioritize you over his hypochondriac brother on YOUR WEDDING DAY. THIS ISN’T JUST AN ORDINARY TUESDAY. IT’S YOUR WEDDING!!
I see you’ve ignored the issue of breaking up very effectively in all of your comments. But, please, get your head out of the sand. You can’t continue to play the ostrich and pretend like these issues aren’t huge ones. You are effectively in second place after a man who is 10 years older and has panic attacks which he needs his baby brother to manage for him. He has had his entire adulthood to figure his shit out. Instead, he leaned nude on his much younger brother. THIS MAN WILL ALWAYS MAKE YOU THE THIRD WHEEL IN YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP. With the unlikely exception that your fiancé cuts him out of your lives for good – you will always be second best and the second priority.
Also, do you really believe that your fiancé’s actions today have shown him as being really concerned for your well-being? He drops you off with your friends in an absolutely devastating manner and refuses to even consider how absurd he’s being? It’s obvious the brother doesn’t want your wedding to happen… but I’m not even sure that your fiancé wants to marry you. If he wanted to he would, and all that.
Please, for the love of god, have some self-respect. I’m so sad for you, but also appalled that you’re really sitting there and continuing to allow thoughts of this relationship going forward. Sometimes, love isn’t enough.
I wish you all the best.
Understandable, but let's say this a real post (not a creative writing one). If you read the part where OP found the pictures of his late wife, you'd see that it's not that about jealousy at all. OP feels uneasy because she and his late wife look strikingly similar, and have very similar names on top of that. And at this point she also realizes that his daughter (her stepdaughter) has never mentioned her late mother, so now she doesn't know if he's lied to her and said OP is her biological mother. It's not about jealousy, OP feels like she's just been a replacement for his wife and questions their entire relationship.
Draw a line with the drinking. It only ever gets worse. Trust me.
Why is that the case? I'd think an experienced swinger would only do it if it turns them on and would be relaxed enough from having done it before. It's it really so stressful to see another penis in action?
I don’t blame him. I wouldn’t want someone to move in because they can’t support themselves and wouldn’t want to be responsible for financially supporting someone I’m only dating. It wasn’t that he’s against you living together, he was wary of the circumstances.
I think this is formatted to make him look very bad.
I can understand where you may not have felt loved when he didn't immediately say yes to you moving in, but quite frankly that would not gave been a smart decision on his part.
If you weren't already at a point where you were ready to move in together, your relationship would not have benefited from you putting financial strain on him by moving in.
Yes lawyer up and make sure to get screen shots of these extramarital plans of his.
Agreed 100%. It's common courtesy to at least tell your friend after so he doesn't hear from someone else
Just never talk to him again. Let him work it out for himself. Never drink that much again? What a fuckin joke. He would have to completely stop going to bars if there is any hope of him not drinking that much again, not gonna happen anytime soon. He was so excited to get drunk that he couldn't even wait for you to join the party. Then he “got lost” because his friends were the priority, not you.
I have a brother that gets black out drunk (angry drunk) and starts fights, taking care of a train wreck like that is terrifying. I had a friend that would get black out drunk (reckless drunk) and would run from the cops and lose all rationality. Just don't. You aren't even super serious with him, move on to better people than that. Drinking releases his rage, jealousy, competition, domination. It feels good while it's happening and then the next day he loses memory of it anyways, he's not going to change for a casual girlfriend.
Yes,that's why I'm thinking to end this matter and listen to her entirely.
I don't have any advice but I'm here to back up your POV. It's disgusting and gross. And yeah, so is her period. No one needs to see anyone else's bloody toilet paper. What a gigantic slob.
Your husband is not entitled to your body. If you say no sex without condoms, then no sex without condoms. Full stop. He doesn't have to wear condoms if he doesn't want to, but he has to accept that no condoms means no sex. If he isn't willing to abide by that very reasonable rule you set, then you may want to rethink your relationship with him.
I don't normally advise lying to your spouse, but the fact you are literally afraid of the fall out of him knowing something as innocent as going on the pill leads me to believe your relationship has much deeper problems. In the time being I don't think you need to tell him if you don't want to, but eventually he will find out most likely.
Agree with the counseling. I tried to make an appointment and they said we each needed to seek separate counseling first before doing couples. She found a counselor but she was awful, always late for appointments, sometimes not showing up. I’ve found it very difficult to find what we need.
Run!
There are live! apps for room layouts.
She could hire someone to come in and work with her on room design/layout.
There are fabric slides you can put under the feet of furniture so it slides on the floor (not carpet obviously).
No is a complete sentence.
I'd tell her she can come only if she is currently single with no plans on ever going back to her ex and only if it is for the goal of becoming more than just friends. Tell her you will not wait on her another year.
You don't just have to worry about him being creepy to her friends, you have to worry about him being predatory to her. It's sick I know, but incestuous sexual abuse is unfortunately a real thing.
This is not a situation where both parties hurt each other equally and need to come together to make amends.
OP’s fiancée brought up her feelings about having children being more ambivalent than they were in years prior, and OP responded by saying one of the cruelest things he could muster up in the moment to hurt her for the crime of being honest with him.
Just because OP could have said worse doesn’t make him a hero. He cannot unsay those words and his fiancée cannot unhear them, and will now know to brace herself for verbal abuse should her life goals change or not completely line up with OP’s.
They did talk about kids! She went along with it at first … and then admitted she didn't really want them later.
OP, your BF's abusive behaviors and anger issues cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to his having very weak control over his own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills he had no opportunity to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If that is an issue for your BF, you likely have been seeing the following 4 red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, he started showing strong jealousy over harmless events — or started attempting to isolate you away from close friends and family? He would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing THEM over HIM. Moreover, he usually would hate to be alone by himself.
Second, you would be seeing him rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein he tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because he also uses B-W thinking when judging HIMSELF, he hates to acknowledge making a mistake. To him, it would mean he is “all bad.” He thus would blame nearly all mistakes on you and view himself as “The Victim.” Always “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” his victim status, he would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend himself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in his frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see him expressing his rages to casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. He usually gets along fine with them. Rather, the outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or his parents).
Fourth, you are convinced he truly loves you. But you often have seen him flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells. These flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. And a few hours or days later, he could flip back just as quickly.
OP, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
Kill yourself you piece of trash
I've had a few exes. But only one that I was fully and truly in love with. Most of my exes when I heard about them getting married or having kids, my thoughts ranged from “oh good for them, they're so cute together” to “lol” to “oh that poor woman. Someone should've warned her.” But the ex I was once in love with, I saw a random pic of him wearing a wedding ring, and I completely broke down. I was useless for the rest of the evening.
He and I had been broken up for awhile and hadn't spoken for a long time. I was under no illusion that we would get back together, but this was like definitive proof that the version of the future I once imagined with him was completely gone.
I'm with a man I love and I see our future together so clearly. But I still needed to mourn the past relationship. It was like finally having closure on that part of my life. After that night of crying, I felt much better and even more committed to my new life. I can't explain it. It didn't change the fact that I love my current boyfriend more than anything. It gave me something I didn't know I needed
fighting emotions that she’s not good enough
This is still only taking into consideration her ex's opinion(s) of her. Hence she has a degree of hangups over an ex. Enough to bring her to tears.
I've never seen somebody this clearly emotional over their ex while they are dating somebody else.
It's also an experience not exclusive to women.
C) Ask her if she wants to take a picture afterwards. Mock her in front of the audience if she does not.
C) Ask her if she wants to take a picture afterwards. Mock her in front of the audience if she does not.
Its always me you take step forward. Honestly i am tired.