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Read the post again. He's saying that his new gf sometimes makes a joke about penises, not that she's saying his is small. He also says he knows his penis isn't small and that this whole thing is his problem and that he should get over it. And he's right. Also, I'm not sure why you're throwing around the word trauma like it's nothing. I don't see evidence of actual trauma here.
I just think making the entire subject of penis jokes off-limits as you've suggested is overkill. You can't constantly make demands like that in a relationship, you're gonna burn the other person out.
I suppose I could rent out the whole house and use that to pay the mortgage? I would never be able to afford to online in it ever again, which is heartbreaking.
Once the mortgage is finished or when you refinance, those would be times to move back in if you don't sell
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With everything else you said, WOW. I hope things get better for you.
This Q could have ended at “wh*re”. Don't date someone who makes you feel bad about yourself regardless of what else they're doing in life. You don't have to justify that he's just as bad as he says you are to know that this is a damaging association. You made the (common) mistake of believing that a cheater can change and you didn't identify his “love bombing” for the act of sociopathy it was. This is just a bad guy and you need to try to move on.
It sucks but she has a new person in her life that is top priority right now. I would let her reach out to hangout, im sure she still thinks of you as a best friend. This doesn’t have to be the end of your friendship, I think she may just be preoccupied.
Because unfortunately it's ingrained in young women to placate and please everyone around them. It takes years to deconstruct this depending on the family history and culture of the person in question. This is something I had to figure out myself in my late twenties. Old ass dudes know this and that's why they target younger women with less boundaries.
I think it would be very difficult to find a person who has never masturbated. I think it would be difficult to find a man who hasn't masturbated in the past 72 hours. Everybody is out there jackin' it non-stop.
Obviously you have been in her position. Think about what you would want someone to do for you.
You were broken up, you didn’t do anything wrong. If you’re single: Go fuck, girl.
Hyphen it
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But if you're truly over an ex, why do you need their photos on your camera roll? Especially if they (and I don't know if they are in this case) are posted to social media already. So he wouldn't be deleting it completely. And brains are used to store memories too. Better than electronics usually. 😉
Like I said earlier, OP needs to decide what his current girlfriend means to him and what he's willing to compromise on.
This is an abusive situation
This is aggressive to you
Would he do this to future kids?
Run fast and far
Dude, this is some serious shit you're dealing with here. It sounds like you and your girlfriend are going through a really tough time with this stalker, and I can totally understand why you're both scared and unsure of what to do next.
First of all, I think it's important to recognize that your girlfriend's fears and concerns are totally valid. Based on what you've told me, it sounds like she's been through some pretty traumatic experiences in the past, and the idea of getting the police involved might be bringing up some of those old feelings for her. At the same time, though, I think it's important to remember that this is a serious situation and you both need to be as safe as possible.
With that in mind, I think one of the first things you should do is try to talk to your girlfriend about her concerns in a calm and non-judgmental way. Let her know that you understand why she's hesitant to involve the police, but that you're also worried about her safety. Try to listen to her thoughts and feelings without getting defensive or dismissive.
From there, I think you should explore some other options for getting help. For example, you might want to reach out to a therapist or counselor for some additional support. Or, you might want to consider contacting a local victim's advocacy group or organization that can offer you both some additional guidance and resources.
Ultimately, I think the most important thing is that you both feel safe and supported during this difficult time. If that means involving the police, then that's what you should do. But if your girlfriend is truly opposed to that, then you'll have to find other ways to make sure she's protected.
Just remember that you're not alone in this, and there are people who care about you and want to help you. And I strongly suggest you to call the police, don't let the fear of them not believing your situation or being not helpful stop you.
Stay strong, and good luck.
What you’re describing is not loving someone. Have fun, but do some maturing before you settle down with a partner.
Both of you can give it a try and see if it can turn serious like both can work to buy a house or travel together…. Probably go slow. If it doesn’t work out then stay as good friends
I agree, a therapist (at least a good one) should be able to help make sure that neither parent is “the bad one”, but that differences happened that led to the divorce. I think there’s a time and place to make someone the bad guy, especially if it puts that person in danger. Or if the kid specifically asked “I see dad is still with that girl after you divorced. Is that why you broke up?” Then yeah, no need to lie or cover for the dad. Kids are smart and can figure things out.
My main concern is turning your kid against a cheating partner in an attempt to further punish them may feel good to the person who was cheated on, but all it does is pass your anger on to your child and gives them a burden they shouldn’t have to carry. That kid will then feel guilty if they have fun with or miss the cheating parent, because they know that they were in the wrong and hurt the other parent that they also love. It’s putting unnecessary stress into an already stressful situation. There is simply no need to bring your child into the messy details of an adult situation.
Stop for a while and give her a chance to miss you. Too much of something makes it lose its meaning.
I did cut the friend off and blocked him, I was completely direct about not having feeling for him and the ex saw this texts and even talked to him. I truly am willing to go the length to fix the fuck up I did, I accept I was inconsiderate, I just feel kinda lost in how to move forward with the whole deal.
It's totally ridiculous that your GF wants you to turn down a job out of jealousy. Declining the interview won't get your GF the RA position because she wasn't even invited to the interview stage. While it is understandable that she is disappointed she didn't get an interview, she has no right to tell you not to take it.
Good partners celebrate each others' successes instead of tearing each other down out of jealousy. Do you really want to date someone who makes you feel miserable when you succeed?
Go to the interview, and reconsider your relationship with your GF. If you allow her to tell you to decline the interview, she will undoubtedly believe she can get away with even more controlling behavior in the future.
First relationship is so hot to quit but I'll do it. Thanks for your kind words of motivation.
Yeah, where I am it's an ugly olive green.
Ally should be the one to tell her or you could ask ally what you should say to Tara about their friendships and Tara asking to do group things
Totally would give me the ick too. The term alcoholic comes to mind, and my guess he’d just won’t drink around you on the morning but he will still do it.
It’s been only 3 months, don’t stay if the relationship is already cracking this early.
I just want to say that whatever you did or didn't do, he's not a saint either and isn't handling things well.
I'd make this breakup permanent if I were you and try to learn from your mistakes next time you're in one.
Personally, I would have found you talking to friends in general (whether guys or girls) about your sex life in that much detail a breach of trust.
The advice is to leave. He’s abusive.
You DO know where to go from here. There’s two problems in this relationship:
him
you
He’s a habitual line stepper, crossing your boundaries with no remorse. You continue to let him do it with no recourse.
Why? Why do you allow someone to show such disregard and disrespect for you and your home? He doesn’t want to change. You see that after your many discussions; the only thing left to change is you. You can either stay or go. If you’re this uncomfortable girl, you know what to do. You know you deserve better… so go be and get better.
Even though I read the edit I’m still compelled to tell you that you’re an actual fucking moron. How do you get through life with this level of decision making comprehension.
“My pants are on fire and I don’t know what to do!” -OP, probably
I was also together with a predator who “tried” to “get better”. Spoiler: he didn’t.
We were together for seven years. Looking back at that time, I know why I didn’t leave earlier, but it sucks.
Especially if he hasn’t realized that what he did was wrong, there’s no hope. Absolutely no hope. You being with him or not being with him won’t make a difference.
Me being with my ex have him a “cover” or a way to justify himself – and other women thought he was safer than he was.
My advice would be: make a plan to leave. First in secret. Only tell him when you’re actually ready to go and have all your precious things in a safe place.
Good luck!
My nephews look like one of their uncles A LOT. Btw the uncle in question was 10 yo when they were born, so…
I agree, just saying that it might get better. Looking on the positive side.
All this does is make her sound like a gold digger. She had some shiny wrapping paper and once you ripped it off, all you found was a steaming turd. It's okay to end a relationship you have invested time in. Don't fall into the sunken cost fallacy. She sounds like an absolutely disgusting person and with this many red flags showing, her lies, and inability to communicate, I don't see this ever working out long term and you will find yourself miserable.
I said she bottles things up and never wants to talk about it. I never said she asked for space and I’m harassing her lol. You’re literally just saying I said things when I didn’t… I appreciate the advice so far. I realize that no matter what she says no matter how cruel or hurtful I need to keep a cool head. But saying because I’ve raised my voice in a heated argument makes it okay for her to ask me not to physically abuse our children is a wild take to me. That’s cool though everyone has their opinions.
OP. You aren't going to mesh with anyone who isn't as enveloped in religion as you are. So my suggestion is to find someone who is on your level. Anything less ans you will always be critical of them.
I've never even met the guy. He lives out of state, albeit maybe a couple of hours away. Like you said, how do we build trust again? Can't trust a liar. I have a lot of uncertainty with this relationship now. But i am certain of one thing, I'll fuck someone up if they hurt my son.
This is the first time I've cried in front of him for months. I definitely don't do it often. My anxiety and depression do make things harder for me but I really do try my best to do the things I need to despite having those issues.
You may be dealing with a naturally selfish person. It happens all the time, no matter what the sex.
Cheaters cheat. You need to leave her. There’s no other good option for you.
No. If this is on your mind you need to voice these thoughts to find out if you are both looking for the same thing. Especially after two months, you need to know what’s going on.
DNA test time.
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How do people not realize these are fake posts ??♂️??♂️??♂️
You’ve outgrown him and now he’s jealous and insecure.
Maybe he’s not doing his job as a husband right?
You both work, but you also do all the cooking, ironing etc? Nope. It’s not 1920. He needs to get off his ass and contribute.
Unless he shapes up and starts to congratulate you rather than criticise you it’s probably the end for your marriage.
“I have a boyfriend” is awkward for her to say? Lol.
Has she done any fingers yet?