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Date: October 23, 2022
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Having a hot time understanding the top posts ITT. They are all avoidant.
4 years is a long time without being introduced to people's family and he's talking about marrying and having kids with her in spite of their race differences.
The part about them not knowing what he's been up to tells me that he's always had a thing going on with his family
The issue is, she's gonna be a part of that family and she deserves communication from him. If he didn't mess with his family like that for any reason- he should have told her well before the 4 years, no? Instead of being mysterious and quiet so when she shows up she's bombarded with racism. He can't tell his family about her, nor her about them, what is his plan?
At some point, they'd have to have been met and really 4 years is way too long. Why should she have to hide for his benefit. Them knowing about each other was inevitable.
She can say sorry because she feels remorse, but she better not feel sorry for wanting to be seen.
Maybe they don’t need them
I understand, you’re right. That’s what scares me, i think he actually doesn’t trust himself. He is afraid he might not be enough. Still not my problem tho, i know. But is it worth to wait and see if he can change? Will he ever?
if you have access, i highly suggest marital counseling. this sort of dynamic tends to get worse, not better, unless its addressed appropriately. He doesnt have to go NC with his mom but you are his partner for life (ideally) and he should take how hurtful she is towards you more seriously. I cant imagine just ignoring one of my parents talking such reckless shit to my spouse, regardless of their health history.
So you’re going to feed into negative stereotypes?
So you’re going to feed into negative stereotypes?
She’s either your dad’s or your mother’s mother. Which one and what do they have to say? They should manage this disinvite. It’s not all on you.
OP, your parents should have no reason to feel unsafe coming to visit you unless your father assaults you again. If he doesn’t, then all will be well. You should remind them of that.
This is my exact thought! But I thought maybe I was overreacting or shouldn’t be as upset as I am. But if he hadn’t pissed in my shower after us having multiple conversations about it previously, none of this would have happened. I’m sitting here thinking about like how he doesn’t respect my boundaries and just thinks that he can do whatever he wants and I’ll still want to sleep with him. I’m like re-evaluating our relationship and if moving in together is even a good idea because of the way he responded. Like I don’t want to live life having to clean the tub every single time I need to shower because he might have pissed in it.
She’s craaaaaaaaazy!
I appreciate your viewpoint. And I believe your advice on retracting front the relationship is wise.
Otherwise, I think we are at an impasse. Her behavior is unacceptable, we are agreed. But I still love her very much, even if this issue means we cannot be together. And I wish with the utmost sincerity that she continues to improve, as I will attest I’ve seen her seek out help and change behaviors.
Please OP, keep your self-respect and drop this guy before you invest any more time and emotion into this situation. Really, read that back.
So in other words, you are not here looking for advice from outsiders looking in, UNLESS it is what you want to hear. Anything outside of what you want to here, you will argue against and defend your friend. Got it!
Now that I think of it, yes, that seems to be the case. Thank you for your piece of mind
Her “perfect picture” was destroyed. She doesn’t want the blended family/ex/step kid drama. Take her up on lawyer offer before she changes her mind. They will require a retainer which she can pay up front and can’t rescind. Regardless of how things turn out you’ll need the lawyer.