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B & H, 18 y.o.
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Date: February 15, 2023
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Let me preface this by clarifying that im a guy saying this.
But youre spot on with most of your opinions in your post. Sexism against women is an awful lot more prevalent than sexism against men. Anyone who disagrees with that is being disingenous and willfully obtuse. Sexism against women is systemic and built on thousands of years of subjugation.
Of course, some aspects are more up to debate than others, for example i disagree with people saying that female stand up comedians being, generally speaking, less successful is a direct result of sexism – personally, i just dont find most of the female stand up comedians funny because their material often just revolves about gross sex jokes (amy schumer) or flat out hating on men (hannah gransby). Imo that has nothing to do with them being women, their material is just not funny to me. On the other hand, Elena Gabrielle is hilarious. But i digress…
My parents and sister told me I was wrong about all of these things and that most people don't think these things
Thats not true, id say the most views you expressed are the most commonly shared ones in regards to sexism against women
my sister identifies as a feminist herself.
In the 70s and 80s there was a big divide among the feminist movement over whether porn was sexist, demeaning and should be banned or whether it was an expression sexual liberalism for women and feminist porn should be encouraged.
Imo neither of them were wrong and both had good arguments. My point is, you can identify as a feminist and have a different opinion on these issues, yes.
That being said, id have a tough time identifying as a feminist when i also believe that sexism against women isnt that much more prevalent than sexism against men.
(They also said Reddit is an echo chamber & confirmation bias
That is true on one hand, but its also true for pretty much any other setting a person is in. You can also be in an echo chamber with people you know in person.
and that most normal people don't interact with strangers live and wouldn't go on Reddit.)
We are living in 2023, social media for all its flaws also has the perk of allowing to interact with people from all over the world.
Id say there is nothing wrong with asking for opinions of other people, be it on social media or people you know in person, as long as you form your own opinion at the end of the day.
Wow… I’m so sorry. ?
This is totally inexcusable on everyone’s part, but yours & your friend who showed up.
You invited them in advance, reminded, did all the work, then texted grown azz adults & they blew you off. Excuses are cheap. Your friends are crap & im being generous.
Take time to re-evaluate these people who have shown how little they care and respect you. You poured yourself into making a celebration which specifically included them & they showed exactly how much they care.
For your birthday, get new friends. Let them grasp their loss when you’re no longer available. I wouldn’t want a bday redo from them. Only a reminder of how awful they treated you. Unless you allow them to plan a big party and… you don’t show, don’t contact anyone to let them know you’re not coming. (Sorry for the pettiness… those people pissed me off)
Happy belated birthday ?
I love horror movies too, but I hate gore movies. It scares me so much. She shouldn't forbid you to watch gore movies alone, but you need to understand that she just doesn't like them. Maybe it scares her. We don't know how you react towards the movies. Maybe you come off as creepy to her while watching them. We don't know.
But this is a thing you can talk about.
I actually do meet my accountant over coffee, my partner is usually there too, so…
It might be that she knows you’re on to her and is over compensating by being overly sexual to lead you on that she only has eyes for you.
You need definitive proof sooner than later. So you don’t have to be stuck in this middle ground.
I'm taking your comment at face value here, but this doesn't sound like great reasoning to me – it sounds like you want a kid because it's just the next step to tick off at this stage of your life and you want to compete with others around you.
You even say above: “This is a frequent point of contention in our relationship as she commonly sees me as naïve and unprepared..” You want a rom-com level, spur of the moment whirlwind event to lead to having a kid. But like the commenter you replied to above said, I can't tell if you've thought things out much further than that and how much having children impacts and changes your and your wife's lives.
Based on my experience with partners like this, they never change. No amount of arguing, communicating or begging will fix it. Even if you threaten to break up and they promise to change, it’s only temporary and they go back to the same old crap after a few months
He’s stupid. He shouldn’t have ended it with the other woman. After all that, as his wife, I would’ve left him. He’s a stupid man.
Looks fade no-matter what you do. Most people have very little control over how our looks change over a lifetime. However they way your personality changes is dictated by your personality. You have some control over who you become as you age.
The greatest help you can give to your daughter is to make her look after herself, pay for herself, take care of herself, take responsibility for herself.
She's spoilt, manipulative, mean, selfish and entitled. And by continuing to do what you do, you're enabling her. She will never 'see' all you do for her, or the errors of her ways, without you forcing her kicking and screaming (and don't doubt it, she absolutely will) into the real world.
Best thing you can do is start charging her rent, food money, split chores around the house and cooking responsibilities. She's an adult, she takes on her half of all the bills, rent, housework. That should force her out without you having to kick her out, and then you get your life back.
Don't allow her to ruin all the good relationships in your life. They are so much more valuable than one with someone who treats you so badly.
I would imagine your other kids are resentful to you as well, that you accept and enable her terrible behaviour. So it's not just her alienating your other kids, it's also your allowing this to happen in the first place that's alienating them. The responsibility of accepting this behaviour is yours. Time for big girl parenting pants on, and get this s**t show back in order.
It's going to be a tough road, but just keep telling yourself you are doing the right thing. This is the ONLY way you can help her. And it's the best way. Imagine her tantrums as that silly 2 year old that she seems to be. Don't take her abuse to heart when she berates you. Dismiss her ridiculous words and actions. Good luck.