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aynaraross-1 Public Chat Channel
Date: October 6, 2022
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aynaraross-1 Public Chat Channel
Let it go
Household chores are very different than basic human chores. Household chores are things like taking out the trash, sweeping the floor, cleaning the toilet, etc. Those are things you can just take turns doing or split the work in half. Brushing your teeth, showering, throwing trash away are just things most people do automatically. That shouldn’t even need to be a conversation. Your adult husband does less than I did when I was a 13 year old child.
Yes they decided to cancel your relationship. The real question what are going to do about it?
The bare minimum is spendung with your gf as much time as before, but since she won't come to your house (and you should not try to make her) you will spend much more time out of home.
I assume you are financially dependent on your parents. You should consider what you are going to do when they inevitably decide to use this as a leverage to control you. On that note, if you want your relationship to survive you should promise your gf, once you will be independent you will leave our family home and live with her and not force her to interact with your family (well unless they apologise and start acting with proper respect).
“I know exactly where I stand now.”
A ring would logically come next, but instead of focusing on it, why not bring up marriage again and understand what the future might look like.
Run the hell away. I didn't even need to read the post, just the title was enough, but having read the post you need to RUN.
My kids are a little younger than yours and I ended my marriage as well. It was going to shit for a long, long time. It's going to be a little difficult, but I'm sure you'll find a way to make it work.
Typically in these societies women took their husbands last name so everyone had the same name. Op even offered to hyphenate the name so both of their histories are represented. He has every right to be concerned about potential issues picking up his biracial kids, especially if they end up looking like mom.
oh come on no one will notice, I'll be cheering for you from here ???
it's a shame these two events are on the same day – if it were me (and I love my crazy sister) I'd try to do both even if it was just popping into the wedding for post ceremony drinks and pictures. but I'd not, under any circumstances, skip my graduation party.
You can send a message, but be careful it doesn't seem like you are pressuring her. Something like “thinking of you – hoping all is well.” Maybe a cheery meme or photo of something she likes. Then leave it alone.
Two things.
It was unacceptable for your girlfriend to withhold this information from you, and actively lie to you about it, for SIX WHOLE MONTHS. She should have disclosed that way, way sooner. Your reaction was unacceptable as well. I know it wasn't intentional, but you've likely caused lifelong damage to your girlfriend, and you owe her an apology for that. You don't owe her forgiveness for HER transgressions, and you certainly don't owe her a relationship, but you do owe her an apology.