He’s abusive. Unfortunately you can’t reason with abusive, controlling people so you need to make an exit plan. And a lot of abusers wait until pregnancy and marriage before they show their true colours. Absolutely disgusting that what you thought was a nice guy, was actually a fake “nice guy”.
Start separating your finances because he will become financially abusive.
Don’t give up your job. Save as much money as you can in secret.
If he becomes even more abusive, contact women shelters in your area.
s relationship. For me personally no it wouldn't be a huge deal. If I could get over you paying for it order wouldn't be that big of a deal for me but other people any lie is a lie.
to be honest the reason why I said that is because I was 18 and it was a stupid mistake
How does your boyfriend feel? Has he also lost sexual interest in you?
In regards to marriage, is sex important to you? If you want to get married, being sexually compatible is very, very important. Will you be content marrying someone for 50+ years and having no attraction?
Even if you have a magical crystal ball that can somehow provably demonstrate that they'll never do it again… you should still dump them for doing it in the first place.
She needs to deal with her jealousy.
He’s abusive. Unfortunately you can’t reason with abusive, controlling people so you need to make an exit plan. And a lot of abusers wait until pregnancy and marriage before they show their true colours. Absolutely disgusting that what you thought was a nice guy, was actually a fake “nice guy”.
Start separating your finances because he will become financially abusive.
Don’t give up your job. Save as much money as you can in secret.
If he becomes even more abusive, contact women shelters in your area.
Do you have family you can stay with?
Seems she isn't doing treatment or needs more. That's on her.
s relationship. For me personally no it wouldn't be a huge deal. If I could get over you paying for it order wouldn't be that big of a deal for me but other people any lie is a lie.
to be honest the reason why I said that is because I was 18 and it was a stupid mistake
How does your boyfriend feel? Has he also lost sexual interest in you?
In regards to marriage, is sex important to you? If you want to get married, being sexually compatible is very, very important. Will you be content marrying someone for 50+ years and having no attraction?
Even if you have a magical crystal ball that can somehow provably demonstrate that they'll never do it again… you should still dump them for doing it in the first place.