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I think this sounds perfect and pretty much what I want to get across. I know she is concerned about my heart stuff and all of the tests that I have coming up so the best approach is probably to reiterate what I'm doing and why.
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To fufill his needs you need to actually listen to him. Your “help each other resolve family stuff,” is more centered on your beliefs of what you think he needs. You need to take yourself, ideas of what is right, out of the equation.
But what I’m saying is, your friend (the husband) clearly has no problem with the current arrangement or is not aware of the problem, right?? So hot to have an opinion without this woman’s side of things.
She understood I wouldn’t be WFH and that I’d be in the office full time except a chance of certain days I’d WFH maybe once a week, but I think the first day when I came home at 7 she realized what the longer hours actually felt like to her I guess.
So she rejected you, you keep hoping something happens, keep doing unnecessary things for her under the excuse of being a friend. Then when she have a relationship with other person and tell you about because you are her friend you get mad?
I mean she definitely shouldn't have a relationship with a married man but that's her own problem, not your because she only telling you this because she thought of you a a friend.
Stop creating drama, stay away from a girl who makes drama and work on yourself because being a “nice guy” it's not the only to make a girl like you.
You should have just gone and told her that it doesn't matter and she could have cleaned herself up but no that's too much she has to stop you from going
Let his wife know. If your wife loses her shit, you know she values him over you.
No. I meant it lol
I suspect his has FeElInGs about being supported by a girlfriend. They should be feelings of gratitude, but he’s decided otherwise. He can go couch surf then.
Had you guys agreed on being monogamous?
Completely true. She mentioned in a comment he used to go clubbing as well, so he was for sure ok with it back then.
Ouh…. that family though…
“he cheated, lied to you & to his family – he even said his family didn't like her = he took her to see them ?!
OMFG!! the humiliation & blatant disrespect. – how much more disrespect & humiliation do you want thrown at you?”
Letting him parade somebody else to be introduced as his gf and not even reaching out for the girl they KNEW?
Apple doesn't fall far from the tree, apparently.
Bcos she is still msging and calling me and blowing hot and cold when she does . I try and keep everything short and not ignore her .
This is exactly what I was gonna say
A healthy boundary is that if someone tells her something in confidence it becomes need to know. Why do you need to know her friends lives?
Also I don’t tell my partner stuff because he can’t remember what’s supposed to be confidential and blurts it out. So now I don’t tell him anything about other people that I’ve been confided with unless he strictly needs to know.
THIS! I love the mature ultimatum, especially that I’m aware of what I can bring to the table and none of which is up to be taken for granted. I just need to pick the time and the technique as he gets defensive and considers everything an argument
Silver linings I guess
OP has said in comments that they think it’s average & never had issues with other gf’s
She pays 35% of the rent but 50-100% on every other bill plus all the house work for what? The $120 extra you pay a month. Wow so fair /s
There should be highs! You shouldn't feel indifferent! It sounds like you just don't like his personality
Thank you for your words, I really needed the encouragement!!
Okay then we are talking. Regardless, at the airport he was fully hiding from me and totally apart from his friends….
Sorry you had to go through that – it’s stressful.
From the advice here, I’ve decided to change my number. Not able to move – I live in a 10 story building with decent security. I have the feeling she drives by my place just to see if I’m home (lights on). She had wanted to drive by and watch me and my father move me out of my building… which is FUCKING WEIRD.
Also accused me of lying about the time it took me to walk to work..? Bizarre.