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Audrey, 18 y.o.
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Date: February 23, 2023
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Is she cheating ? When women cheat, they withdraw from you….. coz they are getting it somewhere else
not cheating on your spouse and being a nun are kinda two different things.
Not trying to, no. Most people who give advice on this sub actually say the opposite of what would the right course of action.
If it's a “no” from you, he should respect the boundary. I don't visit strip clubs while married because I agree with you that it's disrespectful to my wife.
As to what actually goes on: it depends. If he wants to find an escort it is very well within the realm of possibility. It's all available in Vegas if you have the money.
Let him go when you’re ready you will find somebody he will want only you. He’s manipulating you. Don’t do anything you don’t wanna do. Here’s another thing I’ve noticed by the time a relationship gets to this point. One person wants to cheat. And he wants to cheat and he wants you to cosign it to say you’re OK with it if he opens it up then you’ll do that don’t do it you’ll hate yourself and you won’t be happy. You will also hate him.
You know what, fair enough. The multiple calls and self depreciating messages Def give off an icky vibe. Best to be more straightforward.
You're four months in and he's already making you cry??
Something is very wrong here.
Fwiw, it doesn’t seem like either of you actually do understand the other. And you sound like you may well be as close minded and as sexist as you accuse him of being. Maybe spend less time letting yourself on the back and both of you just try to understand where the other is coming from.
I’d recommend you both try hot not to view life’s struggles purely through the lenses of your respective biological sexes. He’s not immune to the dangerous posed by other men just be nature of having a penis in common, for example. This is a stupid hill for either of you to die on after three years together.
You've got his all screwed up. Having kids should, if at all avoidably possible, NEVER be a romantically based decision.
Those are all legitimate concerns, and I'd say I was in a similar camp. I kinda figured there'd be kids, but I was perfectly fine if there wasn't. With our second on the way, the state of the world certainly weighs more on my mind now. It was certainly scary before our first. The scary part wasn't so much the actual caring for a kid. The scarier part was the fact that you'll be shaping this person. What if I cause them to be a serial killer or what if they're the class bully or on and on and on it goes with the what ifs. The biggest lesson I've learned so far is to just roll with the punches and love them the best you can.
The other part, there are no two ways about your way of life will change. As you describe, after entering adulthood, you only have to worry about yourself and then latter on your significant other, but at least for myself, having a spouse didn't change my way of life too terribly much. We did things together and still had time to do our own things. If we wanted to do a random road trip some weekend, we could. You're still two grown independent adults (hopefully). Once a kid enters the picture, you truly do live your life for somebody else. It's cliche to say and it's also cliche to say that having a kid is one of the most rewarding feelings in the world. It certainly has its challenges, but when you hear your kid laugh or say their first words or just generally explore the world around them and learn and grow, all your worries and fears and doubts disappear.
Sorry for rambling and take the words of an internet stranger for whatever they're worth. It's perfectly normal to be scared. Your life will change. Are there moments I would love to just have that independent life and spend my money on whatever I want? Sure. But I can't imagine my life without my son now. My fear with my second that's on the way is that there's no way I could love them as much as my first. People say that you do though, so rather than scoffing at what they say (like I did before having any kids) I'm gonna trust in it now cause it really is something that's hard to feel and understand until you experience it. The unfortunate answer to your last question, though, is that you won't know right now. It was the biggest leap of faith I had in my life.
Your girlfriend obviously has a kink for being a sub and being dominated. The real question you should be asking yourself is why is she so “vanilla” with you?
Honestly, I highly suspect she told him this because she has desires, but hasn't got the words to explain it thoroughly. So, she tells this story in hopes he will understand what she wants/needs.
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Him trying to force you into coming to his wedding with the woman he cheated on you with is uncivil. You saying no is completely civil. I see why you divorced him.
Well, he’s just always been the one for me. Or so I’ve felt. The love I have for him has always been greater. It hasn’t always been bad and he hasn’t always been the bad person in the relationship. The first couple of months we were together this time, I had contact with my ex, but immediately shut it down after an argument my boyfriend and I had about the ex. All I can really say is because I love him and we have these plans.. he’s trying to make up for the bad things he’s done, but I just can’t get over the past.
thank you so much. i really do appreciate it, ive looked into staying with my sister for a bit til i get back on my feet. ill most likely get the abortion im just trying to find a way to leave slowly without giving him anything to suspect, ill update you soon.