0 views
nude [Multi Goal]
Date: October 26, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
nude [Multi Goal]
At first I thought the answer was simple and you should just stop talking about this stuff in front of her… but then I saw your comments where she asks point-blank and then gets mad at your answer.
She's clearly jealous, which is understandable… I'm a little jealous of the trust fund myself, lol. But if she knows your answer is going to upset her, then she isn't genuinely asking because she cares. She's asking because she wants to hurt you with her reaction to what you say. And she's hurting herself in the process.
Is she ever kind to you aside from this? You spend every weekend taking care of her… She should really be more appreciative rather than putting you down at every opportunity.
I think my best advice would be to stop answering her questions. “What kind of car do you want?” “Oh, I don't know, mine's in great condition so I don't have to think about that.”
And if you do stay with your SO and have kids with him, tbh I'd never let her watch them after saying she's going to spank them whether you agree or not….
I think the best thing you can do is get an editor to help you with your creative writing.
My dude. Do what's right for you. From the way you describe this relationship dynamic, it sounds like it was just a bad match. I mean, the jealousy alone is a huge red flag in my opinion, since so often it's part of DV stories. That you say he's repulsed physically by you, well that says just go. I mean, do what's right for you. It's YOUR life. It doesn't sound like you're overreacting to me, and even if you were, I'd still say that if you're not feeling it, move on..it's okay.
He's met the kid one time, and he wants the 3 year old to stay over for an entire week?
Either something's fishy or he's noticed you're not that into the idea of having kids and is trying to subtly get you to change your mind
protect your assets by transferring them out of your name and apply for a divorce!!!
This is 100% illegal.
Wow your bf is being an ass. He should understand that it's your body and u can do what u want.
Your boyfriend is an asshole who's mean to you over stuff from the past that no longer has anything to do with you. You've been together for a short time, and still most of that time has been unpleasant arguing that is purely his fault. I don't see the need for any breaks, this just needs to end. I don't understand why people stay in relationships like this at all. It's supposed to make your life better, not worse.
Back up the evidence and store in a safe location .
ID the OM. If married, plan on exposing him to his wife.
normally i wouldn't agree with this advice, but in this instance yes.
Shes soft breaking up with you. She doesn't want to be alone at the holidays so shes keeping you around until she finds someone else
peace out dude. you don't need that energy in your life
Seems like you are doing the right thing, just give it time, it's good that you are upfront about what you want. It sucks to start liking someone just to later find out you two aren't compatible
u/nonothrowawa, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
I think she’s lacking in empathy and emotional intelligence. I honestly have a naked time trusting anyone who can sit there and watch someone (even a stranger!) cry without offering any comfort to them
You gave him your Christmas gifts while he gave you emotional, mental and potentially physical damage! I wish you the best on the results when you get checked. Get rid of this man and start your new year clean.
By not divorcing him when he's clearly an abusive manchild, you are hurting your daughter.
Honey you need to stop.
Let the man enjoy his alone time.
He is not a child and you aren’t living together or married. He doesn’t owe you a text of if he is ok and safe at home.
Grey rock and low contact. Become a bad texter. Reply late with one word responses. Give her one word responses in person. Put up your emotional walls so you can overcome your feelings for her.
If you agreed to a year for her to heal then it makes sense that she's taking that year? That's a different thing from “I need you to have a job before the end of a year.” IT seems like there's a very big gap between some of the things you are saying.
It might be worth revisiting that conversation and reminding her how important that is to you, that you don't really feel loved when she just tells you that.
Also if you are passive and don't ask for what you want and need, and don't clearly communicate what those expectations are, and then you are mad when your expectations aren't met, the person you should be mad at is you.
Thank you for commenting, I really appreciate the perspective.
A lot of what you’ve said rung true to me, particularly about the behaviour being cyclical, and feeling happy in between fights.
I wonder if in some ways me feeling good when we’re together is at least partially just relief that we’re not fighting.
Hello /u/Own_Resource_4042,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Sorry the dice rolled that way. He’s not there for you as a partner or a parent. If he’s only going to do the bare minimum then just get child support instead and move on.
Why would you cry if you thought he caught you snoring? Everyone does it at one point in life I don’t see why you had to cry for that. Regarding your bf he’s showing red flags and you should take to him and say to stop that behavior and if he doesn’t leave bc he isn’t considering the truth or any other perspective. He doesn’t put himself in your shoes which is a red flag so save time and leave bc I’m sure it’s going to happen again
I should add that I was in that relationship for five years, so I have never had to deal with anything like this in the past
Compromise. Move to Kentucky. It’s the South and it’s near Ohio.
You can't control what you are attracted to man. Most people are not attracted to overweight people. And not just their visual appearance, but also what that appearance means (no discipline, unhealthy lifestyle etc etc).
But gaining so much weight within a short period of time, could also be a sign of underlying health issues. Could be thyroid related, or could also be mental issues (depression leading to binge eating etc).
The latter one is one I am always in fights with. I binge eat due to many mental issues, but I “handle” it by working out a lot and ending up burning the calories and IF. Banning myself from eating most of the day is easier than eating less.
I'm sorry, you've been with her for 12 years and you're both 20? Huh?
Now being out would be your decision to make.
Just breakup!!
Getting a good ol’ gummin never hurt no one
I was just saying to my husband it does feel a bit US centric opinions vs the rest of the world.
When your husband is the one raped and impregnated, he can make the decision about his body and his fetus.
His position is unforgivable in my eyes.
Screen shot so you have proof.
Send her a text letting her know that you have something important to tell her, so you would like to know when she’s due to return from London.
Try sleeping, but if you can’t, spend the time packing her stuff up.
There is no good reason for her to be where her phone is telling you she is – even best case scenario she has broken the trust of the relationship by lying about where she was going to be.
Oh I'm sorry I read this wrong…couples therapy would help…look in your area for low cost or free therapy…have a heart to heart talk with her. Porn and masturbation can become unhealthy…maybe you can ask her to refrain from it for a week and work on your intimacy. Sounds like she has some issues with sex and intimacy that needs to be addressed.
demmm biggest font I seen on reddit thus far
Squirt is just pee bro, watch less porn.
This wouldn't sit well with me either man. This seems extremely unsafe. There could be a number of things tbah could happen. Not to mention it also sounds like it could be a hook up or lead to one. If she refuses to change her mind in going, I strongly recommend you go with her. If she refuses this option, I'm really leaning towards her having the intention of hooking up with him. At the very least, anyone in the right mind, especially a female would want their husband or SOMEONE they know to come for her safety.
This situation sounds so sketchy to me
I would like to know if my partner is a virgin or not. It wouldn’t turn me off if my partner was a virgin. Make sure you have enough lube. You should tell your partner that you’re a virgin based on how you describe him he should be understanding.
I’m just not sure how me telling her my feelings is defending myself. I said what I was feeling that’s why I messed up. I wasn’t asking for her understanding
God the insanity.
Here in Florida we have stand your ground, castle law etc. Someone breaks into your home, you send them back out in a body bag as it should be.
God the insanity.
Here in Florida we have stand your ground, castle law etc. Someone breaks into your home, you send them back out in a body bag as it should be.
God the insanity.
Here in Florida we have stand your ground, castle law etc. Someone breaks into your home, you send them back out in a body bag as it should be.
God the insanity.
Here in Florida we have stand your ground, castle law etc. Someone breaks into your home, you send them back out in a body bag as it should be.
Thank you! I’m done. Mic drop
Tell her. She's supposed to be supportive. Don't be a part of the problem by lying to her about it. It's you and her vs the problem.
The sooner she knows, the sooner you two can navigate together through this rough part in time. Get unemployment, and start getting those applications going.
Eh I think OP was using slightly reductive language because they didn't want to be specific about which subculture they're trying to get involved with. As far as actual participants, some people will broadly refer to themselves in goofy high school terms “nerds” “gamers” “metalheads” “weebs” etc. But the basic label is just a shorthand way to identify another subculture member.
It’s so satisfying 99% of the time though! This is more just about navigating my own seemingly too-intense feelings in response to occasional rejection. Usually we are totally on the same page, I just need to figure out how to react more gracefully in these rare situations.
Thank you. You’re very right. And yes I hope time will heal my wounds.
I was boiling until you said you broke up w him – it is so refreshing to see someone on Reddit actually dump someone who so clearly deserves it. You have no reason to trust him. He’s a liar and a cheater and he was never going to tell you; move on and tone someone you can trust!!
Exactly how did HE drug you? You went through his draws, found 2 pills that you didn't know, and took them. How did he have anything to do with it?
Tf is your problem. Also how do you know the day just started for them, have u heard of time zones? Silly ahh being a professional hater over here
Touché.
And the only answer to a stupid question like that should be “Why would I? you keep making up these wild theories, go off on me for something based on your own insecurities and expect me to chase after you? hells na. You're the one that messed up. you're the one that needs to apologize.”
Stop chasing her. Whatever it is that makes her this insecure. She needs help. If you hadn't written her age i would have thought she was some 17 old high school girl. You deserve someone who treats you better
Another one ruined by porn [*]
I think you’re assuming she’s been lying, actively lying to him for years. What if she changed her mind? Perhaps before turning the blame on her for causing the situation you should want to clarify if it was a change of heart or a lie. Otherwise, just assuming intent and then blaming the person who was on the receiving end of his reaction because they “caused” it is incredibly toxic and potentially abusive. Not in this scenario, per se, but that mindset can get you in a world of trouble. Don’t assume. Ask.