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Date: November 28, 2022
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I feel like English is not his first language.
Thanks, man! You helped me a lot!
Bro I am 32 and I wouldn't date anyone under 26. Maybe get a grown-up girlfriend, or learn to deal with the hate.
Lol so hateful.
You started the insults, man.
This is an emotional affair turned physical. You have to absolutely talk to your husband about this. He deserves to know. If you need, enroll in individual and couples counseling.
But I will say, sometimes kissing when it comes to cheating is perceived as worse than sex/oral sex. People can have sex with someone without a real emotional connection. There was a real emotional connection behind that kiss. It’s been months of build up. How much further were you going to let this go?
Both of you could have handled the situation better. Might be time for a do-over versus changing the course of your lives forever over something that really shouldn't have happened.
She belongs to the streets
That entirely depends on the location, it's perfectly legal in many places, don't give inaccurate blanket advice.
Bro I wouldn't believe that shit for a second. If she didn't sleep with him it was one of his friends. She didn't call you to get her on purpose she didn't want you to come get her she wanted to stay there. It a wrap.
Girl he's an asshole. I'm certain you can do better. He doesn't value you at all!
well it wasnt made clear that they share finances, they said “wife drops 5k”. i made the comment with the information that i had, thanks.
Her mom and sister confirm she goes to their house after work but the money issue is still there
You know it's bad when it takes someone elses integrity to stop your wife from cheating on you.
Save the evidence, talk to a lawyer.
Tell her to be mature and stop being a disrespectful b word
i’ve never been to a party so i don’t know if i’m making the right assumptions.
What you need to know is that everyone is responsible for their own actions. Parties do not change that. Alcohol does not change that. Other people do not change that.
You have to learn to trust your girlfriend. She is going to be significantly more attracted to a confident man than to some kid who wants her to not like parties.
Ask her to keep you updated on how shes doing and when she gets home so you know shes safe and above all keep the lines of communication open.
Don’t spend any more time worrying about him. He is obviously immature and doesn’t know how to communicate.
Make your own closure and get over him.
Maybe having grown up in the city he doesn't want to live out in the boondocks.
Honestly she’s looking for an excuse to end it. Its still very early and this is not a big deal. It’s normal for men to set their profiles a few years under their age. Lots of women date men older then themselves too. OP is just insecure about aging too
Okay no worries deflowering is used to describe a girl losing her virginity
Yeah man i feel your dilemma. I think we all go through it one day in our lifetimes. It sucks.
All in all i would say your relationship was fairly short man. Only 2 months you barely got to know one another Just take it with your chin held high and use it as an experience for the future
I love how you conveniently skipped the part in the above post about you providing support for your wife. I can imagine why she's feeling so overwhelmed.
BTW, in what world does a 'night nanny' make $7,000 a month?
2 weeks and possibly a month of this is disrespectful to OP too. His feelings matter in this relationship too. Nobody should feel comfortable when their partner is so tormented seeing their ex getting married
You want intimacy, she refuses. You want to seek pro help through this. She doesn't. You offer suggestions. She shoots them down.
How is she matching ANY of your energy? Seriously, she's not 'matching' energy she's purposely refusing to better the relationship and her circumstances while you beat your head against the wall. That's not a partnership. It's a dictatorship and she's the dick.
it being healthy definitely isn’t the problem. I wouldn’t say him being busy is the issue either. I suspect his eating is a lot more about boredom or getting a little dopamine from the sugar rush than him actually being hungry so he goes for the snacks.
I've watched a 180 IQ human set toast on fire.
I fully agree.
Agree! I was the same
Both. Ask your therapist what books they recommend. You are a seriously flawed human being, and unless you fix that it will ruin your own life and others.
That made my soul hurt
I too haven't dated, but I don't see how this is a red flag? He sounds really sweet like he was trying to keep you warm. You can feel whatever you feel, but I think you're reading into something that isn't there. Had he let you freeze, you'd be saying he wasn't caring.
You should move on and find someone you will be happy with and more compatible.
If you knew my family, the line “if they split up” is the only irrational statement here.
well i guess if you read a lot of stuff about BDSM, you'll see that stuff popping up in BDSM relationships.
but aftercare can totally be done with other types of sexual activity and sexual relationships also.
the way i like to put it is like this — you two have shared bodily juices, you should be able to bring up this topic with your boyfriend. but the caveat is, don't bring it up when you two are about to have sex, or right after sex. talk about it beforehand, and see if the your bf is receptive to making the changes that you're asking for. then see if he actually does it during the next time you to engage in sex.
Sounds like there's no reason to think things will improve and you should work on getting out of this situation and moving on. It's too bad you got married, but sitting around being unhappy doesn't become a better plan just because you're married vs. unmarried.
I’d break up with him. It’s the way he said it. And I’d also end it over him not brushing.
I am fun actually. And in a very happy long term relationship, so maybe you should learn something. You're the one with the life in shambles for me.
Good for you. Just be honest. I’ve enjoy your company. I’ve realized that if I’m going to date it needs to be closer to home. I wish you health and happiness.
They likely won't do anything because it isn't “stalking” in most states. In many states it's totally legal to track a vehicle. Even if you don't own it. Plus she can't prove he put it there. The law is way behind the times here.
My husband is on the spectrum and this is something he would do. It is hot to explain but the way he explains it is in his mind, everything has to come full circle. Everything has to even or whole and balanced. In the context of the cream, it isn’t finished yet so he MUST get it to finish it. Like he must use all the cream. This kind of stuff will keep him up at night.
Agree, but the girlfriend might not understand the difference.
You need to tell him asap and together, make a decision. If he refuses to move forward together, you will want to have enough time to decide whether you really want to become a sole parent.
It’s a true lifetime commitment and it isn’t easy at all. It can be lonely and isolating depleting you financially emotionally etc. yes, it’s wonderful too but it’s very very hard to do it alone.
To your edit, you can get a pt that doesn't work for the gym. Look in your local and find a pt that's a woman and get her to meet you at the gym of choice. That could be an option. That doesn't solve your boyfriends either insecurities and/or control issues though. If you feel comfortable with a male pt then you should be able to go exercise and train without your boyfriends possessive interference.
Why are you so worried? Why don’t you go with her?
it's a USA thing, not a Western thing. in the UK university students share flats (usually with a common room and a shared kitchen, possibly shared bathrooms) but not bedrooms
That would be a dealbreaker for me. She doesn't have any social intelligence, common sense, communication skills, respect, or boundries.
She is a new gf and already trying to force her way into relationships that have absolutely nothing to do with her. The fact that she didn't ask or even discuss this with you shows she has no respect for you at a very base level.
Frankly a 50 yo woman should know better than to do shit like this. Make more sense to date a 20 yo if you want to deal with this type of behaviour. At least they'd have the excuse of their brain not being fully developed
This is honestly my first intentional hookup partner, everyone else I’ve slept with recently (within my last few years of college) were either clearly defined friends with benefits or my actual partner at the time. I’m extremely new to this and was raised with a lot of “make a home and get stable early” rhetoric so hookups never really appealed to me (and even now they still feel weird because they’re not turning into anything else). I’m not upset by it but it is definitely a foreign feeling.
Then she should just divorce him. I didn’t bother with that advice because it is the obvious choice.
This was how to effectively save a marriage.
Not how to tank a marriage because you’re right and he is wrong and nothing will improve it.
So you were 39 and she was 24 when she left you……how old was she when you got together??
Ohmygod, just take the joke and leave if you’re so flustered, babe.
How do you know that?
My partner has said similarly painful things to me, and also claims he didn't mean them.
Let me save you some trouble: you will never heal it. She will never forget it. It will eat at her every time something reminds her of it.
What you do now is figure out how to put your money where your mouth is. If I were you, I'd tell her you'd be willing to get a vasectomy (if you are). And if you're not, you know kids are essential for you and what you need to do. Whatever you do, have an honest conversation and absolutely don't string each other along.
And in the end, it might not be enough and she might still be thinking of leaving you. I know I think of leaving him. More so after every time he “didn't mean it”. But this is not something she's just going to ever get over or forget. Like I always tell him – there are some things you can't take back, ever.
It still blows my mind how many couples do not have this very serious conversation before getting engaged. Or lead their partner on making them think they want kids when they really don’t. That’s not really something that changes. Make sure you talk about all the major topics when it comes to being married BEFORE getting engaged.
Look, the best advice I can give is: if you have doubts about having children, is better to just don’t have them.
Some people say “oh I was nervous too/I didn’t want them at first and now look at me”. Those people are either part of the little percentage of parents who don’t regret having kids or are big fat liars. There’s literally a subreddit here about people regretting having children, I suggest you take a look there to see why. I currently don’t remember the name tho.
This is my perspective, I rather regret not having kids than regret having them. There’s a big difference between those two things. If you are not sure about having children in the first place, DO NOT have them.
She was just thinking about it and clearly wanted to talk to you. If this is how you treat her no wonder she hasnt bought it up till now.
And if fucking anyone compared me to my abusive parents id end it, thats so cruel.
It was never an open relationship, so yes we were exclusive once we started dating. I didn't care what she did before that, as the talking stage is free game imo.
Unfortunately, your coming at the wrong angle. She wanted the threesome, and she only wanted it with other women.
It was never an open relationship, so yes we were exclusive once we started dating. I didn't care what she did before that, as the talking stage is free game imo.
Unfortunately, your coming at the wrong angle. She wanted the threesome, and she only wanted it with other women.
It was never an open relationship, so yes we were exclusive once we started dating. I didn't care what she did before that, as the talking stage is free game imo.
Unfortunately, your coming at the wrong angle. She wanted the threesome, and she only wanted it with other women.