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Date: November 29, 2022
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He had a life before you. Stop making him try to throw it away.
You are not the one ruining your relationship. Your relationship is not at all good or healthy. That much is clear from your post. You can lie to yourself but you can't lie to other people.
He cheated on you by what sounds like multiple women. There really isn't much to fix. He never told you, he was perfectly fine if you never figured it out. At least you'll never know if he would've ever came clean.
Speaking of clean, make sure you get tested. Your relationship is nowhere near good. The sooner you face that the sooner you can make a decision.
Don't listen to the grammar police. While paragraphs would help with readability you're asking an honest, heartfelt question while in a state of exhaustion.
I completely understand your point of view, but I must say that I understand hers. You're so caught up in the need to provide you're missing out on the family you've created. I think what she's saying, when claiming to feel like a single parent, is that you two no longer feel like a partnership and that she's lonely.
Going to her family a lot may fill that need for adult conversation and time but staying overnight is very strange and worrying.
There's also a lot of info missing. Like the ages of your children. What stage developmentally are they? That's key in the amount of engagement that they need. Do the kids go and stay the night with her? When do you spend time together as a family?
I would honestly suggest setting some time aside for just the two of you to talk about what you really want, what's the most important thing for you in your marriage and what's the outcome you want.
Does constantly striving to monetarily provide more and more really fulfil you? Because you sound so sad at the thought of not being able to teach your son but don't mention doing the same for your daughters. Why is that? And if that's so important to you what are you doing to ensure you're with them enough to impart this knowledge?
I've asked a few questions that I think you should reflect on. But I really think you need to speak to a therapist about all of this. Both individual therapy and couples therapy. Try to find yourself before you've lost your family. Good luck lovely.
There might be an open arrangement of some sort?
Either way, I would butt out, myself. But if you can’t, at least give your dad a heads up and let him tell her himself first.
Well let’s back up. Tell us the time line of your relationship and his cheating. Were y’all really exclusive or did you assume you were? Was it super early in the relationship and he’s been faithful since getting serious? Was there ever a “break” in the relationship that you’re considering cheating despite the break?
Your son is probably lashing out because he feels there’s no room for him in your new family. Signing him over to his mom will basically confirm that for him.
Fight for your son. Talk to him and consider therapy again.