What??? She already kissed him and came in with the guy and was with him before. What the fuck? What about the single guy that gets randomly ditched in the middle of the club and has to walk home alone, awkward and feeling confused (and rightly so) about the situation after having clear go signals already. Let's be clear here… yes she did fuck up. She's free to do whatever, yet how she went about it was fucked up, thus oh young ignorant one, it is “fucked up”.
Let's flip the script. Say this was a young woman and she was with a guy and he did this to her. Left with another girl and kissed the other girl right in her face. She then walks home, confused, feeling a sad about the person and going home alone, would you have the same level of passion and vitriol? Probably not.
Actually, you know what? Yeah she does owe him at least the common courtesy to not kiss somebody in his face after literally already kissing him and chilling with him before the venue. Are you not seeing how fucked that is? If op had known she was going to kiss an older man in the club and leave him looking like an awkward loser in the club you think he would have gone??? What the fuck are you talking about? Plus, she messaged him 15 times after that and was apparently remorseful so even SHE knows she fucked up. So again, what?
If people in that thread were calling for him to appease to her in this situation they're insane, idiots, and are incapable of empathy. She's not the good guy here. She's free to do whatever she wants, I don't give a fuck. The fact of the matter is, it IS fucked how she went about it. She could have you know, know missed another guy in the other guys fave and left with him, that's just me though. Like the level of disregard, lack of empathy, lack of care or respect for op is literal insanity in this situation.
If this isn’t performance art that you’re over-committing to now that you’ve been called out on this being ripped from an episode of a TV show, then my dude, go talk to a professional. It seems that you are seeing the world differently than most, and you might want to discuss that with a professional.
Holy shit. Please stop using Jewish people in your analogies.
Second time I saw this insensitive shit
Could be made up, or could be OP changing ages around in either post (or both) to conceal her identity.
What??? She already kissed him and came in with the guy and was with him before. What the fuck? What about the single guy that gets randomly ditched in the middle of the club and has to walk home alone, awkward and feeling confused (and rightly so) about the situation after having clear go signals already. Let's be clear here… yes she did fuck up. She's free to do whatever, yet how she went about it was fucked up, thus oh young ignorant one, it is “fucked up”.
Let's flip the script. Say this was a young woman and she was with a guy and he did this to her. Left with another girl and kissed the other girl right in her face. She then walks home, confused, feeling a sad about the person and going home alone, would you have the same level of passion and vitriol? Probably not.
Actually, you know what? Yeah she does owe him at least the common courtesy to not kiss somebody in his face after literally already kissing him and chilling with him before the venue. Are you not seeing how fucked that is? If op had known she was going to kiss an older man in the club and leave him looking like an awkward loser in the club you think he would have gone??? What the fuck are you talking about? Plus, she messaged him 15 times after that and was apparently remorseful so even SHE knows she fucked up. So again, what?
If people in that thread were calling for him to appease to her in this situation they're insane, idiots, and are incapable of empathy. She's not the good guy here. She's free to do whatever she wants, I don't give a fuck. The fact of the matter is, it IS fucked how she went about it. She could have you know, know missed another guy in the other guys fave and left with him, that's just me though. Like the level of disregard, lack of empathy, lack of care or respect for op is literal insanity in this situation.
If this isn’t performance art that you’re over-committing to now that you’ve been called out on this being ripped from an episode of a TV show, then my dude, go talk to a professional. It seems that you are seeing the world differently than most, and you might want to discuss that with a professional.
Your reframing would make it right, but that is not what she said and you know it.
You married a shallow woman and live in a Stepford town. That's on you.