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Date: November 19, 2022
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This is not true. It is less effective at weights above 155 but it is not “completely ineffective” at 175. The studies show it still substantially reduces the risk of pregnancy and there is no weight limit. However, Planned Parenthood recommends that women over 155 consider other methods of emergency contraceptive due to the decrease in effectiveness.
In comments you said you’ve been with him 2 years. Not a short time, not a super long time either. I have been in your position when I made a career switch and my partner helped me. The difference was that I helped him build his career first, so it was not as risky since we went through it before.
I would recommend clearly defining role expectations on both ends and an exit should things turn sour. Does he mean you do everything around the house like a live in maid, or basic cleaning + dinners 5 nights/week? Is he talking about weird on-demand sex & you being at his beck and call type stuff, or just the current relationship with more domestic chores on your end while you finish the thesis? Will he expect you to be the breadwinner in the future because you got 6 mo for your thesis? Things like this need to be clarified if you feel you are handing over your power.
IMO It sounds like his offer is coming from a good place, not out of a desire to make you dependent/control you. I say that because he is giving you a 6 mo timeline with the clear goal to finish your thesis. If he wanted control over you then there would be no timeline and no thesis. If he starts monopolizing your time away from your thesis or minimizing your thesis then that will be a red flag and why an exit strategy needs to be defined/established beforehand.
You have a good group of friend though, because it is more common that this type of situation does form out of a desire to control or have a SAH wifey/domestic servant situation without understanding the value of that type of work. It is more risky for a woman in a traditional m/f relationship to do this in general. They’re just looking out for you, but you have to decide for yourself. Time for you to do risk analysis on the relationship, your options, and the timeline.
If op said that sending hot pics was a regular thing they did, I'd absolutely believe it was an accident or at least it couldhavebeenan accident. I've sent emails and texts to the wrong people before (never nudes, but I digress).
But since she said it's not something that they do, I don't believe that the pic was intended for his wife. It's one of 2 scenarios, either it was meant for someone either with a similar name or near sister's contact in his phone. Or it was him testing the waters with sister. Like someone else said, his apology was more like oh I'm so sorry…. unless…. I don't have enough info to place a bet on which of the 2 it is, but those are really the only plausible explanations.
I said the same thing and then my ex punched me while pregnant for a disagreement about sex work. Not even about me doing it or anything but fir me saying that women in the industry should have protection incase of rape and abuse.
He was drunk and high on coke. Do you want to end up the way I did? 7 years later and I'm too scared to even try a new relationship, I rather stay single and raise my kids in peace.
I don’t see how you build a healthy relationship with someone with BPD who refuses treatment for it. Best advice? Don’t waste your 20s on trying to build something with her. She’s not the one.
I don't plan on being dependent, I've been independent since 20 and don't plan on going back. I'm interviewing for jobs there now and will pick up something in the meantime to make sure I have some funds to fall back on. If things turn sour I have some family not too far away I can fall back on
Yeah many people have suggested this but her dad is still paying for her phone, so unfortunately I’d have to go through him
What?? They're friends. What about this other than OP being a woman makes you say she is using him for attention?
you have 60 more years of living to do as opposed to 11 together.
The answer is obvious but I understand the courage required is not easy at all.
Unfortunately the fallout in the short term could be painful, but long term far less pain.