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Date: November 18, 2022
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I don’t think that it stems from a place of insecurity, and I’m not doing anything shameful for my kids to see. I’m not acting like a lunatic or something in these scenarios, I’m just telling dudes I’m not trying to have the stop and chat they’re looking for.
I can't disagree with him on either of those points.
Your ex is messed up in the head for seeing anything else than a loving brother taking care of his incapacitated sister. Glad you dumped her.
First time is going to be uncomfortable and usually over way before you expect. I don't care if you have known the person for ages or not.
I can't tell you what to do though, I can only tell you to do what you want to do. My first time was pretty unremarkable and I wasn't deeply in love. I'm a guy though, so I don't really know what if any implications that means.
All I can think of is what I would tell my daughter – I trust you to do what you feel is right for yourself. Be safe, use protection, have an exit plan. At any point you can say 'nope changed my mind'.
If you decide to wait, that's completely OK too. No one but you can tell you what's right or wrong for you.
If I understand correctly, you are away for long periods of time before you come home to your life with her. But she is at home all that time, living her life, creating her habits and ways to create happyness for herself in your absence.
Being away for long periods of time will often make it hot to grow together and make habits and patterns together. While you are away you mostly work, I would guess. Your day to day life is layed out fore you, filled with tasks and things to do. When you are on leave you come back to her and am ready for downtime and to be a partner. For her, she had to find other ways to fill her days while you are gone, create her own routine. When you come back, she can either neglect the life she sounds to be working quite hard on to prioritize you, or she can neglect you and prioritize the routines and goals she has created.
It sounds like she cant properly marry together the life she has created for herself in your absence, and the wife you want and need her to be when you swoop in before leaving again. And it seems like she has grown more fond of the stability of the everyday life she has created when you're not there to be with her, and dont know what to do when you come home and she has to deviate from it to make you happy.
I dont think either of you are at fault. I think it sounds like you spend so much time apart that you grew apart. Its very hot, and it hurts, and sometimes it just happens even when both parties still love each other. But I fear that if you try to force it, you'll leave too much room for resentment to grow before you'll have to call it quits either way.
I’m working on my plan and told my bf about it and he wants to discuss it and break down the steps together but I’m waiting for him to settle first since he got there like few days ago first to do all of that, my bf said that he also will put effort and do everything to make sure it works out, and he knows if my plan works out then he would see me before the end of the year so I guess that’s giving us both hope so fingers crossed it works out
Ok honestly, I don’t really think she’s a great friend to begin with. She definitely should’ve told you to begin with and it’s not a friend move to go on a date with him behind your back like that