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Date: October 20, 2022
Marriage doesn’t make a relationship permanent.
Half of marriages end up in divorce.
It just makes it really naked and annoying to split up.
Boyfriend and you should both want to keep it very easy to break up seeing as you barely know each other.
Maybe because I'm a woman too, but hey, he could have chosen a different career
god i love girlboss feminism
the poors just hate me for being a self-made woman and should pull themselves up by the bootstraps,
It's not your fault you have anxiety, but it is your responsbility, not theirs to deal with.
Just because they are aware of it, doesn't mean they have to change their lives and desires to fit around your needs.
I wouldn't say he disregarded me for weeks. It was always his family/friends trip. He knew he was going over a year ago. He had asked me to go but I had said no because of that (did not make financial sense for me to buy a very expensive plane ticket to have almost no say in what we did for 18 days).
So he later (months later into dating) decided to pay for my ticket because (he said) he's serious about me and wanted me to meet his family.
I paid for myself once there (we split everything else, hotels, etc.) but I knew we wouldn't really be doing any touristy things. That's why on the few occasions we did have like 8 hours or 4 hours to ourselves I wanted to do something like the beach or a cool hike. I'll have to say I also underestimating how frustrating it would be to be somewhere really cool and new, tropical, and constantly have to be rushed when wanting to get a photo or swim, etc.
He did make a big deal out of Valentine's day while we were there and that was just a me and him day. Unfortunately, it was raining that day.
I'm really not too upset about the uber/hiking trail.
It's really that he abandoned me for that 15-20 minute period and that I had to chase him down.
That to me is a really big red flag that really clashes with him buying the ticket for me to come to meet his family because he's serious about me.
And I'm really devastated by it because I was thinking we were very serious about each other.
I accidentally caught the oldest child of my 42yo sister telling the oldest child of my 39yo sister that “we hate him” (referring to their family in general I am assuming) when he asked him about his opinion of me.
It wasn't the sister it was one of her kids.
The kid got it from somewhere, though.
Ask yourself if you have the time and energy to hand-hold him through why that stuff is misogynistic, and if he will even listen to you if you try?
I've wasted years on people I thought would grow out of some pretty gross mindsets, but most of the time they don't, and if they do it probably won't be because you've shown them the light. It'll be because voicing that shit either costs them relationships/opportunities, or because they have an epiphany one day. They may learn to tone it down around you, but they won't change their mindset and you'll feel disappointed/disgusted every time they slip up and regurgitate some BS line they heard from their favorite hate group.
People who choose to poison their minds with that shit are choosing it for a reason- they get a rush from being riled up by an echo chamber.
“Why don't we have dinner catered in so that everyone can enjoy themselves instead of slaving away in the kitchen?”
Or suggest a potluck style dinner so everyone brings a dish.
Do you communicate about what you like? A lot of women do not orgasm from penile penetration. Honestly, probably most. You should communicate and see what works best for you. There is so much more to do with fingers and tongues and toys in addition to or instead of PIV sex.
Is this actually a hopeless case and I should stop talking to him?
Yes yiu should, he is not your pet project to try and fix. He has absolutely no intention of improving himself. In fact you are probably giving him all the attention he wants because you are so set on trying to help him change.
How do you become best friends with someone half your age?
And here you are being just as closed-minded by insisting that you know for sure that all these couples waited. Naive, and hypocritical.
Wtf. They need to teach this shit in schools.
Ugh, it’s so messed up. Max is legally an adult at 18 but he’s still in high school. He was definitely groomed. When his daughter reaches 18 and he sees that she’s still an immature child, it’s going to hit him like a ton of bricks that he was an 18 year-old immature child once and an adult looked at him like prey.
There’s a lot going on here. Yes, she could’ve asked you to work out with her, but it’s not her responsibility to monitor your weight.
Yes, she could’ve refused to communicate with you when you wanted more details after she said that she felt “disconnected.” She wasn’t wrong for telling the truth when you asked about what she was feeling. Would you rather have her lie?
She was wrong for gaslighting you after the fact. She can’t pretend that she didn’t say it. Her wanting to move on may be due to how much it hurt her to tell you, but she can’t discount your feelings about what she said.
If you can, find a good mental health professional to help you figure out why you’ve gone into such negative thoughts. It sounds like this is all in your head now; your mentioning that she hasn’t “done enough to make up for it,” and you questioning whether she cares at all, is worrying for your relationship. The lowering of your self confidence is another thing that can be helped with a good therapist, too. (Is it possible that you secretly resent her for telling the truth about your weight that you were trying to ignore about yourself?)
After your own therapy, consider finding a couples therapist to then help you communicate how much this affected you. It sounds like you have a relationship worth saving. I wish y’all well.
Tell her your timeline and see if she’s down to keep waiting, otherwise let her go so she can still find someone. If you’re not sure now you probably won’t be sure in 3 years either
We get along in a lot of other parts of our relationships is sexual compatibility a big enough issue to throw away 6 years of being together? I guess that’s what my real question is.
Why would you only want to take a break from someone so toxic?
What are you making NOW though? That degree value isn't doing you any good, and you're not in a position to use a potential pay increase as a bargaining chip. You're either unmotivated, or afraid that you're not skilled enough to make the good money (lack confidence), but either way, you're not making enough NOW, to demand more of your gf.
You want the traditional roles, and she's doing hers perfectly fine as the housekeeper, but you are NOT playing yours as the breadwinner and provider. You're making $14/hr and you expect her to respect your demand to step up around the house? She may barely respect you in general, based on your behavior and personality. You have a CS degree, but you're coming off dumb and dense AF. My advice to you is to start looking for one of those better paying jobs that's going to pay more money, or start doing more around the house. Also, encourage your gf and let her know that you appreciate her, and her efforts.
You should absolutely be questioning your marriage after this. I could never look at my SO the same way if he reacted the way your husband did. This is not a conversation that he gets to decide he’s done discussing. If you have somewhere else you could stay for a few days to process things I’d suggest taking some time to yourself to reflect on what you’d like to do in terms of your relationship.