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Hmmm. I wonder if he’s ready to propose (or thinking about it more), but he’s just getting worked up about the age difference and what that would mean as you both get older.
You could always throw into various conversations things that would reaffirm your love for him and that you’re excited when you think about your future with him. Like I said, try to be subtle, but hopefully a few little extra things like that will help him out.
If you prefer not to do that, you can always just bring up the past conversation. You can start with something like “so I’ve been thinking about our conversation from the other night and I want to make sure you’re feeling ok about our age difference and our future together.”
You’ve been with him for a long time, so I’d like to think you can bring this up to him and you can both have an open/honest and mature conversation with each other about it.
You're not being honest with him. That can't go on.
His mood swings are even more worrying.
Can i just ask out of curiosity?! They must sell plastic ones?! Just to keep the site open, so they would be safe to use?!?!
No but I have been in a relationship with someone on the asexual spectrum. Sex was always a delicate topic, but even if she agreed to it at first and then changed her mind during it or didn't actively participate, there was never any discussion about to keep going or so. Stop means stop. End of story.
coercion.
My boyfriend works a physically demanding job, I’m a SAHM. I’m mentally exhausted by the time he gets home and if I stop moving long enough I’m like that anti-weed ad where the lady is deflated on the couch. I’d say on average we have sex 1-2 times a week, sometimes not at all. We’re in the same boat, we’d love to do it more but it doesn’t cause friction! We’re both pretty satisfied (I speak for myself but I think he’d say the same) and the areas taking up the time that could be spent on that are great, so it’s overall satisfying. We have 2 children (2 YO and 8 mos) and his job takes up a lot of his time, so we’re happy to spend time together as a family whenever we can. Yesterday we stepped away for 5 minutes and that’ll probably be it until Thursday, or so. Who knows! I think the takeaway is that if it works for you BOTH, it works. The people keeping tally on a board and have a frowny face when they don’t hit a quota are kinda weird to me.
I grew up with my previous partner, knew her for 16 years. Destroyed everything I knew about trust, this girl I know is different but I’m honestly scared to proceed with it. I just don’t feel like it’s fair to let my past influence our relationship
It’s sweet you’re so willing to put the effort into this. Just don’t go pouring all your energy into this without reciprocation on her part, and make sure you have other things in your life too. Not once have you mentioned what she’s going to try to do to work on the relationship…
You said she was more attracted to you when you were kinda ignoring her… almost as though she wants to always have to prove herself to you. I think you’re right, this is unsustainable and frankly… a little toxic. You might be willing to give her a healthy sustainable relationship, but if she’s not looking for that right now, you can’t change her (just as much as she can’t make you act like the ‘player’ she seems to want to date).
Tbh it seems like she’s a little immature, you seem to be willing to be open, put in the work and give her what she wants… then she wants more. Tbh forgetting a birthday gift when you’ve been together under a year shouldn’t be a huge deal. As long as you put effort towards her sometime around her birthday… as you said you did. Be careful, if she’s demanding material and swoon-worthy (or instagram-worthy) events, only give what you can sustainably afford.
If her love language is gifts, you’re right, make sure you incorporate that (if you want this to continue). But all in all, I hope she learns to appreciate you and what you’re willing to do for her. If she doesn’t.. you sound like a super sweet and kindhearted person, I’m sure theres someone who will appreciate everything you are/do.
I walk away.
When I was still dating if a guy went that direction with stuff it was a hot no for me. I just didn't find myself interested after I saw that side of them.
Opening a marriage is not something you do to save a marriage. and if you do not want it than stick to your boundaries. If he keeps pushing for it, it may be a deal breaker. Time to look at your finances and your support group around you. Better to be prepared than left with no where to go
Yeah I agree. I'm not arguing. Lol. I hate crying in front of someone you know so it's hot to allow friends/family over or be around but yeah I need to busy myself and let the attorney figure things out. Honestly, I dont wish this pain on my worst enemy and I know alot of people have gone through what I'm feeling now but hell, its rough lol.
It’s a gift and a curse to be born good looking. Chicks wanna show us their tits. Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.
How do I get her back?
You don't.
Dude you're 32, you're past old enough to know better than this “act like an asshole to impress the ladies” bullshit.
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I also said they’re not compatible and it doesn’t seem like he even likes her. But that wasn’t the question
I'm lost.
There is absolutely no fucking way I would tolerate this level of disrespect. DTMFA
I think its still good to have a conversation with him if it's bothering you. Discuss the future and see if you're on the same page.
I cant help but wonder if he is testing your limits, I understand if someone has bad thoughts and feels guilty to tell your partner but doing so over and over again? Like imagine if he cheats, would you see him able to tell you it was a “drunk slip” and “please forgive me I feel so bad”?
My girl
She’s a 42 year old alcoholic grown woman
It is not worth your mental health.
Why does your wife think she is above danger? Everything about this points to a dangerous situation, the risks are so alarmingly high I am shocked. Is she depressed?
I don't know. It doesn't sound like he said you weren't as smart as him so much as you and he are smart in different ways.
He thinks you are not as street smart as he is because by your own admission you are more trusting and usually have your head in the clouds.
Why does it matter? Why did you ask him about this subject specifically? There's no answer that he could give that would satisfy you.
If he said you were smarter you would probably think he was being facetious and that's because this is an insecurity on your end not his.
Your husband is textbook abusive, the way he treats you is not love, it's control. He wants you to stop seeing your dad because he wants you to be isolated so that you never leave him, he's a creep, he preyed on you because he can control you.
A man who cares about you would never stop you from being with your loved one. He would want you to be happy and that means letting you be your own person. A man who cares about you would never call you names and insult you. Again, that is not love. Your husband is a bad person and you will never know true love while you're with him.
Please don't stop seeing your dad, he doesn't deserve it. Your dad is the one with every reason to not like your husband because he sees how terrible of a person he is.
Every day you don't leave your relationship is a day too late.
Look, if I were to date someone 2/3 older than me, I wouldn't let the man do shit like this to me. If anything, it'd be a shitfest or I will break things off. Idk why a lot of people do this and get overpowered immediately.
It doesn’t matter how long you’d been together. If you were sharing finances, the decision impacted her too.
This is horrible. As a SA survivor, I wouldn't be with anybody who falsely accused someone of rape. I don't care how intertwined our life is. And honestly, I wouldn't let my kids around someone like that either. I would get the kids DNA tested. I would divorce. And if the kids are yours, I'd get full custody.
!remindme 6 months
First time performance anxiety. It happens, and it’s not a reflection of how attractive he finds you. It’s just unfortunate timing and too much thinking and too much drinking.
Does she even realize that had you not been there who knows what would have happened to her?
Out her coworker to his wife just in case he is lying or spinning it. Then end it and don't bother with couples therapy.
She's lying to you bro, you called it as is, half truths and lies. More is going g to come out and you wo t like what you hear, I'd say it's rational to take a step back and re-assess your relationship. But one I beg of you is don't fall for sweet nothings in your ear.
Still think you need a DNA test
I think you should tell him just what you wrote here. It all makes sense and is reasonable and fair. Start planning some girls dinners and brunches. If you lay it out for him as you did here, he should be very understanding and supportive of your time spent with friends. Tell him that you are lonely, not romantically but in terms of being a woman and friends wise (this would apply too if you were a man or for any gender, but as a female myself I think you are yearning for that specific female friendship support/interaction). I think as humans this is a sort of loneliness that is easy to understand and to want for our spouses to have that outlet.
Anyways – just tell him exactly what you said here. It makes sense! It is fair and reasonable. PS this isn’t you asking him permission, it’s more like sharing your inner feelings and motivations with him so that he understands why you need to hang with your friends too. As a spouse you are coordinating daily plans with him.
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Thank you for your answer! I’ll try this out.
I hope he tells the friend group either way
You are graduating Med School! That is freaking HUGE achievement wise! Well done!!
Do NOT miss walking the stage for that! You earned it!!
Any man will to go against your comfort and consent while also being demeaning and risking your literal health is not worth staying around. He does not care about you and you need to leave him. You deserve so much better. There is nothing wrong with your body. The probably is him and him alone.
You'll still be a doctor when your brother gets divorced. You know where to invest your time.