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No, it can't. The whole point is the lack of respect and feminism. Stop being so naive lol. Just leave the dude and start dating a proper guy, or continue your sugar business.
Btw, no sugar daddy is going to be a good person. They are doing this because they can't get women the proper way. Why is that? Did you gave it a thought?
“Worth” it, or not (to you), you should do whatever you feasibly can to repair the damage. You caused the damage, you're responsible for it – try to fix it / make it better/”repaired” as feasible. Doesn't mean you'll get sh*t out of it, but don't expect to. You f*cked it up, you should try to repair the damage – period. Do the right thing.
And if it works out for you … great, … if not, “oh well”. Can't change the past. But do the right thing – at least reasonably try to fix it / repair the damage, etc.
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Just do the same to him when he starts bragging. For example tell him how many guys you’ve been with and their attractiveness (lie if you have to). He won’t do it again
The thing you have to remember is how incredibly hot it is to come to the realization that you’ve changed your mind and you have to break it to the person you love. It doesn’t seem like she was manipulating you but that she had come to the realization that she doesn’t think she wants them. Show her a little grace here and give her the genetic the doubt and just talk to her. And definitely apologize. She said something to you that was probably incredibly hard, explains the wine, and you handled it poorly. Own that. Have a grown up conversation about kids and what you both truly want.
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No, it can't. The whole point is the lack of respect and feminism. Stop being so naive lol. Just leave the dude and start dating a proper guy, or continue your sugar business.
Btw, no sugar daddy is going to be a good person. They are doing this because they can't get women the proper way. Why is that? Did you gave it a thought?
worth it to try?
“Worth” it, or not (to you), you should do whatever you feasibly can to repair the damage. You caused the damage, you're responsible for it – try to fix it / make it better/”repaired” as feasible. Doesn't mean you'll get sh*t out of it, but don't expect to. You f*cked it up, you should try to repair the damage – period. Do the right thing.
And if it works out for you … great, … if not, “oh well”. Can't change the past. But do the right thing – at least reasonably try to fix it / repair the damage, etc.
But don't push what won't work. E.g. if being around or trying with those you've hurt/damaged, only makes it worse for them … then let it/them go. Some things can't be fixed – or can't be fixed by you.
And don't be doing more f*ckups. Keep with the recovery, therapy, etc. And bloody hell, don't ever drink again, and don't be an *ss.
Good luck – and keep workin' on it.
Just do the same to him when he starts bragging. For example tell him how many guys you’ve been with and their attractiveness (lie if you have to). He won’t do it again
Time for a new boyfriend.
The thing you have to remember is how incredibly hot it is to come to the realization that you’ve changed your mind and you have to break it to the person you love. It doesn’t seem like she was manipulating you but that she had come to the realization that she doesn’t think she wants them. Show her a little grace here and give her the genetic the doubt and just talk to her. And definitely apologize. She said something to you that was probably incredibly hard, explains the wine, and you handled it poorly. Own that. Have a grown up conversation about kids and what you both truly want.
Cool story, what relationship are you wanting advice on bor?