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Date: November 20, 2022
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Seems to me you’re not in a position to move unless you’re cool with abandoning your child which I think is a douche move.
You aren't throwing away anything, she already did that when she decided to step out of the relationship and seek company from someone else. Grieve the relationship you thought you had and move on with someone who will actually treat you better and not like an after thought.
You didn't do anything wrong. He broke up with you.
Tell him to grow up.
WTF. OP, THIS IS NOT OKAY. THIS IS NOT A GOOD MAN.
Forced pregnancy is something a toxic and potentially dangerous person does when they see you as an incubator, not a human being.
I'm a woman and a similar situation to this happened to me at uni, and countless of my female friends were led on/rejected/embarrassed/heartbroken by guys we knew. I would give OP exactly the same advice if she was a girl, being 20 is hot and all the people around you are horny drunk eejit's, but you can't blow up your friendship circle over every hurt feeling.
I cried my eyes out, stormed home and ate loads of ice cream when a guy who'd said he liked me kissed another girl in front of me on a night out. Then I sulked for a few days, pulled myself together, told him we could still be friends and moved on. Holding a grudge and maintaining feuds in a university friend group is bloody exhausting and rarely worth the hassle.
Jesus Christ. Firstly, you felt the need to go through his phone, right there shows you knew in your gut something was wrong. So he’s just drunk on a random weekday night and he’s sus so you look at his phone and find this garbage. This is immaturity, criminal, what the fuck is wrong with him? This isn’t something that can be explained away. I know you have 6 years invested in him but surely there were other things going wrong before this? It doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship at all.
I’d recommend going to stay with a friend or family or a hotel and maybe don’t even tell him why for the first night. You’ve got to get your nerves under control and settle down. You don’t need to explain.
I’d say my friend is having a crisis or you just miss your mom or something, and go spend the night there. Get some time between this discovery and your next encounter with him.
He likely will be worried you tell others and who knows how he will act. People can snap when they feel humiliated (as he should.)
You don’t owe him an explanation beyond you realize it’s not right and you gave different values. I’d be careful in telling him what you found. I don’t know if you should.
It's a stupid point because most people don't seek out these situations and find themselves in it but because they have had this experience a lot they are projecting it onto all of society.
Exactly.