He wouldn’t do a anything to hurt you but isn’t this hurting you? He’s spending time with alone with a long term childhood FWB. He did finally fess up who she really is but after he already set up the lunch date. If it’s just just lunch then it should be short and less than 1.5 hours. He should be checking in with you right after and leave separately back home. Otherwise he is just spending the day with her. It’s your relationship and your feelings. You have the right to ask questions and you should. If he can’t be reached to answer your questions then you know the worse is happening.
Start saving up $ and make an exit plan. She is verbally and emotionally abuse to you and you do not deserve this. I'm so sorry. None of this is your fault.
I understand how you’re feeling. It’s a common reaction from women in this scenario, but I promise you it’s really not you. I know that’s hot to understand but any guy reading this knows it’s true. Dicks are weird, sometimes they randomly go soft even if you really want to sleep with the person. Don’t take it personally
You probably look great in a high portal, so he doesn't want others to see you like that. So instead of working on his insecurities he treats you badly.
It wasn’t rude. Based on what you wrote here, it seems you were just trying to put some boundaries around your interactions with him, which was totally acceptable.
He’s the one who chose to make it “a point” by calling the groom and telling him he’s not going. Because Bob loves drama and loves being the center of attention. It’s all about Bob, in Bob’s mind.
I’d leave it. I wouldn’t bring it up or talk about it unless someone specifically asks. It’s really between you and Bob so I’d just keep it that way, period.
I don't understand how people find themselves in these kind of situations.
Regardless of whether he's married or a catfish, you are uncomfortable and unhappy with the situation so why do you continue?
Luckily you're only 2 months deep and not 2 years. Give an ultimatum to meet. If he doesn't show up then you have your answer on the next steps to start moving on and placing your energy else where
Because misogyny
He wouldn’t do a anything to hurt you but isn’t this hurting you? He’s spending time with alone with a long term childhood FWB. He did finally fess up who she really is but after he already set up the lunch date. If it’s just just lunch then it should be short and less than 1.5 hours. He should be checking in with you right after and leave separately back home. Otherwise he is just spending the day with her. It’s your relationship and your feelings. You have the right to ask questions and you should. If he can’t be reached to answer your questions then you know the worse is happening.
Start saving up $ and make an exit plan. She is verbally and emotionally abuse to you and you do not deserve this. I'm so sorry. None of this is your fault.
I understand how you’re feeling. It’s a common reaction from women in this scenario, but I promise you it’s really not you. I know that’s hot to understand but any guy reading this knows it’s true. Dicks are weird, sometimes they randomly go soft even if you really want to sleep with the person. Don’t take it personally
1-3 of his meals a week would be microwaveable until he learned to carry his weight, & that would be the end of that.
You probably look great in a high portal, so he doesn't want others to see you like that. So instead of working on his insecurities he treats you badly.
This is not going to change.
I wish I was back in time 5 minutes ago when I hadn't read this post.
It wasn’t rude. Based on what you wrote here, it seems you were just trying to put some boundaries around your interactions with him, which was totally acceptable.
He’s the one who chose to make it “a point” by calling the groom and telling him he’s not going. Because Bob loves drama and loves being the center of attention. It’s all about Bob, in Bob’s mind.
I’d leave it. I wouldn’t bring it up or talk about it unless someone specifically asks. It’s really between you and Bob so I’d just keep it that way, period.
I don't understand how people find themselves in these kind of situations.
Regardless of whether he's married or a catfish, you are uncomfortable and unhappy with the situation so why do you continue?
Luckily you're only 2 months deep and not 2 years. Give an ultimatum to meet. If he doesn't show up then you have your answer on the next steps to start moving on and placing your energy else where