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Date: December 14, 2022
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Tell her you idiot. You are both liars holding each other hostage. Poor baby.
A lot of it is how someone was raised. A lot of men from a young age are taught that it's actions over emotions and that emotions have no inherit value. This is what my mother taught me. It takes an individual choice and life experiences to personally decide that's BS and that you have to unlearn those habits and redo it all. Unfortunately a lot of men don't receive those life experiences and instead run into instances that reinforce action over emotion. They don't figure it out until it's too late and they've screwed up their marriage in their 30's or 40's. We've finally started getting men to accept and go to therapy, the next step is teaching the generations behind them the value of emotions and communication. Part of that is to abandon the idea that all satisfaction derived from a relationship is sex. We have to stop pushing sex as the end goal for human interaction in relationships.
Fuck right off – it’s always worth it to take these things seriously. If it’s fake, you just spend like a minute crafting a comment and move on. If it’s real, it may actually help someone in a bad situation.
Profound and beautifully stated.
Jesus, lady. Go back and read your post and your comments together. My husband makes a lot more than me, and I’m not able to get him the same monetary level of gifts he gives me. I’ve tried to set a spending limit, but he bulldozes it every year.
That said, I take the time to get him something thoughtful, and he’s always appreciated it. This year I managed to find his favorite stuffed animal from when he was a kid, and he cried when he saw it.
This guy traded in items from his special collection in order to get you something special, and you don’t feel special because he didn’t spend money on it. This, when you make $100k more per year than him and he’s barely above the poverty line.
This isn’t AITA, but YTA.
Your comment is not advice on the situation and is sexist. I do have a job taking care of our new child. I had a job up until after I gave birth. Childcare is extremely expensive and we cannot afford and my husband and I both agree that having someone at home with the baby is better for her. I currently spend 18 hours a day 7 days a week doing childcare he works 12 hours (including commute) 4 days a week. Comparing childcare alone I work more than him.
If you have nothing but sexist comments to make don’t comment at all.
Just keep telling her
If you decide that you can continue with long distance and his behaviour is going on you need to talk with him though. Saying something like “I feel like you aren't talking that much to me in the past few days and I really miss you”
Just be open. Tell him how you feel but try to not accuse him of doing it on purpose or that he doesn't love you because that hasn't to be the source of his behaviour
Have you talked to him about it? I feel like you can point out to him that he's gotten worse. Is it possible he doesn't realize how bad it's gotten? You can say “Hey, I love you but you have been really snappy, mean, and negative lately. You weren't always like this. Are you okay?” Say it at a time when you're both calm + in a good mood. See how he responds. Maybe bring up all of the stress you're under. Maybe suggest ways for him to get away from it for a bit if you can. (And also take into mind that YOU deserve a break too.)
If he responds to you in a prickly way, back off, give him space, and try to come back to it in a few days. “I know you don't want to talk about this but at this point your attitude is really taking a toll on me. I love you and I don't want you to be miserable. And I also don't want to feel like I'm walking on eggshells around you half the time. So what can we do to help you?”
But I don't think there's a way to not let it bother you. It's normal that it bothers you– he's being a jerk! And I think that if he is the problem, he should also try to be the solution. Don't turn off part of your heart because he's a jerk.
Boohoo
He aimed at her face. He didn’t kiss himself, he aimed. She was assaulted. He needs a restraining order.
If he can't even say he loves you after 2 years, then he ain't worth your time, sis. It's pretty clear he's just not that into you and it's time for you to move on. You deserve someone who's gonna fight for you and make you feel loved and appreciated, not someone who's just gonna flake and avoid you all the time.
As for getting through this, just focus on yourself for now. Take some time to heal and focus on the things that make you happy. Surround yourself with good friends and family who love and support you. Do things that you love and that make you feel good about yourself. And remember, time heals all wounds. Eventually, you'll find someone who's gonna treat you like the queen you are.
In the meantime, just focus on being the best version of yourself and don't settle for anything less than what you deserve. Don't let this dude bring you down or make you feel like you're not enough.
I don’t know what you expected – you married a man that already didn’t get along with your dad. Did you think that by marrying him would make these 2 grown men forget their differences?
If maintaining both relationships is important to you then you need to lay down boundaries with your husband. Don’t discuss your dad with him and tell him you’re not willing to enter his comments or discussion about him.
If your husband won’t abide by your boundaries you’ll need to decide to live as you’ve been living or pick the relationship that is more important to you.
Your husband sounds like an immature loser (which at his age means there is absolutely no hope for improvement) so I hope it will be an easy choice for you.
Good luck
You won't win with a narcissist. That's the bottom line. But you have to decide whether what you want and what get from the relationship is worth it all.
Either way, I really wish you good luck with it.
What? “Alternative” is the name of a scene. It’s a label, and a proud one, as in alternative to the mainstream.
I understand her reaction tbh. I know most people are saying she cheated but it can be a complete headtrip when you envision your life going one way and suddenly that vision is gone. Plus she might have family pressure to excel or be the first to go to college in her family. We don't know the pressures on her.
Hopefully when things settle and she has mental health support through the pregnancy you will both be able to discuss the impact of her hiding the pregnancy on both of you. I wouldn't think it unreasonable to have a dna test but would suggest that you let things settle down and possibly approach the idea within therapy, rather than just the two of you as she is clearly mentally vulnerable.
Best wishes
Bachelor and bachelorette parties are antiquated. I wouldn't put up with this.
Why can’t/won’t be attempt to make friends where you all live now?
A lot of peoples’ financial outlook has changed substantially the past 3 years, and what was sustainable in 2019 is not going to be for much longer. If they don’t already own a home, he’s probably silently spiralling realizing that her being a SAHM is not going to work.
It’s neither of their fault.
I'm guessing this post is fake, but in case it's not, just break up with her. You clearly aren't ready for marriage with her.
Yes, you probably should have specified that, rather than leave it misleading like they are actually spending time together side by side. Why don’t you edit that in your OP?
Well this is a different scenario. Why are you so worry about her playing video games in your house, while he is in his house playing video games with her? What are you afraid is going to happen?
Tell your judgmental friends that soon he'll be free and then they can start dating him. “Ableist” is a refusal to hire, rent to or extend credit to a disabled person solely based on their disability. It's not relevant in one's personal life and you're allowed to date or not date whomever you so choose. Remind your friends that personal preferences are still allowed.
They worded as they was an altercation and said I was escorted off property. There was no altercation, and I thought everyone was escorted off after being fired. Working with a different staffing agency hoping to get start date soon.
Not it’s not about the ring or invites. But weddings cost money. Rings cost money. Deposits must be made. When you spend on something you invest in it. And you’re right, she could’ve gotten nervous and changed her mind. But only she knows that. On another note, I would love to hear from OP if she has done anything manipulative in the past. For him to go directly to that statement is….a lot.
Well, your gaslighting isn't going to change my mind.
Here's the rub. You never know the thoughts that secretly go through your partner's minds. Most of them aren't voiced out of desire to keep the peace. This is also true in business. Nobody is an open book. And, if you think I'm wrong you clearly don't have a lot of varied experience.
You shouldn't have to tiptoe through your life like this. No healthy relationship would require you to always be on edge analyzing if you should or should not answer your partners questions.
For me if I felt like I had to create a specific narrative for my partner that would mean we were not compatible or on the same page. You should be able to be open and honest with your partner and not feel stupid for answering questions.
You can find someone you care about that doesn't involve tolerating this sort of nonsense.
I think this is what was bothering me.
There's more to it than the instagram and the flowers, then. You said she was crying often, and that you don't even do the bare minimum. Based on everything I've read, neither of you are good at communicating your needs, expectations and feelings very well.
Throw in your breaking up with her over something you said was “stupid” and then changing your mind with your dumper's remorse, and you're not a reliable boyfriend.
It sounds exhausting