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Date: October 22, 2022
Thank you. He’s in the anger phase right now calling me names and sending rude texts. His mum called to confirm he’s at their house now.
I get that, but a lot of people in this thread are hung up on that, and I don't think 7 is a lot.
I was a “late bloomer” in my school, and only had 3 by the age of 17. The popular and handsome/beautiful kids had waaaay more before we all graduated. And this was pre-smartphone era.
Honestly, before 20, relationships do feel disposable since both sides are growing and learning what they want, what is reasonable, what is not normal, etc. On another comment, OP is literally looking to jump into another relationship to get over this one. I think he still needs to grow up, and the only way for him to do it is through first-hand experience.
I don't really think sex with other people is better. However it depends on how often you already have sex.
It is a skill that both people need to practice together often. If it's not often enough then the sexual experience doesn't really get to the point where people spend enough time to exploring it together to keep it interesting.
Similarity creates a negative feedback loop of boredom and lack of interest. A lack of interest leads to less sex, and less sex usually means sex stays the same or gets worse.
Which of course is only one reason why it's not interesting anymore. It could also feel like you were manipulated, that they were only having sex with you as a means of managing their anxiety about the relationship. Then as the relationship gets more and more solid they don't feel the need to have sex because they feel secure. But you weren't having sex with ulterior motives, you just liked having sex a lot.
Another problem is that when you are constantly having to masturbate to get the sexual release you need. You start to question why this sexual relationship exists in the first place. If you are supposed to stay loyal no matter the situation. Then it feels unfair that you are stuck masturbating so much. All because the only person who you are allowed to have sex with doesn't want to have sex.
What is the point of the relationship rules if you are masturbating as much as you would if you were single. At least if you were single you could go looking for someone who you could have sex with and no one would be upset about it. Now you have to stay starved of what you want and need because it'll hurt the person you love who also happens to be depriving you of what you need.
So yeah it's a difficult situation.
Go to the wedding & try to keep your thoughts to yourself about his “wife to be”. As difficult as it is, just remind yourself this is not really your business. It’s his life.
He knows how you feel, correct? If so, then it’s WAY more effective to stay silent when he confides in you. Let him talk/complain/whatever. You should listen, nod, look concerned but say very little. Let him hear himself. Let him hear his own words.
You should say “Dad, I just want you to be happy”. (That’s it. No advice. Or he will feel compelled to defend his choice to online with/marry this person.)
Letting him talk can be more effective than telling him know how you feel about his situation.
Expect that he will marry her. Just be the silent, understanding daughter.
It's completely normal that she wants to spend time with you. You seem to prioritise everything above her. If you don't have the time for a girlfriend and don't want to make time for a girlfriend, then maybe you shouldn't have one.
In a relationship, you can't make it all about yourself. You seem to show very little care and thoughtfulness towards her.
Ah in that case, I’d just let it fade away. Not even worth rehashing or feeling bad about.
Please listen to this old and experienced internet stranger, I promise you I care. I’m 39 and I’ve been in your shoes. I was with an emotional abusive man who promised me he would change and never did. He doesn’t love you, he can’t love you because he doesn’t love himself right now and he definitely doesn’t have it in him to love a baby as well. I’ve also worked for an abortion provider. If you have any questions I am so happy to answer them for you (or for anyone). I’m not the in the US so can’t answer to how the process works there but I can tell you how the medications work, how the operations work, what you’re likely to feel physically etc. You need to do what is best for you and none of us should influence that decision but please talk this through with people who love you first. Your besties, your family, people you trust. Reach out and get all the information you can before you make a decision.
Why would you stay?
Agree
As someone near your ages…. I KNOW my wife is trying to figure out how I do it so smooth and confident or how my arm doesn't get tired….
the answer is practice.
thanks for your answer, I totally agree but how do you end it with someone over this? What do you say to them?
Why would his mind immediately leap to infidelity rather than assuming the vasectomy failed?
wtf anyone with the money for a license/forms can get married, you're a fucking doctor. Celebrate that shit.
That’s even worse – you decided to live with a girl your girlfriend clearly isn’t comfortable with without even talking to her about it…..
Does the “ex” girlfriend think he's single? It's easy to imagine the ex knows he's in a relationship….with her.
I would get biodegradable plates and cutlery and diy sandwich ingredients and eat sandwiches for many many days rather than cooking. I’m not kidding or exaggerating for effect.
You’ve explained very patiently and reasonably and told him things that should actually be obvious to anyone with a bit of empathy. The next stage for me would be no cooking, no dishes, until he complains about the sandwiches, then saying ‘there is a direct cause and effect here. Have you spotted it yet?’
Yes it’s a bit childish. You could say to him ‘I give you fair warning that if you don’t start washing the dishes after dinner every evening, we are going to live on sandwiches and biodegradable plates and utensils until you start doing your share.’ Then sandwich time. That way he can’t complain that you’ve blindsided him.
She’s tired with the kids. You took her on a nice trip, but guess what, she was still tired. Because sleep comes before sex when you’ve gone through major surgery and have twins.
If your need to have sex trumps her need for sleep, then you’re a shitty partner. I can’t imagine communicating to my husband that I desperately need more sleep and him getting mad because he’s horny.
Be an equal partner. Don’t let her live a life of constant exhaustion by having to take care of others needs before her own.
Don’t date the pass around
It’s not about the flowers. I guess it seems that way. Lmao. It’s more than that. But I think all in all right now, he takes care of me, he treats me well. I haven’t left his side since the day we met.
Well, are you fun to be around? Like, if you don't play D&D or you are tense when you do, they might not think of you as a logical participant.
Oh I’m not “ending things”, I’m just sad about the whole situation. I miss my partner. I still laughed and smiled a lot in our relationship. I think I’m coming to learn that it was ended due more to me “promising” things and then not following through on those promises. I also have difficulty being on “bad terms” with someone I cared for extensively. I fully understand and accept the relationship is over, and it’s likely for the best long term, but it still hurts like hell and I don’t want to be on bad terms with her.
So do people need to prepare parents for introductions in Cis relationships? No? Just LGBT? So it's homophobic?
Got it.
You deserve better girl! No man in a relationship would need tinder on his phone. He wants to try and spin this on you or make u feel guilty or crazy for not believing him.
He's a dud. Focus on yourself. You sound lovely!