If this is a one time thing, then I would accept being miffed but write it off as whatever.
If this happens often (more than once a month), then there definitely should be a conversation about “last minute” bs. Cancelling plans because of an emergency is understandable, but just going out with friends? Na.
Everything was built on deception. All the quality time and love everyone thinks is worth letting this go over is fake. That time was stolen from you because she was too selfish to give you a choice.
That, and she will look out for herself over being honest.
We had to reschedule, but have talked since and I’m getting the sense she wasn’t really interested. As a last resort I’m debating making a “joking” remark about how I thought she was dropping a hint by bringing up her open relationship.
Well we have a lot in common- I enjoy our time together, and she seems to also. We both want it and we are both consenting adults. My question is this mentally healthy for me. The morality of it is a separate question, but I think most people don't think it's immoral for a 42 year old to date a 23 year old.
Excuse me?
Don’t hog all the fun!
If this is a one time thing, then I would accept being miffed but write it off as whatever.
If this happens often (more than once a month), then there definitely should be a conversation about “last minute” bs. Cancelling plans because of an emergency is understandable, but just going out with friends? Na.
He’s throwing a tantrum
This is wbat theu aren't getting.
Everything was built on deception. All the quality time and love everyone thinks is worth letting this go over is fake. That time was stolen from you because she was too selfish to give you a choice.
That, and she will look out for herself over being honest.
We had to reschedule, but have talked since and I’m getting the sense she wasn’t really interested. As a last resort I’m debating making a “joking” remark about how I thought she was dropping a hint by bringing up her open relationship.
Well we have a lot in common- I enjoy our time together, and she seems to also. We both want it and we are both consenting adults. My question is this mentally healthy for me. The morality of it is a separate question, but I think most people don't think it's immoral for a 42 year old to date a 23 year old.