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Tease u with my body^^ [95 tokens remaining]
Date: November 13, 2022
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Tease u with my body^^ [95 tokens remaining]
Yeah I’m sorry op… that really just sucks so much but honestly you deserve better. You deserve someone to pick you and you’ll find it. Do not try to get him back- let him go and move on. Whatever they have is weird and honestly good riddance!!
The relationship won’t get better. He’s has priorities & it’s his new family. You can keep him in your life but it’ll be a one sided relationship.
Put down some boundaries. Say that you're really busy and not so good at the social and the texts. However – you both had a good time in real life. As do your partners.
I would explain to her that you don't do the social stuff. It's just not your thing. So, you'll check in at the end of the day.
I am not a big fan of if one part of a couple has a friend it does not mean the other halves have to be. My husband has a dear friend. We do couple dates. Both of us women are polite, interested and kind to each other but we have an unspoken agreement: we're here because of the husbands and don't have to play bff's.
The big picture here is that you have a lot of preconceived notions (which many do, and I surely did) about how relationships work. We can chalk that up to inexperience.
Long term relationships don’t mean constant fighting. Will people in relationships fight at one point or another? Almost certainly. But in healthy relationships, they rarely happen, and when they do, both partners work as a team to find a sustainable solution.
You focus quite a bit on her weight. Two things from there. First, you need to understand that it’s ok to be honest about what you’re attracted to. You tried as hard as possible not to seem like an asshole for bringing it up, but I’m here to tell you you’re not one. Are you just going to stay in a relationship where you’re unhappy forever and don’t want to touch your partner? Would be ridiculous. We could call you an asshole all day, but it’s your life.
Second, before you even got into her weight, I’d have advised you to end the relationship. The reason is because you said you fight constantly. Why is that? Even without specifics, if it’s constant, we have to assume that issues never get resolved. You can’t live like that.
Coming back to her weight, you can support the fact that she’s comfortable in her own skin but still not want to be in a relationship with her. As for modifications, you could have told her how you felt about them, but ultimately it’d be her decision. But just like the weight, if it doesn’t work for you then it doesn’t work for you.