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welcome to my room, my room is full of fun, i hope you can feel good and comfy. [Goal Race]
Date: November 21, 2022
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In this case LOL she's mad at op because he mentioned in casual conversation that he has tickets to go to a concert with his brother and a friend girl. Apparently he's known this friend girl for many years but has never told the girlfriend of 2 years about her. He's asking for advice on another sub whether or not he should lie to her about going to the concert with said friend girl. Because in the casual conversation when he mentioned he might be doing this she told him she felt disrespected. Which I'm sure after that… she needed space. Which is understandable.
I’m sorry, but you need to grow up a bit and learn to communicate like an adult. All you had to do was say ‘I’m not comfortable going to my car alone, let’s make a different plan’. Instead you said nothing except a passive aggressive jab and then freaked out at him. You can’t accuse him of ‘putting you in danger’ because you made the choice to take his suggestion.
So I had a talk over the phone today with her . Obvious shes still extremly hurt and confused and I asked her what yshe wants moving forward …she can't help but bring up what I did and that I didn't show her love and care on top of other things …she said if I need answers now , she thinks theres no happiness to be found but she's been saying she's been extremely confused . So I suggested if going our own way makes her feel better we will go that route and she said she doesn't have much of a choice . On a side note whenever she calls: she just wants to talk about what I did and not solve anything moving forward which honestly I can't fix what I did . I only can fix what's going forward . I understand extremly hurt and confused and that's why she brings it up all the time but it doesn't fix us . How do you suggest I handle that ? I'm at a loss
However back to the topic …she still wants me to get them a place and setrlw down the kids so the kids and spend a few days with them so they don't feel as bad but shes trying to make it seem like we are still a family . I'm all for that expect making it seem like we are a living family ? I've not idea how to handle this and need some serious advise . Thank you
This. I wouldn't consider 2 months to be a committed and exclusive relationship and so in my eyes this isn't really cheating.
Having said that, it's still not what I would want to find out now, 6 years later. She should have left it in the past.
Nope not at all.
She is still at the age where she will be making dumb mistakes. A flick doesn’t go at 20 or something.
So yeah, for his own sake he should leave her to her own dumb mistakes
It doesn’t sound like she did. If she did that knowing then there’s probably an argument here for dickish behaviour, but even then it wouldn’t mean that she’s a cheater.
But it seems like she likely kissed him because she was drunk and they were at pres having fun and kissed another guy cause she was drunk and wanted to make out then found out from all her friends that he was extremely upset and has feelings for her and felt bad. I’ve been on both ends of the situation ops describing and no one in the situations was so dramatic about it that it ended friendships. You just realise the person’s not that keen on you romantically and move on. It’s just a crush
I don't know – that sounds like you are using both him and his family.
Rent can be expensive and living with roommates can be hot. It is just part of life.
The better situation is being by yourself. You haven't spent any time alone as an adult. But honestly being single, making your life good by yourself, leaves you open to new possibilities, but not desperate to settle for bad options.