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You really need to get away from that relationship. If he truly valued what he had with you, he wouldn’t risk all of that for sexts with a random stranger. If he needed his sexual needs satisfied, he had you, wasn’t that enough for his selfish ass? Is the fact that they never met an excuse of his or what? Is that supposed to make you feel better about the whole situation? Nope. You need to dump him no matter how much he will try to brush it off with excuses, then go to therapy and build up your confidence. You deserve so much more and if he was not capable of seeing it and was looking somewhere else, then he is a big loser. Be brave and do it for yourself hugs
If not going through another pregnancy is your hardline, you need to lay it all out and ask point blank if that’s a make or break deal for her. You’d better be truly ready for her to say it’s a dealbreaker. She might not, but be ready either way.
If she agrees it’s in the best interest of your marriage not to have another pregnancy, make it contingent on you getting a vasectomy.
You live separately until he gets a clue.
Assuming you don't want to separate and let him figure out how to live! single. Stop cooking his meals. Cook your own, and let him cook his own. The same applies to any other chores. Maybe he will realize how much effort is required to do the chores. Or he will break up because irregardless of what he stayed before, he actually wants a woman to be his slave.
“Nothing to be sorry about, you do you.”
Just make sure that moving forward, her doing her, does not involve you AT ALL
Yeah… it’s a NOPE for me… she’s crying crocodile tears because she got caught
I would wait a month then sit and talk and see how you both feel.
The thing is that she hasn’t done anything wrong, people can change their mind about that and she told you. You hurt her on purpose and in a way that was unfair.
You may be hurting, but hurting doesn’t mean you’ve been wronged. In this case she’s been wronged and you have not, so if you use “we’re both hurting” as your position to resolve this—it’s pretty terrible.
I wish you had asked her why she didn’t want kids, and what changed. I know I was still learning new pregnancy facts as late as 30 that made me really reconsider ever wanting to do that. If you live in American states that have changed their abortion laws recently, being pregnant can be really dangerous because in a lot of cases doctors now wait until you’re on death’s door before they will end a doomed pregnancy. There’s even some legal ambiguity about ectopic pregnancies. All in all its pretty scary to have a uterus at the best of time, and now it’s really not the best.
Anyways, I don’t know why you’re wife changed her mind but it should have been met with compassion and curiosity—even if it lead to pain and deciding your goals are no longer compatible with a relationship. A man having a tantrum because a woman expresses hesitation about putting her life and body on the line—that’s not exactly husband of the year material, let alone father-of-daughters material.
whatever you decide to do you should also get counseling to work on your reactions and your approach to conflict.
Imagine trusting your new husband implicitly when in fact you shouldn’t be at all. Print out every last message you have from him and go hand deliver it to her. Do not leave room for error or confusion. Show her the proof and let her know how you handled you end and that she deserves to know. Then leave- Offer her your number.. she might have questions and you’ll be the only person she can trust
I think you're right. I feel it would help. And we need to set boundaries all over again kinda. I will let him know today. Thank you!