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Part of not being able to cum during sex is because of the porn and the constant masturbation
Watching Porn releases dopamine , masturbating releases prolactin Eventually like any addiction you need more to catch that same high but unlike meth or cocaine or heroin You start watching more intense pornography, you start exploring kinks, you go further down a pornographic rabbit hole.
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The cure: Counseling Giving up porn If he can obstain from porn and masturbation for a month he may start responding to standard sexual stimulation again Many antidepressants also lower sex drive However porn is typically less about the sexual stimulation and more about the way the porn makes him feel
If he serious he should either have a site blocker on his phone, or turn off Internet
Also in these 30 days while he gives up porn and masturbation, no sex. He needs to have his brain rewired
If he’s this controlling and abusive, why are you staying with him? Stop “instigating” these fights just so you can break up, that’s immature. Just end it.
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There is no accidental cheating drunk or high.
Part of not being able to cum during sex is because of the porn and the constant masturbation
Watching Porn releases dopamine , masturbating releases prolactin Eventually like any addiction you need more to catch that same high but unlike meth or cocaine or heroin You start watching more intense pornography, you start exploring kinks, you go further down a pornographic rabbit hole.
Then when you go back to standard intercourse it just doesn't do it for the individual.
Masturbating at work is a huge red flag. If he can't control himself for that 8 hours that's key that there is a huge problem.
He won't be able to kick this until he admits there is a problem.
The cure: Counseling Giving up porn If he can obstain from porn and masturbation for a month he may start responding to standard sexual stimulation again Many antidepressants also lower sex drive However porn is typically less about the sexual stimulation and more about the way the porn makes him feel
If he serious he should either have a site blocker on his phone, or turn off Internet
Also in these 30 days while he gives up porn and masturbation, no sex. He needs to have his brain rewired
If he’s this controlling and abusive, why are you staying with him? Stop “instigating” these fights just so you can break up, that’s immature. Just end it.