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In my mind, if you two have already agreed to be exclusive you’re basically already there. So it’s more than fine to clarify at this point “are we boyfriend and girlfriend?” or whatever.
Personally I don’t think it’s weird to ask; I always prefer it just for clarity. I remember in my last relationship, I asked to DTR a little while in and that’s when I considered us to officially start “dating”, but in his mind it was sort of just a semantic question and he pretty much already considered us in a relationship. 😛 We basically were, but for me at least until you make it clear you’re exclusive/you define the relationship you don’t really want to ASSUME that, because maybe they haven’t stopped seeing other people because you haven’t talked about it yet. It depends on the people, but I always like the straightforward/official clarification.
Anyway, back to your post, yeah if you two are exclusive, just go ahead and ask. She might already assume/consider you two as BF/GF because you’re exclusive, even.
Please man. We have both been busy and i am trying my best to improve myself, i have been there. I just have a bad habit of neglecting people because of past trauma and i want to change and i can. How can actions speak louder than words if you never get to prove it?
Ah so birthcontrol and condoms aren't safe together …yeah right please educate yourself better. On itselve i agree but both together it's nearly impossible ? Im a woman you would know if you check who you are talking to before making weird assumptions . In 2023 you don't need to get pregnant if you don't want to it's that simple fact
I don't really see the point on going back to our conversation and rehashing it, I'm honestly not going to be convinced of your worldview through an anonymous internet exchange.
That being said, no, I would not expect a part of my wife's inheritance. She received a significant inheritance following the passing of her father, and I have no part in that, because I trust my wife to invest finances intelligently and to be transparent. If you don't have or understand that trust then I genuinely pity you.
So no, I don't feel “salty” about that. Managing money is supposed to be done with your head, not your heart. I wouldn't have married my wife if I didn't trust her implicitly – and vice-versa.
There are two solutions: break up or find a FWB. You risk eventually having feelings for this person that you’d be sleeping with because that’s just how those things work. Regardless open relationship or not, the hot truth is that in this particular relationship, you will never have true sexual intimacy. You’re signing yourself up for a sexless life at the age of 21. If you are okay with that, definitely don’t break up. However, you have to see the situation objectively.
Not to say your partner isn’t amazing or wonderful or great, but that’s what close friends are for.
In my mind, if you two have already agreed to be exclusive you’re basically already there. So it’s more than fine to clarify at this point “are we boyfriend and girlfriend?” or whatever.
Personally I don’t think it’s weird to ask; I always prefer it just for clarity. I remember in my last relationship, I asked to DTR a little while in and that’s when I considered us to officially start “dating”, but in his mind it was sort of just a semantic question and he pretty much already considered us in a relationship. 😛 We basically were, but for me at least until you make it clear you’re exclusive/you define the relationship you don’t really want to ASSUME that, because maybe they haven’t stopped seeing other people because you haven’t talked about it yet. It depends on the people, but I always like the straightforward/official clarification.
Anyway, back to your post, yeah if you two are exclusive, just go ahead and ask. She might already assume/consider you two as BF/GF because you’re exclusive, even.
Please man. We have both been busy and i am trying my best to improve myself, i have been there. I just have a bad habit of neglecting people because of past trauma and i want to change and i can. How can actions speak louder than words if you never get to prove it?
Ah so birthcontrol and condoms aren't safe together …yeah right please educate yourself better. On itselve i agree but both together it's nearly impossible ? Im a woman you would know if you check who you are talking to before making weird assumptions . In 2023 you don't need to get pregnant if you don't want to it's that simple fact
Meh, you're 32 not 17.
And the gap's just 9 years. My stepmother is 12 years younger than my Dad and they've lasted decades.
And no one's taking sexual advantage of anyone.
And you're both in the range for adoption should you want to start a family.
I can't see any downside as long as you're in to each other.
I don't really see the point on going back to our conversation and rehashing it, I'm honestly not going to be convinced of your worldview through an anonymous internet exchange.
That being said, no, I would not expect a part of my wife's inheritance. She received a significant inheritance following the passing of her father, and I have no part in that, because I trust my wife to invest finances intelligently and to be transparent. If you don't have or understand that trust then I genuinely pity you.
So no, I don't feel “salty” about that. Managing money is supposed to be done with your head, not your heart. I wouldn't have married my wife if I didn't trust her implicitly – and vice-versa.
It sounds like there’s someone else, someone she met at work. I’m sorry but it sounds like the relationship is over.
Maybe you should read her post more carefully. She never asked for a complete cleansing, just the kissing pics.
There are two solutions: break up or find a FWB. You risk eventually having feelings for this person that you’d be sleeping with because that’s just how those things work. Regardless open relationship or not, the hot truth is that in this particular relationship, you will never have true sexual intimacy. You’re signing yourself up for a sexless life at the age of 21. If you are okay with that, definitely don’t break up. However, you have to see the situation objectively.
Not to say your partner isn’t amazing or wonderful or great, but that’s what close friends are for.