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Anthony, 33 y.o.
Location: Pennsylvania, United States
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Date: October 29, 2022
Ugh. Reminds me of my ex. When I would tell him I wasn’t in the mood, he’d start touching on me and trying to turn me on anyway, saying he was “trying to get me in the mood” ? like bruh fuck off I said I don’t want to! And then he’d try to fondle me while he beat off as if I was some kinda blow up doll and not a human being. I’d forgotten how gross that felt til just now ??
When I first read this, it was clear that this guy is insecure. Insecure about himself, trusting himself. Affirmation from his friends is more important than the person he is in the relationship with. Whiffs of misogyny, etc. and I'm thinking 'Well that's not too shocking since these kids are 16 and 17, but sill bad.'
But oh no. This dude is 27 years old. almost 30.
If he doesn't know you by now, and he hasn't had your back against this asshole 'friend', then… I think you should stop dating this guy and date a man. Much more rewarding.
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They are both crossing boundaries by the sound of it, because his replies to others on here show how immature he is
But to say he “shut it down” sounds like he’s expects her to do as he says, when life doesn’t work that way, wouldn’t we all love for things to go our way all the time, but unfortunately there has to be a mutual understanding and respect
His own agency is irrelevant here as he isn’t the one putting up a Reddit post. Why are you asking us if this means he finds you attractive? Are you planning to report him to HR then for inappropriateness?
Have him come over more. Get him his own pillow so he can share the bed with you and your husband.
With your comment in mind i would say just don't do anything. Ask yourself what would change if she tells her parents? She would probably not be able to go outside anymore and not see you. They won't just accept you all the sudden. If you break up would you be able to find someone who is allowed to date or is it common rule for parents to not allowed dating?
Love is a feeling and it doesn't just go away easily. If you think you just can't wait that long then break up. It may be better. But if it's enough you spending time with her and being happy together without people knowing then just enjoy your time and once she is allowed to date you, can go on a next step.
One more thing: ask them to watch “Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner” (the original version).
Writing really helped me express myself better, so perhaps try that.
I've been in exactly your shoes, and I had maladaptive reactions, saw things through a skewed lens, communicated poorly. I cried whenever he had to bring something up, felt guilty I wasn't improving fast enough or for hurting him.
However, at some point there was a crossroads. I had enough, feeling like every issue between us was being blamed on me and my trauma responses. And I finally had clarity and reasoning skills to communicate how I felt, and how I was right. I had been working darn nude on myself and he wasn't working hard enough to recognize my growth or to admit any responsibility on his part.
Anyways, we worked through that too and just celebrated 11 years together. There's hope, and I'm sure you'll figure yourself out eventually. But do the work for you, and for a partner who's willing to work for you too.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting your own space. Especially if you find yourself having to be the one keeping the place tidy or your partner is being inconsiderate.
I can’t say whether you’re frustrations are from you relationship solely or a byproduct of not having any personal space— you’ll have to come to your own conclusion but your options are basically: stay in your relationship and if you can afford to and are able to find a place with two bedrooms or get a separate apartment/live somewhere else; or break up.
honestly, go see the world. you're 26, you'd have to wait, 4 years, and go see the world while you're still young. you've only been seeing her for 3 weeks so you don't really know her well either. as you've said, you feel bored and trapped. go out, see the world while you're still young. you can always find someone else.
All that would absolutely be a deal breaker for me.
Yup! Glad we cleared that up
No a 16 year old is not experienced enough to look after 4 preteens.
Hire an adult babysitter and apologize for riding your girlfriend's ass when it's a combined fault situation. You for trusting a 16 year old to watch three preteens alone, her for not being honest about 16's abilities.
She wants to break up.
He struggled to understand that pregnancy could cause exhaustion because my cleaning issues started before the pregnancy when I got hurt so I can understand his point of view a little and I honestly could have tried more
I would not be so cavalier that she was not abused. She very likely could’ve been and was the golden child who responded differently and was rewarded, which might well lead to her not remembering. It does NOT mean she’s not a total ass. Just … tread carefully. Survivors of SA are not a trope and they each have their own presentations. And, that you see all this horrid behavior and want to be with her makes me wonder about you more than her. She’s clearly a jerk.
He went to the police instead of using his own hands to put that man in the ground where he belongs. I don’t know if therapy can fix that kind of weakness
Universities and schools protect themselves. Go to the police to protect you
First of all, these thoughts aren’t just coming out of nowhere. You’ve provided logical reasons why you’re unhappy. What you didn’t mention though, is have you really talked about all of this?
Not sure what you did in the past. Up to you if you want to disclose it. Either way, despite it, she chose to stay with you. As such, you might have been a complete asshole, but she stuck around. If we’re to assume you’ve shown her you’re a better person, but she’s still constantly holding things over your head, then at some point she becomes the asshole.
Regardless, if you’re thinking about what life could be like single, it’s not because you inherently want to be single (which would be perfectly fine). It’s because you’re unhappy in this relationship.
You also need to on-line and learn from this. Relationships don’t have to mean giving up your entire life. You’re part of the relationship. If it’s all about your partner’s happiness and not yours, what’s the point? Separately, obviously not “unlimited,” but you should be able to do things outside of work that inside of your relationship. Independence is important and healthy in a relationship.
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Your husband wanted you to be okay with him cheating with your best friend, which of course you aren’t. He truly thought that he was going to be having his cake and eating it too. This woman is not your friend now and hasn’t been since the very second she decided to act on her attraction to your husband. You did say no, they both knew that you were not okay with this regardless of you saying yes after, they both knew you weren’t okay with it and did not give a shit. Your husband ruined his marriage with you when he decided that he and this woman should get together and betray your relationship-it is his fault and not yours that you cannot look at him. No one is their sane mind would be able to look at him. It is this woman’s fault that you are no longer friends after she decided to go after your husband-it is not your fault that she chose to betray your friendship. She needs to disappear out of your life forever. Your husband needs to never ever have any sort of communication in any form ever with this pig. Your husband needs to pull his head out of his ass, recognize what he has done, apologize and make reparations to save the marriage, if you even still want to. Feel free to show him this.
And then you bring it here?
I also struggle, but I’ve really had to try and pull it together lately, and it’s getting harder to. I believe she does love me, and she’s trying in her own way but idk, I have to put myself first obviously but not sure how to handle it with it being so sensitive
I read your other post from about 3 years ago.. Your boyfriend has done you dirty and you took him back 3 years ago. He's talked about marriage even then, but hasn't done anything to progress your relationship since.
I have a feeling that you'll be in the same position in 3 years from now. You shouldn't have to keep asking him about it.
I don't think he's on the same page as you are.
Wait did your friend know you were interested in the dude?