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Squirt + control domi 5 mnt [Multi Goal]
Date: October 12, 2022
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Squirt + control domi 5 mnt [Multi Goal]
I know you got downvoted but I have used Bumble BFF to meet friend though usually it’s used for dating
Tell her are you kidding?!! Obviously
Sounds like a toxic relationship for both of you. Without knowing any details of your relationship, I would say that there is little that can save a toxic relationship.
Ask yourself,do you see yourself in that kind of relationship for the rest of your life? If the answer is no, you need to find someone else.
I honestly feel you so much, because I could see my boyfriend doing this. Idk it feels like men don’t put as much emphasis on stuff like this than us women
You don’t deserve this pain his actions have put you through. I’ve been cheated on too, he was my first genuine relationship and things felt so good. I felt so comfortable to be myself with him and I really thought we were it. One day he offered to grab something I left in the car and I don’t know why but I looked through his phone while he was gone and discovered he was cheating on me. It was so surreal seeing solid evidence of him telling someone else he loved them. I was completely blindsided, never expected that from him.
When I confronted him he sobbed to me and said he felt so ashamed and I saw him delete several women from multiple apps because I was willing to give him another chance. Things changed after that, a couple months later I went through his phone again and he was still cheating on me and I decided I was done.
The cheating amplified my insecurities and gave me so much anxiety. I grew depressed and just feeling all sort of things. I overcame the depression but I still suffer from trust issues. It’s ruined my relationships with others and created an intense irrational jealousy within me. Cheating is fucked up on so many levels, cheaters are just cowards. It hurt so much.
My current bf is suffering because my jealousy and lack of trust affects us more often than it should. He’s so patient and understanding though and I can confidently say I love him more than I have ever loved my ex. It does get better you do find someone who wouldn’t ever want to hurt you that way. He knows that it’s my dealbreaker and I’ve made it clear I have zero tolerance for infidelity.
You deserve to feel loved and safe in your relationship. Don’t give this guy another chance, by ending things he will learn the consequences his actions have. And you deserve to put yourself first, he’s not the world. He’s shown you his colors and you’re so young and have a chance at finding the one who will truly value you. I’m sorry. I’d end things and get rid of anyway of keeping in touch. Blocking my ex helped me keep him out of mind. Hang out with friends, talk it out, let it out and take care of yourself ?
I'm an Indian woman who refused to have an arranged marriage. There are very few people who have the courage to go against their parents and “society”. He has already told you that he isn't ready to put up a fight. The answer is quite simple. You leave.
It isn’t a date….it’s friends hanging out
Yes but endless gifts will bore a woman in the long run, unless she’s a gold digger
OP. Stop. This guy is an ass and he loves, absolutely loves, making you feel like trash. If that’s how you want to spend the next 60 years, that’s on you. He’s not going to change.
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Asking the important questions
Why would you want to keep a relationship going with someone you say you don't have as much fun with?
You sound like you care more that he cheated with a man then that he cheated…
I don’t think we can call him straight anymore. He clearly has some interest in people who are not female.
He was living alone for years before this girlfriend, he's not going to change as what he does works for him. There's no indication that he ever asked her to clean his stuff, she took it on herself.
Perfectly said. Also, keep in mind OP, relationships take nude work. It’s not happy days 24/7. There are bound to be arguments. It sounds like you don’t want disagreements at all which is impossible in any given relationship. You either want to be single or just really unaware of what real life is like.
Ummm… ditch this lower, immediately. You're not his mom. If he hates living there so much and he's so bored he can get off of his lazy ass and get a job so that you can BOTH afford another apartment. Personally, I'd call his mom, tell her I'm done taking care of her child and he's no longer welcome in my home. (Well, her in my case, but you know what I mean). This is an incredible level of self entitled, lazy narcissism. This boy will never change if you continue to entertain his nonsense. His mom broke him, she can take care of him.
She sounds like she wants to play the field sinc should two got together young,
I mean I have the text messages, etc for proof and receipts, I came here for advice not to tell tales, it's my first serious relationship/relationship in general so yeah I don't know what i'm doing, what's wrong, right etc, so I'm asking for advice.
Yeah, this is what I am scared of. Of course everyone has the right to set boundaries around ”emotional dumping” so to speak. But this behaviour kind of makes me suspect that he just doesn’t care, it isn’t all about trying to protect his energy from trauma dumping.
The way he said that gave me cold shivers ”you even saying that you have a headache drains my energy” etc
Dump her
She prioritized her money. You were not the priority.
Stick it out. He showed you 100% of his personality and you’re still into him? That’s true love for you. I am pretty sure for the 100th time he has said so, he will change and be better.
Clearly him making fun of everything about you and how you are not a perfect match for him in personality, attraction, and employment status means he won’t replace you.
looking at things clearly, he clearly won’t find anyone to replace you. Who in their right mind can love him unrequitedly. Someone who can’t hold their tongue to keep their job and money. Now imagine him having kids with that attitude, where he has a lot more things to lose. What a stand-up guy.
Honestly, keep pushing. I think you guys are a perfect match.
Edit: I forgot to add /s but thinking about it, I am genuine about my statement.
So the moment he got bj he ran to his friend to tell him? If second guy wanted something from you it was obvious he went to brag about “claiming” you. Just block this idiot and move on.