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Mega Squirt , ♥ Fuck me with the sound of your tips [1685 tokens remaining]
Date: October 22, 2022
Mega Squirt , ♥ Fuck me with the sound of your tips [1685 tokens remaining]
That's what I'd think too, but jt's weird that HE brought it up. That's throwing me off
Guys process memories differently. My wife needs to remind me things all the time, some justified others not. Please, please don’t let this trip you and your relationship up. That would be unnecessary. Please recognize that there is a difference, be kind to your boy and to yourself. Keep an eye on the donut, not on the hole.
Never called you a pedo, calm tf down i literally said “I wouldn’t call you a pedo”.
Get as much evidence as possible. Screenshot all the conversations with other women. Specifically the one where he admits to only staying with you, to financially exploit you.
Lawyer up and Godspeed.
Ofc he didn't tell you. Why would he out himself as a domestic abuser to his next victim? Get out, run away and never look back.
“I know how females can be sometimes”
Please clarify how those ‘females’ can be.
I have no idea what you are upset about here, other than that two people you don’t particularly like tried to congratulate you on graduating?
That's my point. Just like my example, his “boundry” is ridiculous
How long have you been in a relationship?
And the short answer is, if your needs have not been met in a relationship, you communicate that (which you have already done)
If they don’t meet your needs despite being told, it’s because they don’t care if your needs are met.
At that point, it’s better to find someone who actually cares about your needs.
I’m into bdsm too, and if I told my dom that my needs were not being met, he would take it seriously, make a specific effort to fix his behavior, and he would make a concerted effort to maintain that behavior in a consistent way, because he cares about meeting my needs (often more than he cares about meeting his own, unfortunately)
You are being overly sensitive… And it's weird
she wasn't trying to hurt him
She wasn't trying to spare his feelings or give him a full discussion to process them, though. That's why I'm saying it was reckless.
He did try to hurt her in the heat of the moment, after she caught him unawares with information that changes his life plans. This is big deal high stakes stuff, and she tried to treat it like her new favorite ice cream flavor. Whispered revelations at bedtime are fun for sleepover stakes topics, not for life-altering plans.
This is 100% what I’m thinking. Having you there makes it look like they did nothing wrong. There’s no injured party to their affair, because look! it’s all turned out SO well that the ex wife is even here. He’s not a cheater who married his mistress, they are just two lovebirds who have the support of the mother of his children.
You are more than reasonable to allow the children to attend and be cared for by his family or a babysitter. Going to this event is not in your best interests, and your children being there does not require your presence. If you declining to participate (while still allowing the children to go) will ruin their wedding, then it seems to me that they are on shaky ground to begin with.
You have no obligation to him, have dealt with the expense of his affair, and deserve to choose whether or not to accept an invitation. You’re choosing not to, and if anyone else has opinions about that, I’d tell them that you’re so glad the happy couple has their support, and that you have not and will not change your mind.