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Date: October 19, 2022
Frankly, I feel that you're coming off a bit self centered. It sounds like he did something perfectly normal for a 22 year old guy to do on a Friday night, and this is rare for him. Your final is Monday. Not in the morning. You've never seen him drink like this. Jell-o shots will do this to someone who is not a heavy drinker. He needed you for a couple hours tonight. This is life. Something like this will happen to you sooner or later and you will want him to care for you. You're just stressed because of the school work, which is preventing you from being capable of the patience, care, and grace that you would expect from him if the rolls were reversed.
She needs therapy – almost sounds like a PTSD type reaction.
There's no way this is real.
Update: he’s working on the issues and there’s improvement…although slow. Now, I’m working on regaining attraction/interest since I checked out (this went on way too long on his part). Thanks for the input
Bring a vibrator into the bedroom and watch this man spontaneously combust. Sounds like he doesn't want you to feel good. Strange man.. You shouldn't be afraid to touch your own body
Don’t you dare apologize!
You have done nothing wrong. Up that ?? woman warrior in yourself and let him know (along the lines of) “no, I’m not masturbating when you think I think you don’t know, and if I was, who fucking cares. Now, stop acting like a high schooler with his first girlfriend and stop being mean to me. Your questioning my honesty to you and I’m a grown woman”.
Seriously, this is not something that you should put up with for more than one time.
Dude just texted me at 8:03 so he’s alive wrote “I’m I. The woods I’ll be home in a lil bit I needed time alone and everything”. …. Well he’s alive, but idk for how long. Now I got different concerns, but he’s alive. Thanks everyone for helping me get through the night.
Reading over that – yeah, it's odd. It seems like she's the kind of personality that tries to destroy other relationships. It's generic, and backstabby, but it is real. Unfortunately, since you've already communicated your worries, you just need to trust him. A year isn't all that long in the grand scheme, but if you're set on this guy you need to weather the storm. Distance in a relationship is a destructive element, but sometimes necessary to draw the best out of your lives together. Don't let this worry consume you, trust him, but be ready to make hot decisions if you find your trust may have been misplaced.
In the interest of hypothetical speaking, can you see a scenario where someone would not have any sexual intentions toward someone and still send them a hot photo of themself? It seems almost like a plea of innocent where the intent is a falsehood. Not saying your partner has false motives or would ever intend to deceive you but to insinuate that it would not be cheating is claiming that they don't have the intentions that they do therefore you could not even argue that anything more could or would happen because he gave this implausible motive to start with.
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I think you need to address it with them. Like you said you're attracted to femininity, and if that's not part of who she is anymore, then she's not bothered person you started dating.
You didn't give your ages, but is it possible you're both in university and she's been influenced into this way of thinking?
You're being petty, Patty
I’ve always read :p as a kind of “cheeky grin”, it could be a bit flirty but not sexual – but someone who’s interested in you would use it.
I’ll tell you this, if you only watch CNN… you’ll be a damn liberal too, don’t watch one news channel, watch them all and get the Whole story, even then you’re not getting the whole story.
im glad someone else caught that this is a post written by the person with the pee fetish who enjoys describing pee and giggling fiendishly
Hey,
Since we bumped into them, he has spent the whole day ranting about them, his relationship with their daughter, which has led him to ranting about his previous ex's.
I have offered to watch movies and tried to take his mind off things, move the conversation on and asked him if he can stop as we could be doing things together instead of this… But nothings worked & it's been 15+ hours…
I'm just not sure if he's freaking out and trying to over explain everything, but his reaction is making me feel like maybe he has unresolved feelings/issues wrapped up in some of his previous relationships or if I'm overthinking things if that makes sense?
You need to respect yourself and see your self-worth…. this woman doesn't do anything with her life, holds fixing personal issues against you by making you marry her…. she's abusing you. Her own issues are way above your pay grade, and you've tried to be supportive.
You will not have a happy life if you continue in this relationship. She is not going to change once she gets a ring. Or if she does, she will wait until it's official to go back to doing what she was before.
Please, please, please leave. You'll find someone that makes you happy and values the same things. I would also try to date older/your age bc they're more likely to be in the same position as you.
Good luck
Nah, the worst place would be the MIL. ?
All the advice is covered so let me just say I’m really sorry man. That is absolutely brutal and you didn’t deserve it.
Wut.
I mean, I've also seen the same person act differently based on what alcohol, their mood before drinking, and the amount they take in. So I don't fully buy into the trope. Plus, who is the real person, the one who will do anything that crosses their mind or the one who has the ability to think? Oh have you ever heard of the game, “drunk or a kid”? Basically you tell a story about something really stupid you did and the people around guess if you were drunk or really young because no rational adult will do something like jump off a roof wearing a cape because they can fly unless they are under the influence. Or roller skating on the roof, that's another I got to hear.
And yes, I totally agree with what you're saying about the gf. I'd be running as fast as I could unless there were very special circumstances, and even then there would be serious boundaries set. And by special I mean like the person was getting spiked and didn't know how much they were drinking, they never got that drunk before, and had a history of assault. And boundaries would include little or no alcohol moving forward, therapy, and I'd still be really wary because that's a terrifying thing to live! through!
Where I live!, people who have a protection order have been charged with an offence called “aiding and abetting the breach of a domestic violence order” when they have reached out to a partner.
I think you are doing the right thing by not responding to her requests. There are big risks for you on this pathway. However, I always think it is time to end a relationship once it gets to this stage. Notwithstanding that there may be powerful pulls and ties between you.
To bust a nut, duh.
Your parents want you to experience independence; your boyfriend doesn't. They're both being manipulative by making significant threats. At least your parents' manipulation seems directed towards your well-being, which does not seem to be your boyfriend's motivation.
Last sentence is my reasoning for not getting up in the morning as well.
Yeah, with the clubs thing, he says that clubs are for single people that just want to have sex… we met because I ordered a bolt and HE was the one picking me up from the club, which is how we met. Ironic huh? The only reason I go to clubs is for the environment, I love drinking and dancing with others. It’s a little thing I get to do every Friday or Saturday with my girlfriends. I told straight up that I was not going to drop my weekend of fun for him, he was either to come or stay home and I would go out regardless.
I just hate myself for tolerating all that. He ultimately broke up with me because I “complained ” too much.
Thank you for taking the time to see both sides. Last night when he said I’m doing nothing I asked what more I could be doing. He just got more mad and refused to answer and said I’ll never get it. He know I’m applying to jobs and that I’m actively interviewing people, I was gone for 8 hours the other day doing just that and he knew it. He may just be too angry to listen at this point.
I didn't specify sole custody. She doesn't work, clean, cook, or even walk her dog. I'm not sure she could be trusted to use that money responsibly to take care of a child. And money out of OP's pocket that otherwise would be spent on caring for the child wouldn't (in that instance).
So the child would have a lower standard of living while with their father and even less so if their mother mismanaged that support/didn't use it for their child.
I agree there is an argument for standard of living in a general sense with child support when the lower income partner is a responsible adult, but in this specific instance OP's gf can't even take care of herself or her pet properly.
She needs therapy. Maybe tell her that next time someone breaks into the house to nit wake you up and she can take care of it.
Disclaimer: I'm joking. Don't do that cuz she will probably blame you for some other crap.
You are in a toxic relationship. He is not your best friend. You are not great together. You have formed an unhealthy attachment to a man who refuses to be loyal to you. Instead of letting you break up, he’s threatening his life to keep you hostage.
First of all, I’m so sorry that you had to go through that. And good job on blocking them both. I think it’s in your best interest to have no contact with either of those people from now on. Know that you will heal from this. It’s probably gonna hurt for a while but you were eventually will get over it. Time will help you until the time passes, spend time and energy on yourself do things to make you happy take you out on dates by yourself flowers get your hair done take a course and something interesting just for fun that you like go out with friends surround yourself with positive people and positive influences try exercising just to make yourself feel better with those endorphins spend time with family that you love that makes you feel good. Take dogs for a walk to the animal shelter just focus on you and who you want to become and you will heal from this. I’m so sorry it happened. Also know that you didn’t deserve any of this. It shows that he is a terrible person and it shows nothing about you or that you’re loving and willing to look for the good of people this wasn’t your fault in the slightest.
Dude you are so dense. It’s not about controlling you, it’s about being partners and sharing a future. CLEARLY you don’t see her as a future partner or equal which is why she’s mad. Just break up and be single forever bc you do not know how to share a life with someone and you don’t seem interested in sharing your life with anyone.
Love this reply. ?
Thank you for your kind words of encouragement. I really appreciate it, your wife is a lucky woman!
If I was either I wouldn't waste my time with either.
If someone told me that they were in love with someone and was rejected by them and still spent a lot of time with them, I'd be out of there like the Tasmanian devil. I think you set yourself up for disappointment the moment you were even okay with him saying that, being rejected doesn't mean he's over everything
I mean I get not being comfortable with her, but telling him to end a 17 year friendship over a gf?
I mean y'all don't sound like youve been together long therefor you can't really make these decisions.
I read clown so I said clown…
This is really not normal. No offence but she sounds insane.
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