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Anna-Vebsh Public Chat Channel
Date: October 1, 2022
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Anna-Vebsh Public Chat Channel
Thank you for your response. It's just a sad situation because we love each other very much but I just don't see how this relationship can continue and evolve if his roommate continues to be in the equation. The other problem is that they've been friends for a while and it just seems to me that he cares a little too much what his roommate thinks. Like I said, he works two jobs and I don't want things to be harder on him but it's like when am I ever supposed to voice having an issue with something?
I've explained to him that I understand that his roommate makes the rules because it's also his place but I don't think it's right of him to basically ban me from the apartment because he doesn't like that I make noise. The reason why I think that this may be a case of his friend being upset that he started a relationship with me and he is no longer the center of my boyfriend's attention is because he's also disabled. I just think he's being super hypocritical.
Like I said, I feel like I walked into a situation with someone who is not ready to have a relationship. I have gently told him this and I have not attacked him but I've just laid out the way things are. He always gets upset and begs me not to leave him but I'm just not happy with the way things are. There is real love there and we support each other and we have a lot of fun when we are together but I just don't see it being conducive to a future together.
Do do feel emotionally connected and supported? Does she?
When you do something nice for her or there’s physical touch, is there a strong hope of sex?
Have you asked her how she would like to be approached for sex?
I’m confused as to why she would say if you stop initiating, she will feel undesirable…when sex isn’t important to her. I’d ask her why that’s important to feel desired by you when she’s not interested in connecting in that way.
How else do you feel unseen and heard by her?
Do you know any of the other wedding party spouses? Why no +1 for spouses. Ask him why can’t you offer to pay for yourself and go with them. I could see if it was just the groomsmen going, but this is not good.
I am, always unranked match with her but same outcome.
She probably thinks you're cheating. Just tell her.
Why did she say she hates him?