I feel like your problems do have their reason and if you can;t even explain whatthey are you might need couples therapy.
Alternatively if problems start arise seemingly without a reason, it is because one party is trying to sabotage relationship. Most commonly, because they have some other person they want to get with. After all it is easier to break up already disfunctional relationship so why not make it disfunctional first? Could it be what is happening here?
Anways should be able to properly ocnverse with your partner to get to bottom of your issues it would be much easier. You should just look for a common part of your arguments or that they have no sensible reason at all and then come forth with your thoughs to her. This would reveal either your problems as relationship, your problems as a partner, her issues or that issues are made up and she is sabotaging. If it's beyoind you,then ask her to come with you to couples therapy, because you want to stay with her and repair your relationship.
Exactly! OP she’s trying to use you, don’t let her
I feel like your problems do have their reason and if you can;t even explain whatthey are you might need couples therapy.
Alternatively if problems start arise seemingly without a reason, it is because one party is trying to sabotage relationship. Most commonly, because they have some other person they want to get with. After all it is easier to break up already disfunctional relationship so why not make it disfunctional first? Could it be what is happening here?
Anways should be able to properly ocnverse with your partner to get to bottom of your issues it would be much easier. You should just look for a common part of your arguments or that they have no sensible reason at all and then come forth with your thoughs to her. This would reveal either your problems as relationship, your problems as a partner, her issues or that issues are made up and she is sabotaging. If it's beyoind you,then ask her to come with you to couples therapy, because you want to stay with her and repair your relationship.
What 20 year old University girl is offering you kids? You’re getting ahead of yourself.
Why doesn’t he work?
This feels really red-flaggy
No way you just said a cheater is not the bad guy. Some of y'all are trying to make the people that post here into doormats.
OP is only 25 he can has plenty of time to find someone who won't cheat on him and then lie to him for 6 years about it.