It is going to affect your relationship and he may want to break up with you. Before you tell him, make sure that you have a place to stay if he kicks you out.
Why would you mention it at all…? You can't think of a right way because there is no right way. If you agree to a monogamous relationship, be monogamous. If you're falling for other people, stop hanging around them. Is it really that hot to be monogamous?
In reality, I think most guys could care less about their partners past. Personally, I just don’t want to be treated like the “safe guy” and want my partner to at least try make our sex life the “best” even if it’s not at first.
So your bf doesn’t hang out with you any more and wants to keep you a dirty little secret?
Doesn’t sound like you have a bf.
Tell his wife!!!
Its not you, Its the people your meeting.
It is going to affect your relationship and he may want to break up with you. Before you tell him, make sure that you have a place to stay if he kicks you out.
They will do nothing. It’s likely it’s not illegal, and even if so, it would be impossible to prove it was done intentionally.
I get this visual of a black widow spider trapping and eating her mate. I mean it would scare me off.
Why would you mention it at all…? You can't think of a right way because there is no right way. If you agree to a monogamous relationship, be monogamous. If you're falling for other people, stop hanging around them. Is it really that hot to be monogamous?
They do now you just have to push a little.
therapy asap
In reality, I think most guys could care less about their partners past. Personally, I just don’t want to be treated like the “safe guy” and want my partner to at least try make our sex life the “best” even if it’s not at first.