You all are very young so I get it. My main issue is you are making decisions for the girl you like. And he may like. Women really really REALLY dislike when men settle this between themselves for their men feelings and then decide for the woman involved where her heart should be.
For all either of you know her heart is elsewhere outside your group.
And you cant see it but everyone in your friend group( including you) is treating everyone else like barbie dolls to be paired up and who should date who. Autonomy is a thing and its important and a group of friends should never dictate your romantic path. Life is long and people come and go in your life.
Very normal to worry. Friends do have sex. It just happens.
Id say let it go and move on.
You all are very young so I get it. My main issue is you are making decisions for the girl you like. And he may like. Women really really REALLY dislike when men settle this between themselves for their men feelings and then decide for the woman involved where her heart should be.
For all either of you know her heart is elsewhere outside your group.
And you cant see it but everyone in your friend group( including you) is treating everyone else like barbie dolls to be paired up and who should date who. Autonomy is a thing and its important and a group of friends should never dictate your romantic path. Life is long and people come and go in your life.
How is it not?
No, no, no.
This is NOT the man you want to have a child with.
This is NOT the man you want to have a life with.
This is NOT the man who will ever be satisfied.
This is the part where YOU open your eyes and see him for what he is. A selfish prick who only cares about looks.
Know your worth.