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There was another reddit story where the husband pressured the wife into getting pregnant and it gave her so much anxiety that it wound up killing her and now the husband sees his regrets every time he looks at his child. He knows if he wouldn't have pressured her, she would've still been happy and alive. There are several other stories of situations where one person pressured the other into having kids and now they hate each other and the kids for it, just glance through reddit a bit and I'm sure you'll find some of these stories
How much more evidence do you need that this isn't a good relationship to be in?
I understand why it would hurt you. And trusting your gut about trust can be useful (so what you said makes sense) but it can also be misleading, inaccurate, or incomplete. For example some people think someone is cheating and untrustworthy simply when they won’t share their phone because that’s what a cheater did to them in the past. Other times people don’t notice untrustworthy behavior as it’s been normalized for them.
So it often helps to look over your gut instinct on trust, decide what actually makes sense, what doesn’t, and what needs to be more specific. I say this because what she’s doing is iffy so might be good to look more closely at her behavior via a more defined idea of trust. So to do that google how to tell if someone is trustworthy. Write down what you use to determine trust, and then read articles from reputable sources and put together a list from both that speaks to your values and boundaries, the strongest values and boundaries often being what you got the least of or what hurt you the most in the past. Keeping in mind no one’s perfect so people aren’t going to get everything right and if you expect these things from others you need to do them as well.
Then once you have the list, it can do three things for you. One, help you better identify behaviors of yours, of others or both that are untrustworthy or undermine trust from the get go, so you can work on those issues directly or end things when you realize there’s a trust issue. Two, it can help reassure you or others or both where you can trust each other by highlighting already present trustworthy behaviors. And three, the more you use and refine the list, the more the information will become second nature, such that in time you won’t need it. I also have a generic list (compiled from various psychology sources on trust) that could help get you started. If that interests you, let me know and I’ll send it your way.
I probably couldn't forgive.
Ok, this is what you should do:
Pretend that as long as she gave you back the $$, you'd consider forgiving her. Then after she did, keep the $$ and break up with her.
This is the way!