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angel-sailent Public Chat Channel
Date: November 8, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
angel-sailent Public Chat Channel
so in a comment you worte you are getting married on Sunday yet your hear asking for what exactly?
do you have doubts? do you even have stopped and ask yourself why you even keep response to someone who seem to have no respect for your relationship or your current soon to be wife?
she only came around probably because she fears she is losing the “back up relationship” for her…you are not that important to her she just selfish and wanna keep you as back burner for herself.
I suggest strongly to stop replying and say once for all
“I am in love with my soon to be wife and Because you keep saying I should break up with her- please don't wirte or call me anymore!”
He is gaslighting you. If my math is correct, you got together at 17. Of course you want new experiences. He is making a choice. He is in a rut and will hold you back. Show him that he should either go with you, or end it.
I didn't call it to her face, I texted her in private, so that she won't be embarassed. But also I was expressing my frustrations
Yeah. What a lot of people don't realize is that, up until that moment, OP's perception of her was that she was a loyal girlfriend – that was the perception. Who they are/were. Finding out your girlfriend cheated, even if it was years ago, is like finding out your childhood friend was stealing your parents money all this time, or your favorite teacher is a racist – you're gonna look at that person completely different, like they're somebody else. It's not even the transgression any more than it is the idea of who they thought you were, is now gone, and they have trouble coming to terms with the person they now know you are. You might as well be somebody else. A stranger – that's what it's like.
As for OP, I'm assuming you two were serious and in a relationship, and not that “what are we?” phase. If that's the case, to me, it's unforgiveable. Trust is important, and she “knowingly” broke that trust for temporary release. You don't throw away a relationship over that, unless you don't value said relationship. You know where she stands, and what she's capable of – why stay?